I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Thursday, August 31, 2006

Going without Prozac

I just loved Bonnie post on the benefits of spanking verses Prozac. I thought Bonnie was brilliant as usual but what really cracked me up today was when a friend at work asked me when I started taking Prozac. I laughed and told her I wasn’t taking anything. She said “Well what is going on with you then? We have worked together for over 10 years and you have never been this happy. You sit in these meeting where they keep giving us more and more crap to do and you just keep grinning like nothing can bother you. You have to be on some happy pill!”

It shows!!!! It’s not my imagination, it’s not going away, and I love it!! As the conversation continued I told her I was kinda down because this was Nick golf weekend and he was going to be gone. She jumped in again “And what’s with that! You used to say that was your favorite weekend of the year because you got rid of the kids and got to spend it all by yourself. You guy learn some new position over the summer or what?” What fun! If she only knew!!


  1. Elis - what a hoot! If she only knew is right! Thanks for your words of encouragement when I needed it. I am feeling much more calm and confident today. Thanks again so very much. I think I will start posting once a week about how our relationship has evolved through our new lifestyle. I'll let you know what day, ok? Have a great weekend! D

  2. Oh, if only she knew indeed. Bonnie was right about the benefits of spanking over Prozac!

    I hope you have a great weekend, too!

    **Big Hugs**
    ♥ CeeCi

  3. Elis, that really cracked me up. Which will you start with,OTK, two or more pillows on the bed, side of bed, end of bed, couch arm, back of chair, or just under the arm, need I go on, and yes even for Dom's way better than Prozac.
    Big hugs,

  4. Did you tell her "yes" as a matter of fact you did find some new postitons???

    Nobody has to know that some of the positions are over his knee!


  5. Anonymous5:11 PM

    Elis~ I don't know if I would follow Grace's advice here. I mean in my place of employment if I was to say yes... well they of course would want to know what that position is.... mmmmmm... don't go there!!! It will get you into trouble!!! LOL


  6. Elis-
    I sounds like you have found the right prescription for you two! You sound very happy. I hope your Nick has a nice weekend but hurries home to you.


  7. Very funny and very true. "a new position indeed".LOL

    Diane is much better with spanking therapy. :)

    Have a great weekend.

  8. Anonymous5:54 AM

    It's so great that your only problem is trying to keep the grin off your face!!!
    WTG ;)

  9. D, I'll be checking in daily. I like to hear what you have to say!

    As for our new positions - I'm not giving away my secrets! They can find new positions on their like I did!

    Cassie, I do love my new prescription and have already become addicted!

    Sky, best problem I've ever had!


  10. Anonymous9:56 PM


    A new position indeed! I'm glad you're getting the right dosage.


  11. Anonymous11:15 PM

    Yep that O.k.T. posistion is fantastic!
    How exciting to have your happiness show - good for you!
    I don't get over to you often, but when I do, I am always thrilled. I enjoy your writing and I love how you are experiencing a new begining in a 23 yr old marriage. To me that is what dreams are made of - way to go, and thanks for making me smile.

  12. Bonnie,
    I was tickled that she asked me the veay day you posted that piece. LOL

    So glad you stopped by. All this surely seems like a dream to me.!