I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Lovely Blogger Award

I’ve enjoyed seeing the Lovely Blogger Award being passed around.  I think it shows real support throughout our community.  I especially want to thank those of you who nominated me, Spanky , Slightly Naughty Princess and Fondlers Anonymous.  I appreciate the thought.  As I understand it you are supposed to give 7 new facts about yourself and then nominate 15 other bloggers. 

Both of these things are hard for me.  I’ve been spilling my guts for out here for 6 years, how many more new things could I possible tell you?  But I’ll still give it a try in a minute.

Now about nominating other bloggers – no way.  There are several blogs out here now because of my pushy, badgering ways. I’m really proud of that, and all of them are lovely boggers.  I also have many good friends I’ve been reading for years and I’m happily getting to know new folks every day. I suggest you check out as many sites as you can and read all the comments.   You’ll easily find ‘your’ special group.

Now on to those 7 new things.

Nick came in as I was writing this post (about 9 PM) and asked if I wanted to go skinning dipping with him, I did and I did.

·         I was a virgin when I met Nick, he’s the only man I’ve ever slept with or ever plan to.

·         Given the chance to make my own schedule I’d stay up until around 2 AM and sleep until around 9 in the morning.  Get up and write until noon and then doing what ever else I have to do for the day.

·         I’ve been to 30 states, 5 countries and 3 continents.  My parents were the travelers.  I kinda like staying home.

·        I’ve spayed a cat all by myself. (I was a vet technician before I was a teacher. A stray was brought in to be put to sleep and I asked the Dr. if I could try spaying it.  I had assisted with thousands.   He said fine.  I did it and it and the cat recovered beautifully.  Then I was able to find her a home!)

·       I’ve told 9 different vanilla friends or family members about TTWD and there have been no negative reactions at all.

·         My earliest memory as a child, when I was 3 or 4, was sitting in the hall of my home, under a TV tray, which was draped with a big towel.  I was making up stories in my head.  Hmmm… same thing I do now, except I don’t sit under a TV tray.


  1. Pk,
    You have just shattered one of my firm beliefs.
    For almost 35 years I was convinced that my wife and I were the last virgins ever to be married.

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  3. Damn Blogger. Always when you publish a comment and then use the back-key, the comment is placed a second time. I see that all over the place.

  4. I enjoyed reading the 7 new things about you. Interesting you've been creating stories so long! Have a great day.

  5. Anonymous9:13 AM

    Hi PK, I didn't sit under a sheet, I closed my eyes. I also do that with ideas for painting.
    My hubby was my one and only too!

  6. 9 friends! I think mine would be fine with it too - but H is worried how HIS friends would view me - something different.

    I love when people participate in the new things - cause even when you think we know it all, there is always something new and surprising.

  7. You deserve your nomination - seven more things I now know about you.
    WOW - more secrets unleashed.

  8. PK,
    now I know even more about you. evil grin!
    Of course you are a lovely blogger, no doubt about it.
    Love and warm hugs,

  9. I'm one of those blogs that resulted from your badgering and pushy ways. I'm so thankful every day for it :)

    Picturing you sitting under a tv tray thinking up your stories makes me smile.

  10. Faerie, I.m glad I.m not the only victim of PK's badgering and pushy ways.

  11. Bas,
    To be completely honest, we didn’t wait until the wedding. But I was 24 and I did wait for the man I was going to love forever. And I can promise this won’t be the last time you cuss blogger!

    I think some stories just follow me around until I capture them in my computer.

    I do that now; I think lots of times Nick thinks I’m napping when I’m really writing.

    None of the one’s I’ve told understand anything about discipline or submission, they ignore anything I say about that and think of it only as foreplay – unfortunately, Nick does the same thing.

    Yep a girl just can’t keep any secrets as a blogger! LOL!

    I don’t think there could be anything you don’t know about me by now. But love you coming of course.

    The whole community is luck to have you here. So glad you started blogging!

    Bless your heart! I can’t wait to read your blog and learn more about you.

  12. I am so with you on the ideal schedule, but I have to wake up at 5:00 a.m. so Sir puts me to bed at 9:30 at night.

  13. Poured out,
    I wish someone would make me go to bed earlier. I can't seem to make myself and I know I don't get enough sleep durning the school year.

  14. PK: As one of those bloggers you "encouraged" to start a blog and even set it up, I want to thank you for what you've meant to our little community and how you have made a difference in our lives.

    And to actually meet you last fall and to find out you are as delightful in person as you are online was so much fun.

    I look forward to continuing to read your blog.


  15. Well deserved PK. Why did you change your career? Just me being nosey:)