I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Feel Free to Blame Me!

If it’s my fault, I fully accept it.  Another one of my friends has started a blog.  I hope you’ll all go by and read what Bas has to say at his new site, New Life in DD.  As I told him in comment I am very happy he will be blogging because I love hearing a man’s point of view. 
I love my women friends out here, but often I feel like we’re preaching to the choir.  We understand each other very well.  I’ll read some post and think, ‘Did I write this? It’s exactly what I think.’ These women have helped me enormously, but I am always anxious to hear a man’s point of view.  Paul, Florida Dom and now Bas can share that point of view with us.
Honestly, Bas did this all on his own, you can barely see my fingerprints on his back.  So go by and welcome him to the neighborhood.  And keep your fingers crossed, I know of one more blog that might be on its way.  I’ll let you know.


  1. PK,
    I will read and welcome, I make no further promises.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. Thanks for letting us know about his blog.

  3. PK,
    Thank for your free publicity.
    But, I don’t really expect anyone to actually read my boring little blog.
    I just started it to get rid of hat itchy feeling of your fingers in my back LOL.

  4. LOL @Bas, none of us expect anyone to read when we first start blogging.

    Thanks for letting us know about the new blog. I'm with you about being excited to hear about this from a man's POV.

  5. Thanks PK. Will pop over and say hello to Bas.


  6. It's exciting to see a new blog in blogland - almost like welcoming a new baby to the family!

  7. Thanks PK for the tip. I agree with you about liking to hear things from a man's point of view.

  8. I will definitely go by. He has made great comments on your blog and even visited mine.

  9. Just followed. I love hearing the man's perspective...

  10. Way to take responsibility! I have seen several "it's all PK's fault" posts lately lol. Now we know it's true!
    It's neat though--you have inspired people. And that is a very cool feeling.

  11. Paul,
    You men are very special out here.

    Always glad to introduce a new neighbor.

    Ha! I don’t believe it for a minute. We all like to have a place to give and get opinions. I think it’s human nature. And over the months, I think you’ll be surprise at how many come by to read.

    Gee, you think our husbands will ever have a blog – yeah, I’m not holding my breath either.

    New friends everywhere.

    That’s a good way to put it.

    It’s very interesting. They think we’re hard to understand, but I think they are the one that confuse me sometimes.

    I think we’ve found another friend!

    Do you think we can learn something?

    Inspired, badgered, pushed, pestered – whatever, but I’m glad so many of my friends are willing to share their thoughts.

  12. PK: Instead of blame, there should be congratulations on getting another blogger to join our community. And always good to have another male voice.