I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Saturday, December 16, 2006


My birthday was superb! It’s not over yet and I hope to give all the details soon but I just wanted to relate a conversation we had with our friends tonight. This is the couple we are closest to in our real lives. He was the best man in our wedding. Let’s call them Bob and Carol. Now some background, Bob and Nick go back to way before I met Nick. Bob is a unique individual. I can’t begin to tell you all about him but he and I have always flirted with each other, the 4 of us would always tease about mate swapping, just crazy stuff. He offered me $100 if I would dance nude on the table once when we all went out together. I was 8 ½ months pregnant at the time. A couple of years back when Carol and I had gone to a baby shower and Nick and Bob went out for a beer Bob turned to Nick and said “When we used to talk about mate swapping, I swear this was not how I pictured it!”

We actually hadn’t seen each other often over the last several months but when we saw them a week or so ago Bob just asked me how thing were going and I told them things were fantastic! Never better. He gave me a long look, I swear he was thinking something but he just grinned and said, “That’s good!” After we ate and visited for a while this evening we were out at the car talking before we left. I showed them the gift my partner at school had gotten me today. It was an outfit to wear tonight; it was a Santa hat and a pair of granny panties, fully decorated with Christmas ornaments, including a small red decorative rope. I mentioned that Mollie's friend had commented that we could use that to tie each other up. Bob jumped right in and said that sounded like a good idea. I said the rope was too rough for my taste. He said “Well you can use softer restraints”.

Then he said “I got to tell you about this couple at work! Both of them work with me, she maybe weigh a hundred pound and her husband no more that one twenty. They are just a little old country couple. But she started telling a co-worker about how she sometimes ties him to the bed and beat his ass with a belt and then rubbed ice on the welts.” Bob and Carol were both laughing like crazy! As were we! He went on “Now you know if a guy is going to let his wife tie him down and beat his ass it because he gets to have a turn himself later. Now you know I find nothing wrong with enjoying the somewhat stranger things in life and if you and Nick told me you were doing this I could believe it” But he said he just could not believe it of this couple. I said “Well you never really know people” then I said “Bobby we got to talk sometime!”

As Nick and I closed the car doors I said to him, “That was the strangest conversation I have ever had in real life! Honey, our friends are definitely spankos!” I’m sure of it because of this and because of a short conversation we had maybe as much as 8 years ago. They talked about naked “massages” using wooded spoons. Carol said “I don’t mean he beats me or anything, but it feels really good.” Well of course at that time my spanko ears tuned in on that at once yet I never said a word to Nick. But we both remembered this conversation. They are one of the closest couples I know and they love spending time together. Well, am I right? We know them well and soon I will be asking!


  1. PK, I would say almost certainly spanko's, if they are such good friends what have you got to lose.
    Hope that Nick gave you an entirely enjoyable birthday spanking.
    Have fun this week end babe.
    Warmest hugs,

  2. I think you are right. I think part of the closeness is a give away. Spankibg and submission breaks barriers between couples.

    But if they are not, I bet things changed some after the conversation thay had on the way home!

    Huggs glad you day was so wonderful, but still not over.


  3. Anonymous11:08 AM

    I can't wait to hear their response!!!

    I am so glad that your birthday was so wonderful!! It almost makes me wish I was 50.

    Then again...


    I like you being the older one!!


  4. Elis,

    If you ask the question, I presume you are prepared to answer it...


  5. Paul it was great and I will blog about it soon!

    There closeness is a big key!

    Don't worry! You'll be 50 before you know it!

    Excellent point!


  6. I "confessed" to one of my friends (she's not a blogger) by pretending I'd just discovered the DD world... she became very interested in the subject (although she's never had the nerve to try it), and as time went on, I just kept her updated with "new" developments in my marriage and how much it helped us to be closer.

    Although I felt a bit guilty over the little white lies, I can now talk to her about it openly.

    Just a thought LOL


  7. Wow! I'd have to say their spankos! Now wouldn't it be strange, but great! to suddenly be able to talk about things openly with them? I love when things like this happen!

  8. That would be too kewl, and we would be so jealous! Cindy and I have often talked about having close friends whom we could meet with socially who were also spankos.

    Of course in fantasy life at least once or twice a spanking might be given or watched in their presence. But at the very least it would be wonderful to be able to openly and honestly talk about the fact that spanking really does make the relationship so much deeper.

    And I agree with Bonnie... if you're going to ask, you have to know beforehand how much you're willing to share.


  9. Reesa, Cindy and Dave,
    I would love to have people in real life to talk to about this wonderful past time. I understand that if I chose to ask them I can't go back. But with these guys even it they have never thought of it and I outted us to them, they would just laugh and love it!


  10. I think they are too! I would definitely ask! What fun it would be to have someone so close also being one!!!