I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Thursday, December 10, 2009

So that's where PK came from...

Bonnie had a good question on her brunch last Sunday. She was asking what we could do to help others feel more welcomed in blogland. It was good discussion that you can read here. She mentioned as we got to know each other better there are sometimes jokes we share that new comers might not understand. Then she mentioned that not everyone knows why I go by PK instead of Elis, the name I started with. Since I had a couple of folks ask I thought I tell those of you that weren’t around at the time.

The original Fantasy Friday was a guessing game. The idea at the time was for several of us that had become friends to write fantasy stories and send them in. Then everyone could all guess who wrote it. Many of us had begun to recognize each others writing styles so we worked hard to try to fool each other.

I had become close friends with several bloggers at the time. Friday morning as soon as I got to school Eva – my best buddy mind you, emailed me about the Fantasy Friday story. Her first words were “It’s got to be Grace!” I had to agree it did sound like Grace so when I got home that night Grace got my vote. Eve and I talked about it a couple of times over the weekend and then Monday morning I got to read the reveal. The author wasn't Grace – it was that sneaky Eva herself!!

So… well I’ll let you read what Eva posted later that day. (Her words are in red and she is quoting my emails and comments in blue.)


I was so excited to wake up and see my story. And yes, I definitely had some fun with Elis over it. Guilty as charged. I saw Ellis' comment on the reveal post. It said:

"I'll tell you what Elis' face looks like right now! Pissed!

(Really? Kinda like this mean little kitty?)

I'll get her! LOL! What kind of friend intentionally leads someone to the wrong

(One who wants to mess with your mind a bit??)

The first email I got from her last Friday said "It's got to be Grace!" It was
Nick that said "I don't know it could be Eva"

(That Nick, he's a wise fella~ you ought to pay more mind to him)

Just wait, just wait. I'm plotting now!!"

(Should I be skeered ??)

And actually, I was the first one to post on the Fantasy Friday reveal this morning:

"Yes, I too would love to
see Elis face when she sees this today.....

I suppose I should ask her to forgive me cuz I did mess with her head a b
it on Friday, pretending it HAD to be Grace and all.....

Forgive me, Elis?"

Oh, but wa
it. There's more. I got to work this morning and sent her a "Good grief, is it Monday already, Have a nice day" kind of email. It was really nice and all but what do I get in return? Have a look.....

"I'll get you."

(As in "I'll get you, my pretty?" Oh, dear.)

Its one thing to jump to the wrong conclusion, but you PUSHED me!

(Yes, but I'm a good guy. It was for your own good. Yeah, that's it. It was for your own good.)

And what really makes me mad is that Nick said he thought it might be you.

(Told ya, he's a very wise man that Nick)


(Yes, dog gone it... isn't Elis cute when she's "pissed?") And if I seriously thought for one second that Elis was REALLY upset with me, I'd be on my knees apologizing. We'll see what her response to this post is though. ROFL


LOL! It was all in fun and we got a big kick out of that day. Several of my friends started calling me 'Pissed Kitty' - even Nick when I got on a roll, so it ended up sticking. I got a kick out of it and eventually the PK became permanent. I felt like I had been re-christened by my buddies. So now when I hear Elis it sounds like a stranger. I never intended to be PK but for better or worse I think that's who I am.


  1. PK, yes you have it, life wouldn't be the same without my friend PK.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. LOL sounds like fun. PK is how I know you and you will always be PK.

    I always wondered why and now I know, thanks for sharing.

  3. Thanks for explaining. I knew you were once called Elis, and also knew what PK stood for, but I've never heard the whole story before.


  4. Anonymous2:31 PM


    I had a similar picture of an orange cat. I posted the pic on the frige with a warning: Don't make mom look like this!! It didn't work mind you, but at least they were warned! Now start writing my dear - even though I loved the memory!! I know we can partner - you write and I'll pretend Christmas is coming in 15 daze!! hugs, KayLynn

  5. Anonymous5:16 PM

    PK, just an idea... if you don't have a fantasy Friday story...you could convince Eva to share the story that changed your name (for those of us who missed it. Please!?)

  6. Thanks PK,

    I'd been wondering who this 'Elis" person was.

  7. Paul,
    You have been my friend for many years now and I hope it continues for many, many more.

    Like I said that who I feel like now. And it's comfortable.

    On one hand it all feels like yesterday but this made me realize it's really been a while.

    I always love the picture of that cat! Exactly how I felt that morning! Writing? On top of everything else my hands are hurting a lot these days.

    Great minds think alike! It will be up tomorrow. Please come back.

    she was someone here a long, long time ago. I never really got to know her - LOL!