I love being a part of this community because when I have the random spanking question pop into my mind I have a place to ask them. I think most of us have our own little collection of toys, or maybe not so little. One thing I wonder about is where do you keep them. A few of us are empty nesters, but I haven’t always been and I know many of you aren’t. If you have older children you know that there is a chance they will suddenly turn up in your room, going thorough your drawer or even closet in search of – a safety pen, a deck of cards, a pair of socks, their birth certificate, who knows!
So, do you have a good hiding place? Where do you keep your toys, are they protected by a lock? In your night stand? Spread all over? Most of ours are in a locked brief case under our bed, but some of the larger items like the long leather strap, the crop, the long paddle, and the damn cane (I’m not cussing, that’s it’s name), are in Nick suit bag hanging in the closet. Even with an empty house we are still pretty carefully about putting things away.
Having our kids stumble across a spanking implement or even a sex toy would not be good, but I really have a much greater fear and it lead me to my next question. What would happen if something suddenly happened to Nick and me? I don’t mean to be morbid, but it is a possibility. The thought of my children, it the midst of the trauma of a sudden accident, reaching into dad’s suit bag and find implements of ass destruction, with no one to explain things to them. What the heck are they going to think?
I have made arrangements with my sister and my best friend here, both of whom know all about my lifestyle, to try to get the stuff out before the kids see it. I can just picture my sister dropping the briefcase out the window, followed by the big paddle, the crop, the strap with the holes, the dogging bat and the damn cane, to my friend under the cover of darkness. And I imagine the two of them later prying the briefcase open to see exactly want it contains. LOL! I just hope that they crack open a bottle of wine and toast us if they do.
But lets face it; they may not be able to accomplish this with out being discovered. What would you do? I mean really, imagine you kids (or your parents, depending on your age) doing through your spanking implements, your cuffs, ropes, vibrators, butt plugs and dildos. Quite a thought, huh?
My parents are gone and my kids grown (mostly), but I honestly think I’m going to write a letter and put it in with our toys, a type of explanation to the kids. I don’t want them traumatized and even perhaps wondering if there was any abuse. All I would say is that despite how unusual they feel our collection might be, it was collected over the years in fun, in love, and for our mutual enjoyment. We enjoyed this type of play and it brought us to a place in our live where we were the happiest and the closest we have ever been.
So here you have my questions. Where do you keep your toys? What will happen to them one day? And do you think I’m crazy to leave a letter with ours?