I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Monday, April 23, 2007

A little backwards

You know Eva and have gotten to know each other well. We talk a lot (three times by phone today but that is a bit unusual). In an email last week I mentioned that she probably knew me better than anyone since… Then I realized I couldn’t come up with anyone ever who has known me any better. I told her we were so close because of our backward friendship. What is a backward friendship you might ask?? It is what we all have here.

This is what I mean – think of some of your friends in real life. The ones you see socially, at work or at church, the ones you are close to. I bet some of these folks you have know for years, yet do you really know then. Tell me which ones can squirt when they orgasm? Which of them are anal erotic? Do any of them have 50 butt plugs in a box in the closet (remember those were not mine, Theresa brought her over!) Which of your friends enjoy the occasional golden enema??

Come on now you know these people! Which of your real life friends would rather not give a BJ and which ones can suck a bowling ball through a garden hose? Which of these friends always shave the kitty and did any of the couples you know shave each other on their honeymoon? Come on now, do you know which of them wears grannies and which wear thongs?

Do your close friends in real life like to get their ass spanked?? If they do what are there reasons? Would some get there butt warmed for calling it their ass? Maybe for not cleaning the bathroom or taking out the trash. Possibly for keeping too much stuff in their new closet. Could it be for gaining weight or maybe not keeping the kitty shaved? Maybe it’s for coming without permission. Or maybe they get their butt’s blistered because they love it and it makes them hot or maybe just for the hell of it!!!

If they are into spanking where all have they been spanked?? In the middle of the road in front of their house, under a tree? Maybe over a rock wall or a washing machine, in a car, in the shower, in a casino, in the woods, holding on to a step ladder, on a beach, in the mountains?

What are their favorite implements? Maybe a hairbrush, a crop, a flogger, a backscratcher, a cane, bungee or a tawse? Or maybe they are new to all this and are just trying to get their SO to understand. Well come on, you know these people!! You see them all the time. So do you know the answer?? No? Gee, I could give you most the answers for my friends here!!

Backwards! Think about what we know about each other here and yet do we ask these question on blog – do you have children? How many? What are their names? What is your husband’s name? What does he do for a living? Where do you work? Where do you live?

Please, now you’re getting a little personal!!


  1. Anonymous5:45 AM

    Wow. We are a backwards bunch aren't we? I'd never quite thought of it the way you explain it. Interesting post, twin!!


  2. I couldn't agree more...

  3. PK, who's a clever girl then. :-)
    Well thought out post and so true.
    I'll add one caveat, if we could be sure that only our friends could read, most of us would be a lot more open.
    Warm hugs,

  4. Erm as Eva said - WOW.
    That truly was something I had never thought about before. And what a concept, 'backward friends'.
    I have to admit though; for me knowing about peoples sex lives and spankings are a lot more interesting, then whose starting school this term!
    Although that can be pretty interesting too ;-)

    Great post...
    Em x

  5. ROFL - love your thoughts, PK! We all know these things but you put a new spin on them!


    P.S. I have SIX kids!

  6. I love this post. This is sooo true. I know none of my friends know that kind of relationship I have with my husband. I do not think they would approve, but who knows some of them are reading this post too hehe. I would like to think so.

  7. PK,
    What a wonderful way of putting it! It's true and I just love it!


  8. Twin,
    Backward but bonded!

    Strange but true...

    You are 100% correct!

    Starting off this way may be unusual but it is fun!!

    SIX! Good Grief!!

    I am at an age where I don't think my friends would disapprove but never in a million years would they believe it!! LOL!

    You always make me smile!

  9. Paul's nailed it again, as have you, my dear friend. But something else strikes me as equally important here... that sometimes (maybe even often) because of our guise of anonymity here in bloggerland, we are free to be more open and extroverted about many topics and in many ways that we are not at all comfortable with in real life. And that tends to bond us even more tightly to those who have earned our trust here.

    But unfortunately I've also encountered those who believe that because we may "bahve" a certain way online yet behave differently in real life, that somehow makes us less real... nothing could be further from the truth but this type of forum is so incredibly freeing and I am personally blessed by the abundance of true friends I have found here.

    I see it a bit differently cause my friends here aren't backwards... those are the ones I couldn't be as open and honest with in real life...

    Love you so, PK,

  10. Yep we are backwards alright! Talking to each other on here is like talking to ourselves in our heads!

  11. Tig,
    How ever we relate backwards or forwards I am just glad we all found each other!

    I carry all of you guys in my head so I guess that's who I am talkng to.

  12. PK: You were really right on with that backward friends comments. Yes, we do share so much of our lives on these blogs and I think that's why we become such close friends. We're more real on the blogs than we are in real life.