I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Sunday, July 24, 2011

One day at the time

I’ve taken part of the advice I got to my post last week. I have treasured my time with Mollie. We have enjoyed talking and discussing what college will be like. She won’t be far away at school so we’ll see her often – but not too often. I want her to enjoy the college experienced and that means she should NOT be coming home too often. Thank heavens for the internet and cell phones!

Nick has been very sweet and is trying to keep me guessing lately. I was in the living room the other night (Mollie has been working evenings this week) when I got a text message from Nick, who was in the bedroom, saying “Come hither”. LOL, I came like a good little submissive wife. I got a very short little spanking to “help me focus”. Although it wasn’t long enough to do any focusing, it was quickly followed by some wonderful, thoughtful loving. Nick does extremely well on the erotic side of our marriage.

Wednesday we went out to eat with friends. Since I was going to be busy all day last Thursday Nick had told me to be sure to get to the gym on both Tuesday and Wednesday. I made it Tuesday but somehow Wednesday got away from me. Just a little too much doing nothing I guess. I wasn’t planning to mention it but he asked and I was honest. Sadly I didn’t get spanked but I did have to surrender my underwear! He said I could just go out commando – to remind me to do as he asked. Felt a little strange but it did put me in a happy mood for the evening. Sure wish I had had a delightfully stinging bottom to go with it. But one day at a time is not a bad way to go. We haven’t done any talking about TTWD. But it’s on both our minds a little; we’ll talk eventually… maybe…


  1. PK. sounds real good, happy for you.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. It does sound good PK.

    Hope your having a wonderful weekend.


  3. I love when Bossman tells me to go commando! So erotic!


  4. You sound (some) better! Enjoy your time with Mollie and hey! - surrendering the undies sounds like a good start!

  5. sounds like a good start PK - little steps and dont say maybe you will talk - say we will talk. Its the only way - i found that out. Talk talk and more talk. :) hope you do, keep us posted.
    Im glad you enjoyed your time with Mollie. It will become easier :)
    love and hugs xx

  6. PK: Nice that you are spending quality time with Mollie.

    And what a nice touch he came up with your panties. What will he think up next?


  7. Going commando...now that's thinking outside the box, eh? ;)

  8. Thanks everyone. I did love the commando thing - like Grace said very erotic! Doing this on Mollie's smart phone. Lost all power - AC, lights, everything when a power pole got hit in our yard tonight.

    Hope to tell you about a very good weekend soon.

  9. Talking is a wonderous thing :)