I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Sunday, July 31, 2011

Baby steps

We’ve got out plates full at the moment. Big family reunion here next weekend. I’m taking a few days away the next week. Then Mollie moves. So we aren’t spending a lot of time on TTWD. But at the same time, things are happening. Nick called me to the bedroom one evening to discuss the weight thing. I’m not doing anything to work on it and he called me on it. I got an ultimatum for the coming week, a spanking and he had me wear a plug for a while to be sure I knew he was serious. Yes, he had my attention.

There are other little things happening that I've noticed, looks, touches; he’s grabbed me in the kitchen a time or two for some stinging swats. He has said he’s looking forward to waking up on weekend morning and knowing we have the house to ourselves with no one here to over hear anything. I’m not looking for flashy miracles, but the little things make me feel hopeful.


  1. PK, a busy time for you, and something to look forward to, enjoy.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. Hi PK,

    That sounds very promising. Who knows what will happen when Nick knows he can do whatever he wants to you, without being overheard. I'm keeping my fingers and paddles crossed for you.


  3. Life is made up of the little things and moments! Yeah for you guys!

  4. Anonymous10:57 AM

    You may miss the kids, but an empty nest seriously rocks.


  5. Yeah! If he has been waiting on the "empty nest" to really step it up, your time's running out! Wonder if this will be a 'careful what you wish for' situation? Ha! I'm looking forward to the next few month.... :)

  6. I love those little swats. Sounds like you two are going to have fun with Mollie gone.


  7. oh good...have a great time at the family reunion and spending time with Molly! Hugs

  8. It sounds like you are well on your way!

  9. It looks like he has your best interest at heart. Will you try to do better with your diet/exercise or will you test him to see if he follows through with a spanking? Just curious. I know you want both. :)


  10. Paul,
    It is busy, but it’s fun too. And who knows what might happen.

    I love that! Keep those fingers and paddles crossed.

    The little things are so important. I sometimes wonder if the guys realize that.

    You are right about missing them, I know. I hope you’re right about the rest!

    Wouldn’t that be something! What a wonderful and frightening thought.

    Those swats mean everything. They are so special.

    Today Mollie and I are going to her college to just wander around. I am really looking forward to it.

    I hope it’s going to be another new beginning.

    You have asked a most important question. I am still having a hard time making myself exercise but I want to reach the goal he set. If I do nothing I worry that he’s doing to just give up on me. I mean not really, but not want to bother with TTWD if I’m not trying myself. So I do want to try because he’s trying for me. But I’ll let you know what goes on.

  11. I hope you will give it a try because he is trying. Good luck. And I think you are going to enjoy the empty nest years.


  12. FD,
    That's what I'm thinking. I've got to at least try.

    At least I'm still plugging along.

  13. I think its going to be exactly as Rogue said - be careful what you wish for - and yeah are you going to test him about the diet and exercise? I know I am on the exercise front - he has let it slide for now but he has also acknolwedged that he is letting it slide - and he mentioned this morning when the alarm went off that lashes are mounting up so id better start thinking about my step. I could have been smart but i kept quiet lol
    But from what i read, its looking promising for you PK :) im so looking forward to your posts in teh next coming months
    And I hope you had a good family reunion xxx