I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Friday, August 29, 2008

I'm bored

I know, I know – nobody blogs on the weekend, I remember Grace saying that a long time ago, especially on a holiday weekend. But I’m lonely, so I am out here talking to myself while the rest of you celebrate Labor Day. Nick has gone off golfing with the guys (I really hope that this is not a picture of one of the guys!) and won’t be home until Sunday night. I used to love the weekends he went off and I still don’t mind. It’s nice with just Mollie here. We girls do just exactly what we want to. But I really do miss Nick more than I used to when he is away.

To make matters worse I get an email from Mthc and David telling me about their hot, sexy, steamy, horning, butt spanking, anal loving afternoon while I set here playing with the keyboard. I guess Nick and I have enjoyed so many good times this summer that she didn’t even have the good graces to feel sorry for me! Just went on gloated about her good fortune. Sigh… she did suggest I play with the Hitachi tonight. Okay not a bad suggestion.

The diet front is not going so well. I would have to say I am really at a stall. The most depressing thing is that I have been playing with the same 5 pounds for 6 months now. Down 3 up 2, down 1 up 3 and so on (sometimes I am just going up and down a few tenths) since last February. It is the first time since we started 2 years ago that I am really discouraged. About this one thing I need some guidance and firmness from Nick. He may need to lay down some strict rules and back them up by blistering my butt if I break them. Consistency is hard with Mollie around but I need some structure. I didn’t get to the gym much this week but with work starting back I really was exhausted and I needed my evenings to regenerate. I appreciated Nick not pushing then. But I have to get back in the groove and DO SOMETHING to get back on track!

Well if any of you take a break from you partying this weekend leave a comment or drop me an email to help relieve my boredom. Maybe answering emails will keep me from snacking! LOL! It’s worth a try!


  1. Anonymous11:30 PM

    Hey Lady,

    I know the feeling, :)

    I am bored too and none of my guys will be around this weekend, darn. So I get to clean the basement per spanker #2's orders, lol. Why do all these gentlemen want to try out the rafters in my basement, hmmmmm? I'm not sure my inquiring mind really wants to know, lol. Maybe I will edit another story for you tomorrow & Sun since I have NO plans.

    EXCEPT to drag my rump to workout, because I too have been playing with the same five pounds and they have all returned home to roost. Besides daily weigh-ins, emails, tape measuring and watching what I eat -- Spanker #2 will be here next week to check the progress. I don't know about other girls but he holds the ropes pretty tight on the diet front and it helps me a lot, it is the difference between success and failure. Yes, it is intrusive and bossy, and that is what I need. The goal? 20 lbs gone, 2lbs a week lost and I have 12 weeks, I better get to work.



  2. Home alone eh?

    Sorry to hear that you have to take a break from your escapades, but don't worry, I'll be here for you.

    I'll probably be around a lot this weekend, call me, we'll do lunch!

    Love you!


  3. Anonymous4:48 AM

    PK, if it's any consolation, though I'm SURE it's not, we don't have a holiday weekend in the UK this weekend... so you can have a good laugh to yourself when you think of me having to go back to work on Monday while you get a day off. Does that help? Nah, I thought not!
    Do lunch with Grace instead - you can eat down the phone at each other ;-)

  4. Anonymous6:23 AM

    I understand. LOL, along with everything else, I am doing school work - I know I need a life. I wanted to be left alone last night, but others had a different idea, lol. It was fun eventually, once I got over it. I think my family is going fishing Monday. I might go with them and read a book.

    I also understand the need for consistency. I am glad he didn't push you to go last week. First week's are exhausting!!! But, I know you need to go, maybe try once or twice a week at first.Or bettter yet, go workout with football team, lol.


  5. Just a quiet weekend here... :-)

  6. Pk, I'm so sorry that you had to find out about our HOT Friday evening this way. It took Mthc time to recover from her spanking, sexual, anal adventure. She was moaning like there would be no tomorrow and was so light headed she just gazed at me as she laid on the bed with this cute little smile on her face.

    She did recover and pounce on me and I received the best BJ I have ever had from my true love.

    I hate to tell you this my dear friend being all alone down south but I plan on doing this to her again today and tomorrow and all day on Monday.

    *HE HE HE *

  7. PK, dear girl, all my week-ends are quiet, our holiday was last week-end.
    I'm sure Nick will make it up to you on his return.
    Try to ignore David and invite Mthc to visit on her own.
    Love and warm hugs,

  8. Lord David..!!!...Pk...I'll be around too on and off. After last night i need to recover..I also want to say...you didn't offer me any SYMPATHY THE 4 WEEKS WHEN NOTHING WAS HAPPENING HERE. As a matter of fact...you bragged to me.
    That's ok though..Isn't that what friends are for...Oh yeah..i almost forgot..NO SNACKING!!

  9. PK, cheer up. I hate it when my guy is away, too, but he'll be home spanking you before you know it.

    Diet plateaus are really a pain. I'm no expert, but I think you have to change things up a bit to make progress. You might try a different exercise routine or type of exercise. Or maybe a change in your diet might help. I don't remember the particulars, but different combinations of foods might help. Have you heard about the 3 hour diet plan? My son is getting in shape to enlist and that's what he's doing. You basically eat a smaller healthy meal or snack every 3 hours. It's supposed to keep you from experiencing swings in blood sugar levels, which leads to poor food choices and overeating. I can find the link if you want it.

    We're not partying until Monday. Then we'll be celebrating my oldest turning 18. I should be cleaning the house, but making the blog rounds is much more interesting.

    Enjoy your weekend. :)

  10. I know it is crazy, but I love being bored.

    Good luck on the weight thing. Soon you will be back into a routine with school, and I see big things happening.


  11. Dana,
    Wow at least I am just bored! I would not want to be bored and have to clean out the basement! Two spankers would keep things interesting but if they both have rules - hmmmmm... maybe not so good!

    Hey Grace!
    Lunch time varies when you are on different coast. I have done more this week than I would have thought. I did make myself go to the gym but then Mollie made me go to the grocery store so I think the two trips canceled each other out.

    You are right, it doesn't help but I guess it does make me grateful for my free Monday. Nick will be home then. Maybe Mollie will want to go visiting somewhere!

    Reading while other fish doesn't sound so bad to me.

    Last week was exhausting but now I have to get busy. Maybe Nick and I can sit down and set some goals, actions and consequences.

    It's been quiet here too.

    If you were the spankee in your relationship I would say you deserve a hard spanking for taunting! Shame on you, but I do know you keep Mthc one happy woman!

    I wish you could travel here the next time the LA Kink girls get together! We would should you a wild weekend!! Ok as Nick tells me we are mostly talk, but it is exciting talk!

    For one thing you never told me about your drought until it was nearly over and then I TOLD David to get busy and spank your butt! Isn't that what friends are for??

    Blogging always trumps cleaning in my book. You are right about needing to change up the diet a bit. But I am such a picky eater (ask my twin) there are very few diet friendly foods I like so I stick to a very limited diet and I know that is not always the best way.

  12. Theresa,
    It's not really a bad thing. I love relaxing around the house with nothing pressing.

  13. This is an off topic response, PK, but I just found out that the guy that was probably my favorite in-law uncle just passed away from pancreatic cancer. I think I mentioned him when your coworker was diagnosed. He was that real standup guy that we could always count on.

    I'm really going to miss him.

    Sorry about the interlude there.


  14. Marcus,
    I am glad you came here and told me. Your feelings make me feel that your uncle was a very special man. I know you will always remember him.