I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Friday, August 22, 2008

This and that

Alright, first thing first, Eva was right. I can’t chew gum. You have heard of people who are not coordinated enough to walk and chew gum at the same time? Well I can’t stand still and chew gum at the same time. I bite myself. I know, it’s crazy, just another one of my various shortcomings. It’s like the fact that I can’t snap my fingers, sad but true.

Update on the Fantasy Friday stories. I have received some fantastic stories!! I would like to have more before I start it up again. It will probably be a little different. I am hearing from some readers that do not comment real often and we wouldn’t have a contest unless it was someone we all knew. But I am really looking forward to posting these stories and introducing you to some new and fantastic writers! I hope more of you will send stories. Send them to elisspeaks@yahoo.com

New topic, LJ headed back to school this morning. It was quite different from 2 years ago. Taking him the first time back then, was very traumatic for me. This time he comes home last Tuesday to get the thing he left here. Went to supper with us and says “I’ll probably head back Friday morning sometime. See you Christmas.” Okay he is kidding about not seeing him until Christmas but he does feel comfortable in his house in his college town and I am comfortable having him there. Yes time marches on and you can get used to anything.

This has been a stressful week. Getting back to work always is. Next week won’t be much calmer. I enjoy summers, I especially enjoyed this summer. As the year goes on I relax. I am one person at work and when I get home I can be myself, PK. But it is hard to feel like PK when I am overwhelmed with getting started. Nick has been a great help. He has been reading the book CeeCi suggested, Tantric Secrets for Men, though I really do think it is the woman that benefits! I need to be reading it really but I just won’t have the time for a while. So I am picking up what it says from Nick.

I will tell you more about it soon and some of the things we are trying. It deserves its own post. But I really do appreciate Nick. He is taking the lead while I am trying to readjust my schedule and not letting me forget about ‘us’. There is calm gentle loving but he has not forgotten that he is married to a true, life long spanko too. I got a good man.


  1. PK, too uncoordinated to chew gum, shame.
    Sons grow up and leave the home but never the heart.
    Yes you are lucky to have Nick, but never forget that he is lucky to have you.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. Sounds like an exciting time! Ours too, though my next week is the most relaxed week. Then the craziness starts! Its cool that you're adjusting to LJ coming and going now. I know it was a tough transition. I think i like your new principal! :-)



  3. Anonymous9:54 PM

    You've gotta share about this book!! Get busy. Write us a post.

  4. At least your kid leaves...school should be year around here..really. You bite yourself..boy that is kinky!! My but you and Nick lead entertaining lives.

  5. PK I can only snap fingers on my left hand not my right, and I can't whistle. But I can chew gum.

    Sending Michael back to school this time was not nearly as traumatic as last year. But unfortunately when we said "see you at Christmas" we weren't lying!

    I can't wait for the new FF stories.

    I hope going back to school is as stress free as possible. And it will be Christmas break before we know it!


  6. Paul,
    You are right. He will never leave my heart for a moment. He is truly a joy.

    You don't do the happy dance as hard as Grace does do you? I think I am going to like this guy too. He is very 'by the book' but I think he will be fair to everyone, kids and teachers alike.

    I already have several posts from this book. I just need the time to write them.

    Oh yes we are entertaining alright! I know people at school must think of me as the dullest litte lady. LOL! Not all the time.

    Are our boys growing up or is it us. I am just so glad that they are happy.

    I am looking forward to FF too. I sure hope I can get a few more stories.

  7. PK, I just received my book on Friday. Can't let you and Nick have all the fun. I've read the first sentence and WOW, can't wait to read the rest.

    Bossman will read it too, but I think we are going to read it together.

    Can't wait to hear your thoughts on this book!


  8. Grace,
    It hard to find a time to read it! The good thing about teaching when they are little is that you can be home when your kids are. The bad thing is that they are home when you are! Where am I going to read this, not at work, not in the living room and I rarely read in bed. We are going to have to work on this. So far I am hearing about it from Nick.

    Has anyone heard from CeeCi lately?? I miss that girl!

  9. I hope she and Jim come up for air soon!