I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Friday, July 25, 2008

Old post, current truth

By the time most of you read this Nick and I will be winging our way across the country. I could write a book on everything that has led to this point. My blog was 2 years old last Tuesday. Two years ago did not know these women I am going to visit; we had exchanged maybe a dozen comments at the most. Now I think of them as some of my best friends in the world. What a trip, in more ways that one!

Right now I see baby Grace as the timid one (but deep down I think she is trying to get me to think this and it's really not true!) , C.C as the most adventuress
and my twin and I as the balance in the middle with Nick leaning more to the adventuress side these days, LOL!

My legs are shaved too, I am all packed, I should be in bed but I am way too excited to sleep!!

I went back to see want I posted two years ago today, when my blog was a whole 4 days old. Turns out it wasn’t too bad ands I still agree with every word of it. Bonnie has posed a wonderful question to get me thinking. So here is a rerun but it’s still true!

Ten important Things

I love Bonnie for asking this question. Not for the chance to tell what I hope my blog with say to other, but so that I can understand it myself. So here goes.

What are the 10 things, thoughts, or ideas you would most like readers to take away from your blog?

1.If you are turned on by spanking (and you know who you are) tell your partner today! Do not waste one more minute. The worse he could say is – not interested, and you have lost nothing.

2.People who love spanking are very normal people. We are nurses, teachers, secretaries, lawyers. We look after our kids, sometimes our parents; we teach Sunday school and bake cookies for school parties. We are NORMAL!

3.Being spanked by someone you love and trust make you feel cherished, safe and loved in a way that nothing else can.

4.In a spanking relationship, the relationship becomes the core of your life. Other things like work, neighbors, chores, errands, etc. are just things you do. Real life is you and your partner.

5.If this has always be a fantasy and you are just getting ready to try it for real you need to know: Spankings hurt!! They can hurt like hell. But you will still love the experience and the feeling afterwards money can’t buy!

6.Sex after a spanking is the greatest thing since sliced bread! It’s your birthday, it’s Christmas morning, it’s winning the lottery. This is coming from someone who simply hated sex, I loved my husband, but I hated sex. Now I can’t get enough. I have the most happy, stunned husband on the planet.

7.Be understanding of other people’s chosen lifestyle. People are different, that’s a good thing. Some would say I’m a pervert for this kink. I’m not. My husband and I love each other and hurt no one. Be understanding of other and live and let live.

8.Look for toys where ever you can find them. Kitchen supply stores, hardware stores, pet supply stores. Always be on the lookout for items that would not attract attention in the bedroom. Fly swatters, belts, slippers, back scratchers. Remember your kids are everywhere, many toys can’t be left out but these can.

9.Men if you are reading here please don’t let us down. If we have finally told you that this is what we want and need, understand that we have probably been thinking about this, dreaming about this for years. It’s not a spur of the moment request. We want it, we yearn for it, and we need it. You are the only one we trusted with this embarrassing secret. If you try it once and then stop, we may never have the courage to bring it up again and we are going to feel a bit rejected, a bit lonely and a bit sad.

10.Men can’t read our minds. I know that is really dumb of them, but they are only men, so cut them some slack. We can’t give up either. Talk with them, explain things to them, tell them which blogs to read. I can’t look at my husband and talk to him about this yet but I email him a lot! I can get going with words. He seems to love it. If it’s not working out like you expected – keep working at it, it’s worth it. Don’t give up!


  1. Anonymous3:22 AM


    This is very well put/ Thanks for sharing it. Congrats on your blog being 2 years old.


  2. You and Nick have come such a long way together in these past two years. It is a wonderful life this way of spanking. Have a wonderful time on your journey. Be safe and happy.

    *hugs and grins*

  3. PK, you are doing great, I loved this post.
    Love and warm hugs,

  4. Anonymous8:09 AM

    Great post PK. Thank you for sharing. Hope you are having a fabulous time- I am sure you are. I love reading your posts and look forward to many, many more wonderful exchanges with you.
    I Gal

  5. Anonymous10:17 AM

    Absolutely brilliant.

  6. I'm in the hotel, waiting for you to show up! You've landed, so get here already!

    Thanks for the reminder!

    Happy 2 years! I may be the baby, but not in blogger land, you take the award for that!

    HUGS! (almost a real one, if you would hurry up already!)