I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Sunday, October 22, 2006

Ladies Choice

When it comes to weight loss this week I have great news, bad news and more great news! First great news Nick sent me an email Friday morning saying that he was really proud of me for the overall weight loss of about 14 pounds in 3 months. It’s not flying off but it didn’t fly on either. He said when I got home that after reading Todd and Suzy that he might not have been as forthcoming with rewards as he could have been (thanks guys for getting him thinking!). He said Friday night would be ladies choice! Mollie was at a pj party so the house was ours.

We were in no hurry we ate supper and watched a bit of TV. He brought me a glass of wine, though I don’t usually drink at all but it was nice. He went back to the bedroom and called for me in a bit. He had soft lighting, scented candles a very nice setting! On the bed he had laid out most of my favorite toys. He said I could chose any or all and pick the order of their use but once I chose all I could tell him was when to switch to the next one. This was a wonderful idea because it meant things could go on for as long as I liked!!

I started off with one of Grace’s favorites the paint stirrer. And though I don’t remember the exact order he used the flogger, the small wooded paddle, the leather paddle, the crop he made and his belt. It was superb! The only bad new about the whole deal was that I actually had gained some this week. According to Nick’s chart, however, I am still under the line because I lost over 2 pounds last week. But he decided to finally wrap up the spanking with his choice – the big, mean wooden paddle that he made. So I got 10 of his best to make sure I was going to stay focused on the overall goal. Well that lit a fire on a well spanked bottom!

After that it was just a swirl of wonderful sex, cuddling, touching, vibrators and plugs. Sensations on sensations! We did anything we could think of and then some. What a fantastic evening! As we went to sleep all curled together I had an old, soon to be forgotten memory float past. It was of a time when I always wore a nightgown to bed and slept on my edge. It was a time I did not want sex and I was going to avoid touch if I could. What a change, even in our sleep we seek each other out, he touches me all during the night and I love every minute of it. This is the best thing about winter coming!

And my last bit of wonderful news occurred today. I ended up at the mall with 4 eighth grade girls to celebrate Mollie’s birthday. I actually ditched them quickly (although they thought it was the other way around) to do some shopping myself. I got new pants and they were 2, let me repeat that, 2 sizes smaller than I have been wearing! I think I am going to take the plunge and get rid of clothes as I out grow them. I have never done that before, just tucked them back in the closet. Now they are leaving because I’m not going back.


  1. Anonymous5:27 AM

    Elis~ It's too cool watching you guys learn and grow. We've never tried a paint stirrer. Is it any good?


  2. Yeah Elis! Yeah PK! Sounds like to me you have to cram a week's worth of spanking and loving in when you do get a free chance! Sounds like you did a pretty good job of it too!

    Hugs and love

  3. Oh, Elis, I feel quite sure there is no PK to be seen after that wonderful turn of events... I am THRILLED for both of you... you for the diet success and being able to actually replace clothes that no longer fit... that is such a wonderful feeling. But so much more for the progress with Nick and the place you two are now... you are indeed growing closer everyday and you are both opening up and sharing on whole new levels.

    Don't be afraid to tentatively go farther... trust Nick to guide you... he's doing famously and seems to have a renewed air of self-confidence, too. Bask in your lovely, well-spanked, thoroughly loved and adored glow, sweetie... you are both so very deserving!

    Happy belated birthday to Mollie, too!

    I love you!

  4. Anonymous12:16 PM

    Sounds like you had a wonderful day and night with Nick. I can relate to the many wasted years of not enjoying sex and trying to avoid it at all costs. One huge difference is being in a different relationship with someone who is willing to explore this journey with me. And that is a beautiful thing. I love reading your blog. Congrats dear!

  5. Anonymous1:20 PM

    Congrats on the weight loss. Slow and steady is best, so don't sweat it! I'm down 26 lbs myself in a little over 8 weeks. I attribute that to my cold turkeying on drinking soda. Keep up the great work!

  6. Anonymous2:04 PM

    Great news on the overall diet success! Congrats on getting such a nice reward, too. Glad we could be a tiny assist in that effort. Really does make us smile. :)

    Of course, ha... the 10 hard ones you got as a reminder to stay focused... is probably somewhat thanks to us, too.

    We hope this becomes a regular occurrence (the good girl spankings, that is!)

    `Todd & Suzy

  7. Elis,

    Congratulations on your continuing weight loss success. That's tremendous!

    Your special evening sounds truly wonderful. We all need our lover's intimate attention sometimes. Such fun!


  8. Congrats on the weight loss and size dropping! Great job and you were well rewarded too! You've stronger skin than I, Gunga Elis! D :}

  9. Elis, I am commenting before I read any of the others, so excuse me if anything is repeated :)

    That paint stirrer! How many day dreams can that thing bring out? And they're everywhere you look! heh!

    I love, love, love the falling asleep part. I like my space in bed, definately. But some part of me has to be touching him. Or him touching me. Uhhhh.. or both :-) Security!

    WTG on the 2 sizes smaller!

    Big Hugs!

  10. Congratulations on the weight loss and new pants, Elis !
    And very happy for you about the nice weekend with Nick !

    Anne Elizabeth

  11. Eva,
    The paint stirrer is great! Very light to start with but a real nice sting. It can also be left out in the open.

    We did have fun, and I haven't even told you about Saturday yet!

    Thanks girl. I am having a ball and I am willing to let Nick lead.
    I appreciate your support! The weight loss helps everything feel real.

    Thanks so much for stopping by. This journey is wonderful! Please stop by again anytime.

    Boy you touched a nerve! I love my soft drinks. I have cut way back but they are not gone yet. I am glad this has worked so well for you.

    Todd and Suzy,
    Big thanks to you guys, you probaby did have a hand in both and both were appreiciated.

    I am finding that losing weight makes you want to keep doing it, its a lot like spanking!!

    How funny, I always feel that way when I read Tiggr's stories!!

    Love you guys,

  12. Annie,
    We passed in commentland. Thanks for stopping by. I am ready for new clothes now!

  13. Wow! Great progress on the Diet!! Sounds like an AWESOME reward night!!!! Congrats!!!


  14. Maggie,
    I tend to pick up a paint stirrer every time I go into a hardware store. They are even better with a layer or two of dried paint!

    Slowly but surely I am going to get to a healthier weight! If I keep going maybe another ladies choice night!