I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Monday, March 16, 2020

Very IMPORTANT - please read

I have more to post about Nick and me working on our TTWD relationship. I’ll have that up on Wednesday. But I wanted to do this post first.
It’s getting a bit crazy when we look around the world right now. And heaven knows I can’t do anything to fix what’s happening – except wash my hands and I promise I’m doing that. Seriously though, folks are worried and scared and I want to help in the teeny-tiny way that I can. 

So that’s what I’m going to do. I going to post as often as I can about ordinary stuff. I’m not going to ignore the fact that there is a health scare going on. But I don’t plan to belabor the point. I’m not going to give my political opinions (boy, do I have opinions at this time. But this is not the place to express them.) I’m trying to make this ordinary and normal. Maybe a little boring, I’m going to be posting about this and that like I always do. A little about spanking, a little about my kids, pleas for others to try a Fantasy Friday story. 



I hope you’ll all think of this as a safe place that you can gather with your friends. I’m hoping others out here will try to post more often too. We don’t have as large a group as we used to but there are still lots of folks around Bonnie, Hermione, Ronnie, Terpsichore, Windy, Morning Star, Storm, Sunny (not around as often as I’d like, but still around), – and probably more that I’m not thinking of. 

Come by and read, visit with us, relax for a few minutes. Be brave and leave a comment. I promise I’ll reply, maybe that day maybe a day or so later, but keep checking. We need a spot to just sit around and be together over a virtual cup of coffee, or glass of wine, your choice. 

This is a place where we’re in no danger – of a virus or of being judged for having a slightly different fantasy life than the norm. If you don’t blog feel free to tell us what you’re doing in comment, tell us a funny story, be sarcastic – in other words, just visit. And everyone feel free to reply to the comments of others. We used to do that all the time and it was how many of us made friends. If you would rather email it’s elisspeak@yahoo.com

 And on another quick note. I flunked my stress test last week. I’ll be going in for a heart catherization in the morning. Hopefully I’ll only be there about four hours, but it could possibly be over night. So… I have a post to go up on Wednesday and I might be a little late on answering my comments. But I’ll be back at it soon.

20 comments:

  1. Wonderful post, PK! That's the spirit! I'm working on a post now and I hope to do what you have described above.

    I am praying for you regarding your procedure. You will do great.

    Love you,
    Windy

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    1. I think we make a few people feel a tiny be better by being here. And I plan on begin her a while!

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  2. I agree, an excellent post Pk. Let us gather in this safe place to support each other.

    Wishing you the very best for your procedure. I will be thinking of you.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. You unending support means so much to me! Now if you'd like to start blogging again... :)

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  3. I agree with Windy and Roz, great post. I love popping by and seeing what my "friends" are up too.

    As for flunking things, I can think of lots of other things to flunk other than a stress test!!! (although, I think we probably all at this point would fail that!) Take a deep breath and try and relax, the catheterization will be fine, if a little freaky. But I will be winging you good thoughts so if you feel something that is just me being a nuisance!! Laughing.

    Hugs
    Boo

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    1. I love the idea of feeling your good thoughts! I'll be fine and back here before anyone notices.

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  4. UGH!! flunked it eh?? well I will be thinking of you tomorrow when you have the catheterization...

    AND I love your idea about blog land .... I was thinking I would post something about doing a check in ..once a week or so (for those that don't write every day or so) this way we know everyone's ok...

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    1. I just didn't have time to study for it! I should have demanded a re-test. But ... I'm not worried, I just what to get it over with. And get back out here talking to everyone.

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  5. PK, I will be sending good thoughts your way while you are undergoing your procedure.

    Our churches are closed here, but blogland is still a safe place where more than two or three can gather together in harmony.

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. Thanks Hermione! Our church is closed too. Seems unreal and I like to be able to visit with my friends here.

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  6. Great idea Lady, You know I'll be with you in spirit in the am

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  7. Will be thinking of you tomorrow. Please let us know how it went.

    Blogland is a safe place for friends to gather.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. I'll let everyone know. I don't want to stay away long!

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  8. Sending all good thoughts your way and hope you are headed home quickly!

    Thank you for always being an encouraging voice and I am very grateful for all of you in blogland. Very.

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    1. Thanks Deena! I sure like visiting out here, and those of you who comment sure make me feel good.

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  9. I love that you’re doing your part on this blog of yours, it’s reassuring to know that you’re still writing about so many things here while keeping the focus off the scary stuff. I still pop in to read as often as I can. Good luck on the procedure tomorrow. :)

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    1. I always love seeing that you've stopped by. We can't stop people from worrying but if I can give just a few minutes of thinking about something else.

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  10. HI, i'm sorry i haven't been here in ages.

    Normal is good. I have lots to say about a few of the leaders of certain nations too but i'll leave that for FB posts. LOL

    Stay safe. Thanks for dropping into my blog to visit. Glad to know we're all still hanging in there .

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    1. I'm no longer updated when I get a comment so sorry I'm late in replying. I think our contact our here is important, more than usual so I'm trying to visit and comment more and post more. Glad to reconnect.

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