I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Monday, October 03, 2011

I’ve done it now

I joined Weight Watchers on line. I’m not completely sure how to navigate the site. I haven’t sat and read everything I should, but I think I’m getting the hang of how to chart the points. I’m keeping a track of everything I eat, people tell me this is important. The good news is I lost 1.4 pounds this week. I am pleased with that, but I’m not ready to send up sparklers yet. Over the past 6 months or so I have lost and gained the same two pounds over and over, down a half pound one week, up one the next. Down a pound, up a half. I’m going to have to lose enough to get away from this place before I can breathe easy and feel that I’m on the right track. That’s not being down on myself – that’s just the facts.

Nick is paying attention, to me I mean. I got a text from him earlier in the week. It said “After the gym come home and ask for your instruction.” Interesting, that kind of message with peak your curiosity. So I did as I was told. When I got home we talked for a little while then I asked for instruction. He told me “Go take a quick shower, your robe’s in there then meet me in the bedroom.” Sounded good to me so I headed off. My little short sexy robe was waiting on me.

Soon I joined Nick in the bedroom where he was waiting with the dogging bat. He mentioned that I was letting some of the house hold chores slip a little and this was just a friendly reminder. It was friendly, and sharp and stingy and appreciated. When he stopped he mentioned something else I had for gotten.

“One thing I told you to do several weeks ago was to come up with some sexy ideas or plans to enjoy in our empty nest. You haven’t done that.” He’s right. That is something that is very hard for me. Even in my writing. I can write a pretty good spanking scene (although even to be able to do that I have to turn off the lights and type with my eyes closed) but writing a sexy scene, a really hot one, is nearly impossible for me. If I can’t even write one for a fiction story how the heck can I tell Nick – or even email him an idea.

So I knew I had dropped the ball on that one but Nick had a way I could rectify the situation. He said “Just show me.” And with that he lay back on the bed, fully clothed and made himself comfortable. LOL! Maybe I can’t say everything; maybe I can’t even write it – but at show and tell, I’m pretty good. I got right to work. It didn’t take me long to undress my man. There was a massage with our special lotion, from his feet to his shoulders. He kept his eyes closed and let me do whatever came to mind.

I know what my man likes and I tried to include most of it. We have many vibrators, we have flavored lotions, we have toys, and soon I had a completely satisfied husband. I’m afraid I didn’t come up with anything new or unusual. I didn’t install a sex swing or mirrors on the ceiling but Nick seemed more than pleased and that made me happy.

I guess we’re doing well. I’m working on my weight to get healthier, and we’re working on ways to best enjoy the empty nest. And I’ll keep writing about whatever happens.


  1. You signed up, Yea!!!! Sounds like an enjoyable evening with your hubby.... :)

  2. Awesome! I'm glad you have a little reinforcement on the weight issue, with WW and Nick.

    If you're up to it, do a little Netflixin'. I'm assuming you've seen 'Supersize Me,' but there are two other really intriguing movies that you may find helpful. They are 'Fat Sick and Nearly Dead' and 'Forks over Knives'

    Good luck!

  3. Just show me...that's a man for ya. Sounds like a sweet time..

  4. PK, sounds all good to me.
    Keep up the good work.
    Love and warm hugs,

  5. Well done PK on joining WW and the weight loss. Keep it up.


  6. Good for you...joined WW...loss weight..and a sexy afternoon! I have been thinnking about the WW thing, think I will let you test it out for me. Hope this is a great week for you! abby

  7. Well done, well done!

    I love that he just laid there! Very smart of him.


  8. Anonymous3:16 PM

    Good for you! Now, you've just got to stick with it. You can do it!!!!!

    Love and hugs,

  9. Rogue,
    Privacy does have it rewards.

    I don't have a good track record with sticking to things that are good for me but I'm giving it a try! I'll check those out.

    Men have many things in common, but it was a good afternoon.

    It was all good!

    It's all still new. I really want to stick with it.

    I'll be glad to let you know. Just keep your fingers crossed for me.

    Nick has always been pretty smart.

    All I can do it give it my best shot.

  10. that's all wonderful news! :-)

  11. PK: Congrats on taking the first step with weight watchers. I think it will be easier to watch your weight by following a program.

    And how perfect that he wants you to show him sexy ways you can have fun. I think the empty next years are going to be very good for both of you and I hope you will continue sharing your journey with us.


  12. One WW idea that works well for me, be sure to save your common meals as meals, makes entering them a lot easier. Plus, it makes it easier to keep track... this 10 point breakfast keeps me going till lunch, this one I get hungry at 10 am.

    And keep enjoying that empty nest.

  13. Terps,
    I'm going to give it by best.

    Losing weight and feeling sexy is the overall goal.

    I'm still trying to navigate the site. If you're willing to help me find my way through this you can email me at elisspeak@yahoo.com