I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Friday, October 12, 2007


For all of you that might be here looking for Fantasy Friday please click here! I put it up a day early because of an even more special event!!! But please go and read it and vote!! I will reveal Monday!

What a special day today is!! Today, thanks to Bonnie for giving us this opportunity, we get to pay special attention to our silent readers. Lurkers may sound like a negative connotation to some but not here. I can’t imagine one person who has a blog that did not start out as a lurker at sometime. That’s the way I started – I lurked at Bonnie’s MBS and Cassie’s Space first but I just couldn’t keep quiet! These wonderful women were talking about my deepest, hidden desires and I had to jump into the conversation!!! And at first I did it totally anonymously. I really liked that part.

One thing that kept me from saying much was that I though all these people out here knew each other so well I didn’t want to intrude. All I can say to that is - please come and play!!

We are all just a bunch of kids on a cyber playground and on this playground we really like newcomers!!! But here we can talk about our love for spanking, our desire for our guys to be dominant, to discuss the conflicting ideas and emotions that go with this particular desire. And swirling through all that we also discuss our kids, our jobs, laundry, the weather, our health, and the million of other things that friends talk about every day!

I won’t be around as much this weekend because my best friend, who I met right here when I left my first comment on her blog, is coming hundreds of miles with her husband to visit with Nick and me! I lucked out by commenting on Eva’s sight so long ago so I can fully attest to the fact that there are great people to meet here. (And in case you are wondering, no there is no spanking or swapping or anything along those lines during these visits! We do not hesitate to discuss spanking in our conversations – but show and tell is not part of it for us! LOL!)

And I do have to apologize for one thing I said on our Love out Lurker Day last year. Last year I said we were all just normal folks out here, by saying that I inadvertently insulted Grace from A Day in the Life. So let me just say now Grace is FAR from normal!! Strange is her middle name!! Trust me on this. There Grace is that better?

So come on folks even if you know you are not ready to start commenting daily I hope you will leave one today just to let me know you are around.


  1. Thank you for pointing out that I am not normal! I have to be on the strange side, I mean really, I hang out with you and Eva!

    As for the fact that you couldn't keep quiet at Bonnies...well, after getting to know you, I'm surprised you held out as long as you did!

    But, in the end, this is a place I love, this is a site that I come to everyday and if I didn't give you a hard time...what kind of friend would I be??


  2. Anonymous11:20 PM

    I am not a lurker as I have commented a few times on your blog and am a regular reader. I really enjoy reading and I hope you will write for a long time. :)
    Love your blog!
    padme amidala

  3. I admit it I was a lurker and now look at me. I'm not sure what I am now hehehe

    Hope the four of you have a wonderful visit and weekend.

    *hugs and grins*

  4. Anonymous4:43 AM

    Hi! I'm trying to catch up with everyone I've been neglecting lately. I've turned into such a lurker this year!

    I really do enjoy your blog and I wanted to let you know! :-)


  5. PK, not a lurker as you know, but loves your blog honey and your wonderful journey.


  6. PK, love the blog, love my friends.
    Please give Eva a real life hug for me and have a wonderful week end.
    Love and warm hugs,

  7. I am a frequent, if silent visitor, but your blog is great!

  8. Anonymous9:11 AM

    I am a regular reader but have never left a message before. Your stories are incredible! Keep up the great work and happy LOL Day!!

    S. in Dallas

  9. I don't remember if I've commented here before, call me a lurker if you like. (grin)

    College is keeping me a lurker more than a commenter.

    Must get some reading in over winter break!!

  10. I just adore the cat image at the bottom of this page...so typically and truly cat. LOL! I read faithfully from my google reader. Glad you are participating too. Blessings!!!

  11. Anonymous11:01 AM


    Thank you for making your place so welcoming to everyone who stumbles by. I don't know about being a lurker, since that makes me think of something akin to a stalker, but I read and relate and laugh and cry from a distance, not just here but at many of your friends' places.

    But today I just wanted you to know that it is your spirit that reaches beyond the words on your blog, the warmth and welcoming sincerity that flows from your heart, that makes me happiest to have found you.

    You're awesome and I can only hope that you and Eva have the most amazing weekend!


  12. Hi PK!

    That's a great LOL post. It made me want to comment, and I'm not even a lurker.

    What more can I say about this blog? You're a cornerstone of our community (No, I didn't just call you a blockhead). Thank you for all you do.

    Big Hugs,

    PS - Please tell Eva that we know this was really her idea.

  13. Hi PK,
    Just wanted to thank you for being one of the first people to comment when I started my blog. You have been so generous and encouraging. So I really don't lurk on yours I assure you, just don't get around as often as I wish I could.
    Also I have been fortunate enough to start meeting friends from my blog and my Yahoo group which is devoted to everyone's favorite topic. It is indeed wonderful to meet in real life those that have been so wonderful on line.
    Purple Angel

  14. Of course I'm not a lurker, but for sure a real fan! Hope you and Eva and the guys are having a great weekend and will have plenty to post about next week!

    ~Love and hugs!

  15. I guess i'm no longer a lurker huh..i do stop by quite often.

  16. Happy LOL, PK!!!!

  17. Anonymous5:43 PM

    I stop by regularly and only comment if I can add something worthwhile to the conversation. Very Best -- SS

  18. I read more often than I comment, but I'll do my best to rectify that! Have a great weekend!

  19. Happy Love Our Lurkers Day! I mean didn't we all start this way? Hey I have been lurking on your voicemail!


  20. Anonymous8:45 PM

    yes i am a lurker

    yes i enjoy your blog

    yes i enjoy your stories

    yes i would enjoy more pictures

    of you

    thanks for taking the time to BLOG

  21. Anonymous11:58 PM

    Love your blog... really do. It's uplifting and positive, and puts such a pleasant face on spanking. A real joy. Thank you!

    Enjoy your weekend,
    ~Todd & Suzy

  22. I don't know that I's call myself a lurker, but I had to pipe up and agree with you about how strange Grace is. :)



  23. Anonymous7:45 AM

    Hi, I just wanted to say I read here often too, and do enjoy your blog!

  24. Hey there! I just found this, but it looks great. I'll surely be back to read and comment more!!! Danielle

  25. Just popping in to admit to lurking a bit but still in awe at your incredible growth and blossoming these past few months or so...

    You've come into your own here among your friends and you offer an incredible place for those searching, seeking souls.

    Thank you for being you, for being here, for being my friend.


  26. Thank-you for sharing your journey and your spankings with us fellow spankos.


  27. Very cute layout!! Found your blog thru fellow bloggers. Just wanted to drop in and say howdy and Happy LOL!!


  28. Grace! My abnormal friend! I am glad we all hang out together! And I love it when you come by.

    I love it when you come by! And I hope you were serious about writing a FF for me.

    David, I know what you are - a hot, sexy, spanker! (Don't tell Mthc I said that) We are having a great visit!

    Bethie, Thank you so much!!!

    Dove, thanks I don't miss a day at yours either.

    Paul, Eva has your hug and gave you a good one back! We are having a ball!

    Hermonie, I am glad you read here. Love it when you comment!

    S, that makes me feel great! Please speak up more.

    Ofia, If memory serves college didn't leave me time for anything but school work. Thanks for reading when you can.

    Greenwomen, You obviously know cat! Thanks for coming by.

    Joey, Thank you so much. We are all lurkers depending on how much time we have to comment on a given day. But I am happy you spoke up. Please come by any time you can and I comment if you ever feel like it.

    Bonnie, the day went great!! And I was happy to give Eva your message in person!!

    Purple, I have loved finding you blog and reading there. We have a lot in common. I will keep reading!

    Maggie, it has been just great!!

    Mthc, and I love it when you do!

    Kallisto, hasn't it been fun?

    Selfspanker, I always like to hear the comments of others. You may say sometime I never thought of.

    Snow I am the same way!

    Theresa, Yep we all started as lurkers and some days continue to.

    Anon, yes- I would love to have you comment more!

    Todd and Suzy, you guy do a great job putting a positive light on our way of life too. Thanks!

    Tracy, yep, about Grace, that's a given!

    Sara, thanks I look forward to reading you more too.

    Daniella, Great. I hope to see you again.

    Tiggs, Glad to hear from you. Lurk when you much, comment if you can!

    Frank, I kinda feel like this is one big happy family.

    Emily, please come by whenever you can!