I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
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Wednesday, May 16, 2012

I’ve got to get this kid out of my house!

It’s the truth, but not for the reason you might think.    I don’t want Mollie gone because her being here is cutting into our time for hot sex and spanking (although, of course, that’s true).  It does seem that my timing is never what it should be.  I mean I had this great afternoon delight with Nick and told him that I wanted to be spanked much more and he seemed to be listening.  In fact the very next night I forgot and left the fan on again.  I got a little shout spanking for that.  Then a few days later there was another short spanking in the kitchen with a wooden spoon.  I can’t remember what for, but I know it made me happy – even if it was very short!  But we were headed in the right direction, then before you know it, Mollie’s home from college. 

But I don’t want her gone to get our empty nest back; I need her gone because of the way we eat when she’s here!  We picked her up last Thursday and I didn’t eat much that night because I was weighing in the next morning, and I lost just under a pound. Yeah for me!  But then it started.  Nick grilled some tenderloin Friday night, I made mashed potatoes, peas, and Mollie had brought home some really good cookies from school.  Great meal.  The next night we went out for Mother’s Day to a Japanese steak house, Hibachi Steak – delicious!  The next day was Sunday and as usual we had an amazing meal prepared by Nick’s mom, one of the greatest cooks of all time.  Then Monday Mollie wanted to cook for some of her friends since she won’t be seeing them all summer.  Mollie is turning into a great cook; she prowls pinterest for ideas and doesn’t mind trying something new (she did NOT get this skill from me).  So Monday she fixed this wonderful bread as an appetizer, she just cut a large loaf into square pieces (still attached) and brushed on butter with Ranch powder in it, then she added cheese and bacon before heating it, sooo good.  Then she made a Chicken Cordon Bleu casserole, green beans and then for desert we had brownies with Oreos in them and Veryberry Cheesecake ice-cream.  Are you beginning to see my problem?

You know I’m kidding, I love having her here – especially since she’s only here until Sunday.  But honestly, if she was going to be here cooking all summer I’d be in real trouble!  I’m working on it.  I stopped by the park today and walked 2 miles.  I want spanked anytime Nick’s willing, but I don’t want him to have a real reason to do it.  Nick’s going to be away golfing next weekend any way.  When he gets back we’ll be beginning our summer alone together.  I’ll have to send him an email directing him back to that post, and maybe I’ll even add a thing or two.  Wish me luck!


  1. PK, isn't real life trying, But I know exactly where you are coming from.
    I'm the same, when I cook for myself, I do the right thing for a diabetic, when I eat with the family the rules go out the window.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. Gosh, all the food sounds delicious! Food and family just go together. Sounds like a great time. Good plan on directing Nick back to the email. If that does not work then you'll have to give us his email and we'll help you out!

  3. The bread sounds yummy, actually it all sounds yummy. Just look at it as a much deserved break, enjoy your time with Mollie and start again when she is gone. Maybe Nick could give you a nice motivational spanking to get you restarted :)

  4. Good luck with Nick. It would be wonderful to have my kids cook but no such luck, you can send her my way for a bit, lol. Enjoy the time together and the spankings :-)

  5. I'm coming to your house next time Mollie is back home - her food sounds wonderful.

    What's Ranch powder?

    Sounds like your going to have a fun summer.


  6. With kids, we get the good, the bad and our bad/fun times. Wish my kids knew how to cook, maybe I wouldn't want them out of the house so soon. Lol I am sure that Nick will give you a break since having Molly home was a treat for both of you (he may have gained a pound????) Enjoy the rest of your time with your daughter.

  7. Sounds like Molly is going to be hosting the Sunday dinners soon. Food sounds delicious - hard on the diet though.

    Happy you are enjoying your time with her.

    Now that Nick has stepped up maybe just a gentle reminder will urge him on. Good for you.

  8. I so know where you are coming from! When i am helping with the grandchildren, my kids make sure to have all my favorite foods on hand, and to plan lots of ice cream outings. I love them for it, but......

    Good idea to give Nick and little boost...good luck!

  9. LOL, PK, at your title! Since it's time for the summer to officially start, consider it stocking up a bit for all the running you now have time to do. Hey, it could work. :)

  10. Paul,
    It’s like junk food. I love chips, but I never buy them to keep at the house. But if I find them at a party or if Mollie brings some home – then they’re fair game.

    It was all delicious! Never fear I’ll be reminding Nick once we are back on our own.

    I think you have given me some excellent advice!! And I think I’m gonna take it!

    My poor child, she probably felt it was learn to cook or starve. I can boil water, but I need written instructions.

    Hey Ronnie,
    She uses the powder mix for making ranch dressing, only she mixed in into the butter. It was sooo good.

    Sounds like you and Tiffany are just good mothers. Be careful, you’ll make home too nice to leave. My kids were and are loved to death, but I shoved the cooking, cleaning and laundry off on them really early.

    This has been a fun week with her. I’m gonna miss her, but I think it will be a fun summer with Nick.

    I know they do things like that because they love us and it so hard to resist the love! LOL! But I’m sure Nick won’t mind keeping me on track.

    Running? Me? Well maybe I will do some exercise – swimming is closer to my style. I like the stocking up idea.

  11. Anonymous6:50 PM

    with cooking like that, send her here i would love an overseas exchange student hehehe - oh yeah i forgot, in at ww too lol....dont beat youself up, enjoy it (and the consequences hehehe)
    love and hugs kiwi