I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Monday, December 22, 2008

Finally that birthday spanking

I have been in a really strange mood for me lately. I’ve been distracted and unsettled for nearly a month but I seem to be coming back to a good place for me. I feel better than I could have imagined a few weeks ago. I feel well loved by friends and family. I am contend and I feel well connected to Nick these days. So what has been strange? I haven’t felt like being spanked. Now for me that is very unusual.

It’s not that I would have turned one down or anything but I have noticed for the last little while that my pain tolerance is very low for some reason. We haven’t done a lot of spanking lately but we have managed a few. But where in the past I have always been the one wanting ‘harder’ and ‘longer’ lately I have been fine with a few swats! The idea of a long, slow, gentle warm up seemed much more desirable than it used to.

So because of all this I wasn’t really anxious for my birthday spanking. I kept quiet about it but evidently Nick hadn’t forgotten. When Saturday rolled around Mollie headed out to baby sit leaving us unattended for the afternoon. We were in no rush and a nap was the first thing on the agenda. But as we woke feeling refreshed Nick took my hand and led me to the bedroom.

He started the warm up over my jeans but that didn’t last long, he likes to see how he’s doing. So the jeans and panties came off fairly quickly. He kept up a nice warm up – about the right intensity. He said “Since this is your birthday do you have any requests for what I should use?” Now like I said I haven’t exactly been daydreaming about the really hard stuff so I suggested out small leather paddle with the fur on one side and the small leather heart shaped paddle we got in LA. Know what he said?? Well I don’t know exactly either but basically he called me a wimp! How do you like that! A former vanilla calling me a wimp!

Well he took my suggests in part – he did uses both, but first a plug. He does know me well! Then he proceeded to also use the flogger,

the hair brush,

the wooden paddle,

the orange county whapper (pictured in my masthead) and finally his belt.

How the heck old did he think I was?? But it was a very nice afternoon. While he was spanking he took breaks to torment me deliciously with the vibrator. I did end up enjoying the spanking very much – even with the threat of the backscratcher and the tawse (NOT two of my favorites) for a little late laundry.

With the birthday spanking over we got down to some really fun stuff. We have some interesting warming lotions that I find a very arousing. If fact everything he did that afternoon I found very arousing. We made love the olde way it was fun coming back to ourselves in a tangle of vibrators, cords, spanking implements and assorted toys. For those who haven’t turned 52 yet I suggest it, you won’t be disappointed!


  1. Ohhhhh, what a HAPPY birthday for you. You're very luck to have Nick to give you such birthday love.


  2. Wow, does this mean I have to wait 12 years?

    I don't know if I can hold out that long! But GOOD job Nick! He really is getting the hang of this stuff, isn't he?


  3. Lovely Nick, he treated you very well and sounds like you had a very belated Happy Birthday Mmmmmmm lovely. I like the sound of the paddle with the fur.

    Thank you.

  4. Anonymous8:18 AM

    Now THAT sounds like some fun! Woohoo!

  5. Aww, that's wonderful. I'm happy you enjoyed such a lovely spanking. Have you tried a swat with the fur side? I never would have thought of it, but Hubby did. It's nice and soft and adds variety. :)

  6. PK, nice post girl, happy that you ebjoyed the spanking and the band,
    Love and warm hugs,

  7. I am glad that you enjoyed your birthday celebration...

  8. ....Wow. What a Birthday!
    (I might be able to swing that on my 52nd.; however, I'm going to need a good swift hand. Any takers?

    Happy Birthday & many more.


  9. Anonymous8:18 PM

    How did I miss this Post? I can't believe it. And what a Post it is! Oh My how many spanking implements did he use I lost count after a while! I don't think I can handle a spanking like that! Your Vanilla husband isn't so Vanilla. What is he going to do for your next birthday?
    Take care,

  10. Carly,
    I feel lucky! It was great!

    I think you really need your butt beat for point out the 12 year age difference! And you should be sent to bed with out supper - alone!

    I love the fur paddle! That side is really good when you need a little break.

    It was fun!

    I know what you mean. You can feel it but it doesn't hurt.

    I am a happy, lucky woman these days.

    Birthdays are a great holiday for spankos!

    I have no doubt that you will have many takers!

    I think I lost count too! The year I turned 50 he used something new for each decade. LOL! His belt is my hands down favorite!

  11. Anonymous1:40 AM

    Hugs PK and happy birthday again. Sounds like it was a wonderful birthday spanking and you and Nick both enjoyed yourself.

    That flogger is identical to mine. Plenty of thud.


  12. Awwwww, that was so sweet, :)

    And gentle and loving in the way only a spanko can deliver.

    Your best gift is your lovely husband and a perfectly warmed bottom :)

    All the best to you and many more,

    :) Pretty