I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Friday, March 30, 2007


Just a note – click on the black and white cats here and you will see something we did with the help of our geeky goddess, the lovely CeeCi!! We hope everyone will use it but it was done for a specific reason which Eva can tell you if she likes! Truly aren’t we cute as heck!

Now on to the post –

I have a question for my fellow spankee’s out here. It would probably make a good survey question but that would involve me actually learning how to put a survey out here and that involves asking Eva and not understanding what she is telling me to do and then she will call and yell at me while I whine about my ignorance… blah, blah, blah.

Anyway my question – Do you make noise when you are being spanked? I mean if you are alone and you don’t have to worry about being overheard. And I mean you not the implement.

The reason I ask is that I am totally silent except for the occasionally gasp. This isn’t really the way I want it. I would love to make some noise. I am not a yeller by nature (now don’t ask Mollie or my students about that, their thoughts don’t count!). Actually both fear and pain make me very quiet. I never made a sound when either child was born. And this was during the time when epidurals were ‘out’ and good mothers had completely natural childbirth! So that’s what I did. But no screaming or yelling, I just couldn’t lose control like that. Maybe that’s still it.

I think if I cried or yelled during a spanking the spanking would end. But it would be nice to be able to fight a bit. I would like to be comfortable saying “No!” or “That hurts!” or “Stop!” all without him really stopping. Yes Nick, I admit all this is confusing but answers like “It’s supposed to hurt” and “I’ll stop when I’m through” are reasonable responses. For the time being I guess I’ll stay quiet. Maybe I can let go someday, maybe a little at a time.

But what about you guys, how much noise do you make?


  1. Noise? What noise? Oh, you mean all that yeowling and snarling and hissing and spitting? That was Dante... yeah, that's it...

    Why are ya asking? Are you standing outside right now? I'll throw you a piece of cheese...

    Seriously, yes, I make noise, sometimes a little, sometimes none, sometimes a lot (remember my "Uma" post?)... I speak in tongues when being spanked hard, which is always how Dante spanks *grins* If I remember right, that is...

    As for you, yeah of course it's about control and letting go... but it will happen in its own time, just like everything else. Don't rush it and don't pressure yourself or Nick... you're getting closer every day. Both of you...

    Oh, and I love the twins connection... way cool!


  2. Other than a few chortles, snorts and giggles, um, no I don't make much noise. Lately, I haven't made any noise at all.

    ciao bella~

  3. Anonymous1:08 PM

    I thought the kitty thing was way cool. You gals!

    I don't know what to tell you on the noise issue. I am usually quiet except for the occassional gasp!

    I'm so sure this helps you - NOT! Tiggr was much more helpful!

    Have fun...

    Debbie :)

  4. I am a noise maker...I didn't get to finish coitus today because I was making too much noise for Husband's liking with his son in the house. *grins*

  5. PK, my Mel was quite vocal even when receiving a good girl spanking, attitude adjustments and bratting spankings also tended to be vocal.
    Punishments were mostly silent the occasional gasp and sobs, I understood this, as Mel didn't like taking punishments and I certainly didn't like giving them, however much they were needed.
    You haven't been doing this long, you and Nick will get more comfortable with it and when you do it will be even better.
    Warm hugs,

  6. Anonymous7:52 PM

    Noise? Heck yeah I make noise. Geeze. If it hurts doncha say ouch or something?

    Twin~ On a totally different subject Adam told me today that if we take a road trip this summer that we're NOT taking the crop.... was wondering, can I borrow yours?


  7. Tig,
    I guess I don't really care about the noise so much but it would be great to really completely let go sometime.

    In that case I hope there are chortles, snorts and giggles in your near future!

    It nice to know that there are others out here with similar exteriences to mine.

    You go girl!! Of course you might wait until your son spend the night away!

    You're right. We really are still new at this. I have no complaints. I have seen how quickly things can progress. It does make life exciting!

    Nope, I never make any noise.

    And, twin, you have my word, come see me and my toy box is your toy box!!

  8. I don't make a lot of noise, some.... but I don't want him to stop and I think it would if I made too much!


    PS: I LOVE what you have done with the kitty's!!!!

  9. Anonymous10:23 PM

    I make lots of noise while being spanked. I'm very vocal with my spankings, orgasms and being fucked. :)
    Thanks for stopping by my blog and your comment..
    padme amidala

  10. Gosh I'm awful - I yell and cry and beg and promise and sometimes scream. If our little one's not asleep, I do it all into a pillow, but heck yes I meake noise! Of course in my opinion my Nick spanks very, very hard. :)

  11. Carye,
    I think you and I are in about the same boat. Do nothing that might cause it to stop!

    Thanks, I like the kitty thing too!

    I will make noise someday! I'm working on it.

    Kid in the house do cause us to watch our volume in anything and everything we do! I might practice yelling into a pillow. Got to start somewhere.

    Thanks for coming by, all us southern girls need to stick together!

  12. No way I can answer this in comments. It will be an entire post!


  13. D can always hear me, PK, LOL. I want him to KNOW exactly how it feels! If it's a GG spanking, I'll make happy sounds. If it's a punishment spanking, I'll beg and say "please" about a million times. If I'm pissed off when he decides to change my attitude, I yell and swear (but only through the first part, LOL)