I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Saturday, November 21, 2020

LOL Day, part two

I really appreciate everyone who came by to read yesterday. Today I went back and found the very first LOL post I ever put up. It's still true so I wanted to repost it. It was so long ago I was going by Elis, rather than PK. Now that was a LONG time ago!

After that I've included one of my all time favorite posts, just to give you something to read today if you get the time. And please, come by anytime and say hey.

This is for my quiet readers, those that never leave comments. The lurkers. Yes we are all talking to you today for a very special purpose. We want to meet you. Remember total anonymity. 

Let me introduce myself. Like most of us here I am in my forty’s and boy, did I have to type fast to make that true! I’m a school teacher. I have a son who is a college freshman and a daughter in the 8th grade. We go to church each Sunday and I teach my Sunday school class every third week. 

I tell you this because when I started lurking I assumed that anyone writing a spanko/sex blog had to be a bit strange, a little perverted, a person who might have a few stories I would like to read but never someone I would want to talk with. I just hope you will realize that we really are just normal people. We are fascinated by the idea of spanking. We have been since we were little kids and if you are here you understand what I am talking about. 

I have made wonderful friends here. No I do not know where they live and I will probability never see them. But they are good friends. Blogging is a good thing in my life. I would love for you to say hi! If you are still not comfortable then wait until you are and say hi then. Although it is anonymous its nice if you will use a name, any name you want to make up, just so we will know it’s the same person.

Hugs, Elis

Gotta Rant

An email from a friend got me all stirred up about this topic so pardon me while I rant but I am just so mad. I want to know where the rest of the world gets off thinking that what we enjoy and the lifestyle we chose makes us some type of sicko that should not be accepted in polite society!

Many people enjoy massages; often they pay big bucks to have a stranger give them a massage. They talk about how good it felt and 
how relax they felt afterwards. If their friends, family and colleagues have any thoughts on the matter most would think, “Yeah, a massage would be great.” But I hate massages! Often people I barely know come up behind me and start rubbing my shoulders. It hurts likes hell! I want to scream at them. If I say anything about not wanting them digging their digits into the muscles near my neck I get a strange look and something like “You don’t LIKE that? There must be something wrong with you! You're way too tense!”

I see people at the gym lifting weights so heavy they look as though they are going to tear a muscle. Runners and cyclist are taught to run or ride through the pain for the benefits on the other side. Huge men are paid bazillion dollars to slam into one another to get a ball moved down a field. All of these people are engaging in activities, by their own choice, that both hurt like hell and are activities that some others would never ever want to do. Yet they are considered normal. People will let them talk about what they enjoy doing and it’s even acceptable to encourage other to at least give it a try.

I enjoy being spanked. I love the sting, I love the afterglow, I love the achy soreness the next day, I love the feeling of release, I love 
the emotional closeness I feel with my husband, I love everything about it! Spanking is good for my physical, mental and emotional well-being. I am not even encouraging others to try it. I am just saying it is a wonderful thing in my life.

So how come I would be the one to possible lose my job if my superiors were to discover that I blog about it. At best I could expect to be ridiculed, thought of as unnatural or perhaps perverted. I’TS NOT FAIR! I am just as normal as those who like massages, lift weight, run or play football. But no, our desire is strictly taboo. I want to stand up and yell, “I’m mad and I’m not going to take it anymore!” instead I have to sit here and type “I’m mad and there is not a damn, friggin thing I can do about it!”

And if you don’t mind if I rant on, another topic we are discussing on our blog is about our sex life. This would also make our friends and family gasp in horror and heap embarrassment on us. WHY? If I was reading blogs to improve my cardiovascular system that would be fine, if my boss or family found out they would be proud of me. I could ask all the question I wanted to and gathering all the information I could. But if I want to learn about my sexuality, if I want to learn more about how this part of my body how it works and ways to improve or enhanced the quality of an orgasm – oh my, heaven forbid! And speaking of heaven, God created our bodies and included in the female special added features strictly for pleasure having nothing to do with reproduction. So evidently He intended for us to enjoy this part of our lives. There is nothing wrong with researching how our bodies are supposed to work.

We are talking about sex and spankings on our blogs. I am not standing on the street corner yelling these things at folks that do not want to hear it. If you don't want to hear my opinions on these topics you wouldn’t have read this far. I know that none of us are embarrassed in the least by what we read or write yet we are all afraid of others finding out, because many others won’t understand. I want my blog to remain a secret. Not only would I have to live with the embarrassment if it were discovered, my family would also. But if anyone I know does find my blog and tries to make me feel guilty or threats to tell others I am going to print this post off, shove it in their face and tell them to kiss my ass!

My friends, I thank you for allowing me a place for my rant. I knew I would be safe here.


  1. Hi PK -
    I really enjoyed reading and related to your "rant" above. Thanks for that! Happy LOL Day - Part II to you.


    PS I'd like to submit to your Fantasy Friday at some point if you would have me back.

    1. Thank for coming by again. I think most of us can relate to that rant.
      I would love to have a FF story from you any time!

  2. I am a long term lurker! I used to spend a lot of time reading blogs when there were a lot of them 9-10 years ago. It became too painful for a while to see what you wanted but not have it. However your honest struggles kept me reading this blog and I enjoy the stories. Thank you for continuing to blog.

    1. So nice to hear from you Alice! I remember that feeling, I still get waves of it yet. But I still feel better being out here blogging. I really hope you'll stop by and speak again.

  3. Anonymous7:59 PM

    Hi, PK!
    I've been interested in spanking since grade school. My best friend was also. It was not sexual with my friend but it is with my husband. I discovered spanking blogs about 8 years ago by accident. I'm so glad I did. I agree completely with your rant.
    Many of the blogs I loved are gone so I'm glad you are still here.
    All My Best,


    1. So you're like me, an interesting in spanking from a young age. I was grateful to let go of much of my anger in the rant by retiring and outting myself to my to family and friends.

      I hope you'll drop by and speak again.

  4. Happy LoL day 2 PK. Enjoyed reading your first LOL post and I remember the rant post. Well said!


    1. It's really been fun hearing from some folks who are usually quiet as well as old friends.

  5. How did I miss day 2? Ugh.
    I remember this rant post! What you said is so true! I often wonder why we get pigeon holed into being considered creepy with raised judge mental eyebrows!
    Thanks for reminding me again!

    1. I guess anything someone else does is 'strange.' But we all know we are more than normal!

  6. PK, Happy belated LOL day. Haven't been around blogland. Bad internet probs and still ongoing. I hope you had some of your silent readers say hello.


    1. Sorry about your internet - but always love seeing you here.

  7. I just so very much enjoy your blog.
    I'm not a fan of pedicures which apparently horrifies some people. So I hear ya loud and clear! It does bug me that I cannot talk with people about our dynamic but...not in a million years. I don't think that will change, either. Sigh.
    Happy LOL (2) Day and again...many thanks.

    1. I've really been stunned at how easily I can talk about it now. I have no choice if I want to push my books. Even now I rarely use the 's' word, but I can discuss it in general term. Remember I've given our minister two of my books to read and she enjoyed them. She did not pass them on to her new husband, however! LOL! Always great to see you here.

  8. 🙂__😈 I guess you will have to read between the line...

    Have a great day
    And better Tomorrows