I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Thursday, May 27, 2010


A quick update on the cat moving business – I think I’ve found me a job for when I retire. I priced moving 2 cats from NC to NYC. If they can both go in the same crate its only $768 if they have to have separate cages its $1,016. As LJ said " For that money I could teleport them." I think I'll go into the animal transport trade!

Now I want to talk a little about maintenance. It’s been about 3 weeks since I asked Nick to try it. We’ve been testing the water. It’s still the time of year when work consumes me and my head is not into all this as much as I would like. And as I told Nick I have really been in ‘mommy mode’ lately between graduation, prom and LJ moving. That makes it harder for me to feel sexy, to think of myself as a wife and a lover. But each Wednesday Nick has remembered and that makes me happy.

I like the talking; I adore the spanking and let me tell you for old folks the sex ain’t bad either! We have blended the maintenance and spanking some and it been just fine but we didn’t Wednesday and that was fine too. We don’t feel locked into anything. Yesterday he mentioned me getting to bed 24 minutes late one night. He doesn’t seem to mind if I’m just a minute or two late. But he thought 24 minutes was overdoing it. He also wants me to spend a little more time at the gym and to start taking my vitamins again. I do forget them sometimes, well all the time – but I’m going to do better.

I like the time we spend talking. It’s important for married people to do that. Whether we talk about us, what we want or need, the kids, work, the house, LJ’s move – it doesn’t matter, it’s nice just talk. But just so you’ll know I’m the same old PK, I’m still greedy. The spanking part could go on twice as long and, as long as I get a good warm up, can be even harder! Will I ever get enough? I doubt it. But I’m hoping that once school is out and I can really feel like me again I plan to show my gratitude to Nick in ways I know he’s going to really enjoy!

I did ask for a bonus yesterday. Nick’s going to be gone this weekend and as good as the spanking was today I did want more. So crazy me asked for a little with the cane – I don’t like the cane, not even a little but I do like to end up a spanking with something I’m going to feel later. The cane leaves such lovely stripes and a lingering line of fire that will last. It won’t last for the whole time Nick’s gone (wouldn't it be great to be sporting bruises since he's leaving me alone all weekend?). But it was nice while it lasted and it will give me something to hold onto while he’s out of town.


  1. PK, that is expensive, apart from the hiccup with LJ's stuff and the cats, life seems to be going well with you.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. It sounds like you have things going well in the maintenance department. A farewell caning - what next?


  3. Paul,
    Life is going well although work nearly whipped me today - and not in the good way.

    LOL I guess that one way of looking at it!

  4. Glad to hear thing are going well and that Nick is making very good use of the cane :)


  5. Interesting you would bring this up. I was recently thinking of how can I make a living and be around cats! Now I know.

    Michael's last flight home was only $130. His luggage cost almost as much. Seems to me for the price your luggage should get a seat next to you.

    Love and Huggs!

  6. PK: Isn't it great he's gotten into maintenance and that you're communicating.

    And he left you with stripes to remember him by. How sweet.

    Sounds like even though you have a full plate, life is good.