I believe that Nick would disagree with this finding. I think he would put it at closer to 100%. But he counts all my time on the computer as blogging and that’s not true. Sometimes I am emailing my blogging friends, that’s totally different!
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.
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Monday, July 02, 2007
Saturday, June 30, 2007
Our Sunday Visit
As I sat there listening I got to looking back and forth between Eva an
When we left there we headed up the mountains for lunch. We have a nice little town nestled in our mountains that is fun to just wander through it. After lunch we hit a few of these shops. One was a candy/toy store. It didn’t take Eva and I long to spot some of the toys there that could easily find their way in to our toy boxes. It was so much fun to just look at each other and know!
We rode around in the mountains and Eva and Adam seemed impressed with the
We stopped by a beautiful old home in the mountains to take in the great view and look at the mountain crafts that are sold from the store now. Eva and I sat outside talking and enjoying the breeze while the guys looked through the store. When Nick came out he told us there were some really nice boat paddles that David would probably really like! When we went in to look I was at first startled to see a rack
On the way home we stopped by one more kitchen supply store and an ice cream / candy shop (Mollie had wanted us to bring her candy from there). And yes I did get ice cream but only a little tiny cone! Nick took the old road home, through the area where he grew up. LOL! I think Eva and Adam were listening for banjo music at we passed curve after curve in the deep mountain woods. My man came from the sticks!!
Eventually the
Well folks that was our visit! For me it was a dream comes true. I met Eva face to face 25 day shy of a year from the first time I left a comment on here brand new blog. An incredible year, an incredible visit! I believe it was the first of many!!!!
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Weight gain woes
When he finally stopped and started rubbing he was explaining that while I was doing well on the over all weight loss plan there would be no backsliding. I was doing okay, it was over, he was rubbing and the introduction of the new toy had at least gotten me a reprieve from the hairbrush that is our nastiest toy and the one he now uses when I gain. Avoiding that wasn’t the worse thing that could have happened, but then I heard him open the drawer where he keeps the hair brush.
What! The bs was a warm up!! Are you kidding me?? Ten with the brush was not exactly the top thing on my list of thing to do. Not to worry, I didn’t get ten – I got thirty!! Are you listening? Thirty!! At least that’s what I think, I lost count somewhere in the mid-twenties and it wasn’t quite over. I am usually nearly silent during a spanking but not quite that time. Trust me when I say I got the message!
Now I got some wonderful loving after all that but my butt was reminding me all day as we toured with Eva and Adam that Nick was not forgetting the weight loss program that he had promised to help me with! And in spite of the sore butt I am very grateful that he is still taking this seriously. I am too. I have been to the gym every day this week so far – Monday through Thursday. Cross your fingers I weigh first thing Friday morning. This weigh in will be close. Yes I have been to the gym but I also enjoyed eating out with our company. To find out if I made it this week check back in with Todd and Suzy over at A.S.S. either Tuesday or Wednesday.
Meanwhile I will soon be telling you about our Sunday because there wasn’t a moment while Eva and Adam were here that wasn’t fun for me!
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Saturday
Grace!
You thought she wasn’t here. You thought she wasn’t in on this visit. Oh but her influence was here all along. She got into Eva’s head. While on a pretty little resort island something caught Eva’s eye, worse than that it caught her imagination. And who ended up paying for this flight of fancy - me! And ultimately who’s fault was it – Grace’s. You see Grace puts dangerous and potential damaging information on her site for anyone to read.
Eva and I hadn’t ‘met’ before so we had gotten each other a gift. Eva gave me a candle and candle warmer that has my house smelling better than it ever has! I gave her books. Both nice sensible gifts, I even had a little gift for Adam. But then Grace came into the picture. As Eva strolled through a gift shop on her island – she saw it, a backscratcher! Now seeing this might not have put ideas in her head had it not been for Grac
My sister got me one, bless her heart. And the best thing about that was that Adam told her “If you are getting one for PK I am getting one for you too.” It’s the twin thing you know!
Alright Grace I am annoyed but I will say one thing for you, you haven’t lied! That is one mean little sucker – more about that tomorrow.
It was after that that I brought out the toys to show. They seemed interested in the ones Nick had made. I love them too because besides warming my rear end they also warm my heart. He made them just for me and
We spent much of the afternoon playing on the computer while Adam tried out the pool and the guys talked more. And later that night we went to a somewhat southern restaurant. It wasn’t until the next morning that Grace officially got on my bad side!
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
The first day
When we got to the hotel and I knocked, I wondered for a minute if she had changed her mind but as she peeped around the door she must have thought we looked alright because she did open the door and I got my first hug. I felt like one big grin! Once I saw them I was fine. I think I adjusted faster that when we first spoke on the phone.
I could tell Mollie was nervous because she wasn’t talking. And I wanted Eva to hear that she, unlike me, sounded southern. Of course before the weekend was over she had plenty of chances to hear Mollie talk!! LJ joined in he usually feels pretty comfortable in any situation.
Collin joined us for supper then we all came back to the house to visit. That was fun, just getting comfortable with each other. Mollie was funny most of th
There wasn’t any friction until the next morning. We went to an all you can eat breakfast and I was forced to throw myself in front of the grits to protect them from Yankees with a sugar fetish. Adam also had me shaking my head as he put pepper on his cantaloupe. I guess I shouldn't be shocked - just because they are spanko doesn’t mean that they are completely normal!
More details about Saturday tomorrow.
Monday, June 25, 2007
Come back!
Everything about the weekend was fun for me. Nothing surprised me, not really, I mean Eva and I have talked every day for almost a year so we have covered a lot of territory. So while one thing didn’t surprise me it was wonderful to see! You guys have absolute no idea how much Eva and Adam love each other! I love watching them together. Okay Eva has a blog, she tells us how much she loves Adam. But to get to watch him with her now that was fun.
I don’t mean to say that they run around like teenagers making out or something. They are an old married couple like us but I love
There is a lot more to tell we are going to cover it all eventually although things will probably be popping up for quite. Being a detail whore myself I will start at the beginning and go through the whole visit but I have to organize my thoughts. But I wanted to post today. And I didn’t cry when they left, I almost did when each of my kids came and hugged me to see if I was okay. I’m okay. I’m fine but I’ll be better when she gets home and emails me!!
Saturday, June 23, 2007
Keeps getting better!
Back home I just went ahead and took the plunge. I brought out my toy box. What fun it was to share something I love so much with people who I knew would understand. They admired the contents and Adam said he was sorry he hadn’t brought their toys from the hotel but he didn’t know we were having show and tell!
We talked about everything! Of course this was the first time we had ever had a real discussion with other spanko about our chosen lifestyle. It felt wonderful! To totally be ourselves about what we thought and felt and liked and wanted. Honestly, even knowing Eva as well as I do I was expecting it to be a little uncomfortable face to face. Not so much with us but I just wondered how the guys would feel. But we all just talked, it wasn’t strange, it wasn’t uncomfortable. I was just friends talking! WONDERFUL!!
Yes as the day progressed we did some stuff that you might not have really expected us to do but you can read about that over at Eva’s site. But there were some things we did that you would have expected. We took some vanilla pictures and the guys did say we could post this one since we were in our natural habitat and were fully clothed. So don’t expect anything kinky, it’s just us being ourselves! I think we look very natural...
Yep it's really us...
And the best part is that we have all day Sunday too!!!!! I thought their visit would be great, it is fantastic!!!!!
Friday, June 22, 2007
I'm in Love!
I have much more to tell - this is going to be a great weekend!!
Thursday, June 21, 2007
Today's the Day!!
I don’t know exactly when I’ll be posting again. I am having company you know and being on the computer while company is here would just be rude!
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
I think I'm ready
I have found an up side to cleaning! I found something that I thought I had lost – my first edition copy of Nine and a half Weeks! I remember ordering it from a book club back in 1978. If you have only seen the movie you do not know anything abut the book. To say it was written for us is an understatement. Now the folks in the story didn’t have it exactly right and they would have benefited from all of our blogs to better understand their relationship. But it’s a book all spanko should read!! I was so fascinated when I first read it, I had never read anything like it before and even though I didn’t think anyone else knew about it I kept it hidden away, never out on the shelf! Now it’s on my shelf and it’s staying there. I found another book we all would enjoy and I will blog about it in the near future.
Soon, soon, soon!! My twin is coming!! And this time last year neither of us knew the other existed. Anyone who is a quiet lurker that feels like you don’t want to jump in because the rest of us all know each other so well and you feel like an outsider, please remember we ALL felt like the outsider when we first started commenting. I know that I sure did. Oh but look what I would have missed if I hadn’t taken the plunge!
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Summer lovin'
The next morning after we got up and took care of a few house hold chores I found out the celebration was only beginning. Nick led me back to the bedroom when the toy box was laid out and a towel on the bed. I got to lay back as Nick shaved me – very nice! He then sent me to the shower (alone and I soon found out why). After my shower I settled back on the bed and Nick handed me the blindfold. A wonderful (if short) spanking followed when I then realized what he had been doing while I was in the shower. He was preparing more ginger. That stuff is hot everywhere you try it! We had one FINE morning!! Now this is what summer is all about!!
Monday, June 18, 2007
Summer cleaning
I’m not actually worried about what Eva and Adam will think of the house. I never really did, I knew it they thought it was awful they would never say anything. But summer is about the only time I clean anyway. In August I will again host our family reunion. This will be the 23 year. And this one should be a big one. We will have 4 and maybe 5 coming from California. Theresa, how close will Michael be to San Diego?? I have tons of family there.
I have to go into the school tomorrow and Wednesday too. The boss asked me to sit in on his interviews for the teaching positions that have to be filled for next year. I think it will be interesting. I have done this before. I am the senior classroom teacher at our school. In fact only 4 people on a campus of 93 employees have been there longer than I have. I suddenly feel very old! There are older teachers there, of course, but this will be my 19 year at the same school.
Sorry this wasn’t real exciting. The children have been around a
We are on the count down now 4 more days!! Can you believe it??
It's Carye's day!
Papa Shrek, how about a birthday present for Carye that I think she really wants and it won’t cost you a thing?? How about letting her start her own blog?? I know she doesn’t have time, I really do know that. But none of us would expect her to post all that often. We would be happy with a few times a month. We love her comments, we love the stories the both of you have shared, really we all just love Carye and want her to be our here with us if possible! Come on give her the chance, if she abuses the privilege you could always spank her!
LJ and Mollie got to see, for the first time, many of my aunts as young vibrant women. Fashionably dressed in the forties style, looking truly elegant. My children had only known them as ancient little ladies in the nursing homes. It was such fun to point out all the different people that they know know now but would have never recognized. Five sisters, several of whom still attend our church, all playing around as little girls with their parents looking on.
We saw so many things I remembered, toys, furniture, dishes, figurines many which we have recently disposed of as we had the job of empting my folk’s house. But two things I saw really caught my imagination. They were filming my first birthday party. Mama sat my cake with my little candle in it and instead of going for the cake I held out my hand to my mom. I felt that way all my life. I just wanted her close. The secon
Like I said it was a little sad but mostly happy and funny. All in all it was a great way to spend the afternoon with my little family.
Friday, June 15, 2007
Vacation begins...
Now that everything is looking pretty good I may not let the family back in until its time for Eva and Adam to get here next Friday! I just can’t wait!!!! I have been keeping up with my twin in there travels. They seem to be having a ball! We have been doing a little texting and she does have the lap top with her. I did get to talk to her for a minute today when she called to ask what red eye gravy was. Poor ignorant Yankee!
Thanks to all of you who have been writing me to keep me from being so lonely without Eva around to listen to my ramblings. I keep asking her “Are you here yet?” So far, no. But a week from today! Next Friday and they will be here! I feel like a kid counting down to Christmas! Do you know we are still nervous about meeting? You would think we were kids with some of the dumb things that are playing around in our minds. I think we would both like to lose weight and have a complete make over before we meet. I want the house to be perfect. I want to learn everything about the computer so Eva won’t think I am dumb when I ask here to sit with me and go over a few things. Yes we are both old enough to know these things don’t matter but they are still there.
Adam is still a mystery! I have seen picture. I have heard his voice and of course I have read the comments he has left. But talking with him seeing the two of them together – I just can't quite imagine it! It will be interesting to see how the guys interact. I feel that the deep down basic belief that their wives are a bit strange in their deepest desires will help them with the initial bond, but after that who knows where the conversation will lead. What ever happens it’s going to me fun!
Someone else is pretty excited too. Mollie gets to hear my end of some of the phone conversations that Eva and I have. They have even spoken a time or two and occasionally have email a message or two through me. Mollie always refers to her as “my little friend”. Eva’s ring will sound on my phone and Mollie rolls her eyes and says “Your little friend is calling!” She just better remember my ‘little friend’ had raised 3 daughters already and teaches high school math! Together we might be Mollie’s worse nightmare!! But I can tell Mollie is dying to meet her. Dying to meet the woman who has captured my imagination and bring such a grin to my face when her ring sounds on my phone. But while I am looking forward to them meeting, after they meet, how do I get rid of Mollie so that we can talk!! I would like all of us to go out one night LJ and Collin too. But eventually I want to be able to talk without the kids around. Oh well, I will work it out some how.
I am just so excited!!
Thursday, June 14, 2007
I just wanted a peek...
I know it’s tacky to go into someone’s home and go through their luggage
before they leave on a trip, but what the heck. I just couldn’t help wondering what kind of things you would need for 2 weeks or so. And sure I was curious about the toys they might pack – but who knew they would pack 4 suitcase of nothing but toys!
I really liked the costumes! French maids outfit, naughty nurse uniforms, cheer leader complete with pom poms, the cowgirl outfit was pretty nice and well as the Indian princess. Let me guess what the feathers are for! Adam is going to look pretty hot in his clothes. I like the cowboy outfit a lot but really for my taste the spurs are going a bit too far. I also think he will look exceptionally handsome in the cop outfit. Of course I think real cops have metal handcuffs, not leather ones.
Two full bags of crops, paddles, belts, spoons, slippers, hairbrushes, slappers, flyswatters, backscratchers, rulers… I hope they have a sunroof! It doesn’t look like Adam plans on Eva doing much sitting on the trip!
Now the 4th suitcase was truly interesting. What do two people need with so much lube?? I mean do they have extra in case of car trouble or what?? Here was where I found the ropes, the clamps the plugs and of course the Hitachi! Well they certainly do plan on have having fun on this trip. There was even and empty suitcase for the toy they plan on picking up along the way. I didn’t see any regular clothes packed (I do hope those bag were up stairs).
All and all I guess it was pretty normal stuff or a spanko couple going on vacation. But some things I found in the costume bag has me curious. Eva has ever said anything that makes me think she is a switch but the leather corset, the thigh high leather boots with the stiletto heels and the little whip with the tassel… I don’t think Adam knows about this side of her. This could really be an interesting trip!
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Now that it's here...
Meet Eva and Adam
Have wild, crazy, passionate sex
Get spanked with extreme frequency
Go to the beach
Have LJ get a job
Send Mollie to camp
Read the new Harry Potter book
Have more spanking and sex
Skinny dip in the pool
Lose weight
Try ginger again
Blog, blog, blog, blog, blog…
Have more spankings and sex
Get to meet all my blogging friends
Lose weight
Sleep late
Have lots of alone time with Nick
Eat mindlessly all day without gaining weight
Get all organized and prepared for the next school year
(fat chance)
Be lazy, lazy, lazy
Read the new Miss Julia book
Have more spankings and sex
What I want for my friends during my summer vacation
I want Eva and Adam to have a wonderful trip and decide to move south
I want Reesa to post faster
I want Theresa to write more Danny and Mayye stories
I want Tiggr back to normal (I mean her normal) getting spanked and writing full steam
I want Grace to spend lots of time with the family and even more alone with Bossman
I want CeeCi to get her libido back so strong she can’t write for squirming in her chair
I want Cassie and Tom to host a party for all of us in blogland to get together
I want Paul to relocate to the States, preferably the southeast
I want Bonnie to never run out of steam for spanking or blogging about it
I want Maggie to once again talk to MrC who loves the idea and keeps her too sore to sit
I want Emerald Eyes and Cm to have a beautiful wedding and a fantastic marriage
I want Todd and Suzy to have so much privacy for spanking that they both lose weight from it
I want Suzq to relive fond memories, enjoy old friend and make many new one
I want Padme and Anakin to have the time and energy to get all they need from each other
I want Sky to come back and say hello
I want Sar to have lots of adventures to write about and the time to write them
I want Carye to play hard with the kids all day so that they are all asleep by
I want Mthc and David to get a boat so David with have a place to play with that awful paddle besides our parties
I want Dave to find out his job and his son will be moving to Cindy’s town
I want Spanky and Kallisto to have all the time they want for each other and the time and desire to write about it
Really is this too much to ask?
The beautiful picture of the beach was taken by Rolf Hicker – Hicker Nature Photography. Obviously a very talented photographer! My thanks!
Saturday, June 09, 2007
Fire and Ice
It’s over!!! Can you say happy, relaxed, ecstatic, tickled, and euphoric!! I am feeling all that and this doesn’t even have anything to do with the end of school!
The last week of school and all that was happening caused me to forget that yesterday was Thursday! I am still supposed to write Nick each Thursday and this week I let it get away from me. Woops! I knew he had asked me to do it but I honestly didn’t think he would say anything if I skipped a week or just let it go altogether. Wrong! Evidently he still cares about what I have to say each week because after I got home from my last day and had my nap Nick asked “Wasn’t yesterday Thursday?” That was the first time this week I thought of it all week.
Nick said “Come with me” and he led me to the bedroom. He said “I want that assignment done each week, no excuses!” He started off with the little wooden paddle ball paddle and worked he was through the leather paddle on to the flogger. He did something new with the flogger. Part of the time he used it to flog my back. Now I had read about others doing this and my thought at the time was “I don’t think so!” It did not sound appealing to me. But I loved it! He was using it with only moderate force and it was like a wonderful massage.
Soon he left the room. Now every spanko knows that that causes your mind to spin and every nerve ending in the body to wonder what he is up to. I am no different. He came back in and began rubbing ice all over my burning bottom as well as a few other places that were burning in other ways. I wondered if he was going for a wet bottom spanking but he left the room again which left me wondering even more.
He was soon back and he most definitely had a way to spice up the afternoon further. Cindy, I was spared the embarrassment of having the checkers at the store wonder why I was buying ginger, Nick had gone out and bought some himself!! Well now this was new!! Reports on figging have not been exaggerated – it’s HOT! It’s very hot! The only thing hotter is that Nick bought it, prepared it and used it with out any prompting from me. For me that was the hottest thing! It was intense and so was the love making! I will have to say that I did most of my happy teacher dance horizontally but boy was it fun!!
After this wonderful afternoon he took me out to dinner. Who in the world could ask for a more perfect last day of work?? I am through teaching and have my whole summer to look forward to! Nick has made it clear that he is serious about knowing what I am thinking. This was important to me, I have still been hesitant about totally opening up, not really sure he wanted to know. Evidently he does. That’s hot! And with my talking and him listening who knows where the summer might lead??
And if all of this isn’t wonderful enough – EVA AND ADAM ARE COMING!!!
Thursday, June 07, 2007
It's here!
No question what to do first! Get the house ready for Eva and Adam!! I am not kidding when I say what a lousy house keeper, I am. I and I do know that they are not coming all this way to see my house – but still I want it to look good. I don’t mind telling everyone I’m a slob I just don’t want them to think that they have stumbled into the town dump. Besides, if Eva isn’t around all day to talk to me I will be bored and looking for things to do!
Deeeeeeeeep breath! Here I go! ONE MORE DAY!!

Tuesday, June 05, 2007
Sisters
I got the following email from a friend in real life and I immediately thought of my friends here and even though it speaks of women there are wonderful men out here that fit this too…
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't do what they're supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
BUT - Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles
are between you. A girlfriend is never farther away than needing her.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by
yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering
you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf,
and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you, or
come in and carry you out.
Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in- law, sisters,
sisters-in-law, mothers, grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins and
extended family all bless our life.
When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the
incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead, nor did we know how much we
would need each other.
Every day, we need each other still.
Sunday, June 03, 2007
Thursday Magic
I worked hard at the gym I came home tired but relaxed. Nick came to me and kissed me the minute I walked in the door. He said “You must be hot after all that exercise.” So he began taking off my clothes right in the living room. In minutes I was striped and he took me over to the couch put me across his knee. With all of our wonderful toys – crops, paddles, the tawse, flyswatters, wooden spoon, and many more, I often forget just how wonderful a hand spanking can be. It was like a wonderful birthday spanking – only I’m not that old!! Those last few were hard! And I was feeling wonderful.
He said a cool shower would be next. I went into the bath where he had candles lit – so romantic! Nick joined me in the shower used my favorite vanilla soap to wash all the good parts. The cool shower felt great but it still made my freshly spanked butt sting. As I got out I thought Nick was handing me my glasses but instead he handed me our blind fold.
In the bedroom I turned toward the bed but Nick turned me in the other direction, toward the door. Standing there naked and blindfolded I wasn’t sure what to expect but I was surprised when he slipped my wrist into two pre tied loops and hooked my arms over my head to the door! Nick then started spanking me with the leather paddle. He said “I got a call from the school today” (a total lie) “that said you had been surly and hateful to students and co-workers alike this week.” (okay, that part was true!) “They wanted me to see if I could straighten you out!” (You give it your best shot, big boy!) I was ready to do the spanking dance when he stopped and freed my hands and lead me toward the bed.
I lay on the bed still blindfolded listening to Nick rummage thought the toy box. The tawse comes out next, that one thing I can tell by feel and I think there were other things but I really can’t tell you for sure. I felt extremely well spanked when Nick took a break and gave me the vibrator as he got out the lube we use for anal play. As I used the vibrator Nick used the plug to heighten the sensation to almost more than I could stand.
He took me from behind and it was incredible. Each thrust brought unbelievable waves of pleasure. My ass was burning and the plug adds its own unbelievable sensation to the experience. Through all of this I hear Nick close to my ear breathing “When did you get so hot?” Me? I am married to the hottest man I know. The afternoon was one for the record book!
I think we both slept when it was over and I woke in Nick’s arms with him smiling at me. I was no longer worried about a few more days at school. I wasn’t worried about anything, I may never worry again! I think it’s going to be another great summer!