I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Monday, December 19, 2011

Fantastic Weekend

I’ve had a great weekend! We celebrated my birthday, Mollie came home, we had a big family Christmas party and then another celebration on Nick’s side of the family for his Mom’s birthday. It was a busy weekend but it was great!

My birthday was on Thursday. I was exhausted from school – Christmas time is a hard time to keep kids focused and at least pretending to study. Nick had finished up his work week and I knew he was pretty tired too. We had decided to celebrate on Friday but there was one gift Nick said I might just want to open with just him privately. I often send Nick ideas of things I’d like – some of them are ignored, LOL! But I keep trying. And let me tell you he really listened this time. This is what I got –

AMAZING! It was just want I’d asked for. I have a great love for leather. His belt is a real favorite of mine but I wanted something wider. This lovely strap fits the bill nicely! It’s from Cane-iac, and despite my aversion to their name (don’t mention canes to me!) I’ve always heard wonderful things about their products. This strap, called the OUCH, is beautifully made and looks indestructible. Eventually I may not view that as a good thing but I very pleased now.

We did give it a brief try on Thursday – just to make sure it worked, but the birthday spanking waited until Friday, when Nick was off all day and I got off at noon. I had some wonderful news early Friday morning. I lost 2.8 pounds last week!!! I was amazed and re-weighted several times on different scales to be sure it was correct. It seemed to be correct, anyway I’ll take it. We’re coming up on some hard weeks – parties and going out with friends, but I’m not giving up. This loss gives me real incentive to keep working at it.

I was soon off to school to finish up the last day and then anxiously home to a waiting Nick. I’m proud to say I turned 55 last week. Nick said with such a high number of spanks we could employ many implements, he did! The OUCH came first since it was our new toy. It truly lived up to its name! For those of us our here that truly love a good spanking, this was great. It has a nice lingering effect. I think my favorite way of using it would be hard and over clothes. I feel like I could take a lot that way. Nick isn’t too fond of spanking me with my pants still on. He says he likes a good view. Clothes came off pretty quickly Friday. I remember he also used the dogging bat, his belt, the firm leather paddle and also the damn cane. It was a lovely birthday spanking, followed by an even better loving. A perfect afternoon you might say!

I must endure two more days of ‘workshops’ and then I’m free until the New Year. Who knows maybe I’ll even find time to write. I’m sure I’ll be around before Christmas but I do wish everyone a Merry Christmas and if you don’t celebrate Christmas I still wish you joy and happiness as we finish out this year.


  1. PK, what a great post, happy that you had a wonderful birthday, see, my wishes do come true. LOL!
    Have a wonderful Christmas, Yule or Solstice.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. PK: A lovely birthday spanking followed by even better loving. Can life get much better than that. What a wonderful birthday and a wonderful gift he got you.

    And have a wonderful holiday season.


  3. PK: A lovely birthday spanking followed by even better loving. Can life get much better than that. What a wonderful birthday and a wonderful gift he got you.

    And have a wonderful holiday season.


  4. I am so glad your birthday was all you wanted it to be.

  5. Happy happy happy birthday - im glad you had such a wonderful day - and wow what a lovely present :) i like cane_iac too - great site :) got a cane and a paddle from there. Im after a leather strap next hehehehe.
    May you have many many many more plays with your new toy ;)
    love and hugs kiwi xxxx

  6. Oooh, pretty! Hmm...

  7. Thank you Paul, if I can just make it through tomorrow morning at the workshop, I'll be sending up Roman candles!

    I was a great gift and he used it beautifully! Definitely worth getting older.

    It really was a perfect birthday.

    It's a great place for toys and I think you'd really like the strap!

    Looks and feels great!

  8. What a wonderful birthday weekend you had. Love the look at the paddle. I want a holey paddle. I wonder if they do one in leather.


  9. Ronnie,
    You have to get this one - it is leather. It's like a soft wide belt! Very, very nice.

  10. so wonderful...glad you had a nice birthday!

  11. oh and congratulations on the weight loss