I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Monday, April 18, 2011

You won't believe this Saturday!

I had a Saturday unlike any I can remember. Everything seemed to click. Although the south saw some dangerous weather this weekend we only got some rain and wind – nice wind, not the dangerous kind. Friday night we slept with the window opened a little and the cool breeze made the temperature just right for wonderful snuggling weather, and we took full advantage.

Nick must have really enjoyed the night because he woke up early and more that eager to continue the snuggling in a more awake mode – part of which included me getting a good spanking before 7:00 AM on a Saturday! Little did I know that was only the beginning of an active day. Nick, who normally gets up long before 5:00, got on up then but I was content in bed for at least another hour or so. Finally I staggered to the kitchen sometime after 8:00 to be met by a husband with a gleam in his eye and a wooden spoon in his hand!

Bending me over the couch and quickly pulled down my sweats and panties. “Wait!” I protested “What’s wrong with leaving me with some protection this early in the day?”

“Views better this way.” He told me and I was quickly and thoroughly paddled for sleeping the day away. So that was the mood he was in!

During the morning Mollie came home to say hey before heading back to her house/dog sitting job. I got a tiny bit of house work done and my school work for the weekend. We needed a few things so I was getting ready for a grocery run.

I was changing clothes when Nick asked “What are you getting at the store?”

“Beats me.” I answered. “I haven’t gotten there yet.” You may be able to tell I’m not much of a list make. LOL, no one will ever mistake me for a domestic goddess!

“Well just let me remind you what should not be on your list. No chips, cookies, donuts and the like. Do you understand?”

Halfway through dressing was perhaps not the best time for this discussion. Since I was wearing only a tee shirt and panties he quickly pulled down the panties for another bottom warming – my third of the day!! Let’s just say he sent me to the store fully concentrating on my husband! Trust me, he never left my thoughts the whole time and I didn’t bring home any junk!

Okay well maybe I did get something I would regret purchasing. Honestly it was something Mollie had asked for and I told her we didn’t need one. But seeing it there, well … something just possessed me to buy it.

I know, I know - spankees can be dumb sometimes! We see something and we just can’t resist regardless of what we know is coming. Nick picked it up grinning when I got home. He looked at me questioningly and I told him that Mollie had asked for one. His only comment was let’s see if it works.

Owwwwww! The damn thing works! At least I got to keep my clothes on. I’m just afraid he’s going to try to match the color someday.

It was later in the evening when Nick got out of the shower that he took me back to the bedroom for what you might call the main event. He did warm me up a bit over my jeans but not for long. Soon he was asking me to undress completely. I did as he asked and then he very gallantly handed me something to put on – a blindfold – guess he didn’t want me to get cold!

The first thing he did was to shave me. I love this! I think the act itself is sensual and I like the way I feel shaved. This was something I had never thought of doing before I began blogging and heard of several couples that did this. It was a strange feeling for a woman my age but it was something that was like a wonderful little secret shared between the two of us.

Soon enough he started spanking – I really don’t know with what all but I know he used the leather paddle with the studs in it, the thin wooded paddle, the flogger, the thick leather paddle, the leather paddle with the one soft furry side, and the dogging bat.

He totally kept me guessing about what was coming. Sometimes they were light to medium strokes; others had me hanging on to keep from putting my hand back. I loved having the blindfold on. I really never knew what was coming. Nick took his time, there might be a series of hard swats followed by gentle rubbing or kissing, more swats, then I would hear him walking around the room seeming to wonder what he might use next. Sometimes he would stop and I would hear him take a sip of his wine as he contemplated. It was a wonderful time!

During this fantastic session he also brought out the vibrator (if you don’t have a Hitachi Magic Wand of your own run, don’t walk, to the computer or store and order one) and we played. Well play is one word for it. Tormented me would be closer to the truth. He would bring me closer and closer to the edge and then turn it off saying “I don’t think you’ve had quite enough spanking yet.” And then I was quickly back to having my tail warmed!

I’ll have to say it was a satisfying afternoon, I was satisfied several time to be honest. We don’t always have the time, energy and privacy for a day like that but that makes them all the more sweet when they do come along. I wish everyone of you as good a day as I had.


  1. PK, sounds wonderful, I'm envious of Nick and you.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. Good for Nick, a wonderful Saturday PK, thanks for sharing with us.


  3. Sounds like fun...

  4. ummmm ... yum! jealous :p

  5. Wow, I need some air after that post!

    But seriously, you did a little housework? HA!

    I love that you and I are so similar, I HATE lists and never use them and Bossman is always telling me I should have a list..LOL


  6. Paul,
    I loved every minute of it.

    Nick did do a great job.

    Sister it was fun.

    Thanks Heather.

    I knew the cleaning would shock you more than anything. We are more alike than ever. I hope you are as happy about that as I am.

  7. Anonymous10:29 PM

    What an awesome and fun weekend!! PK, your marriage has the perfect combination of love and playfulness. It's so great to read about a healthy DD relationship, one that doesn't center around strict control or abuse. Thanks so much for blogging!

  8. Anon,
    I really appreciate your comment. Every couple interested in dd at all will do it a different way. I feel our way is fairly peaceful and loving with enough excitement thrown in to keep me very happy! I hope you'll comment again.

  9. I am so happy for the two of you and the wonderful day you shared. I must confess, however, that I am feeling very envious at the moment. :-) Take care and hope you have many more days like that one, Terps

  10. PK: WOW and WOW and WOW again. What a day to remember.

    You must have been purring like a cat at the end of the day.

    Just think what is coming (cuming?) when you start enjoying the empty nest syndrome.


  11. Terps,
    It was great but we have a lot of privacy now that our kids are mostly grown. I hope you will eventually have time for this kind of play with each other.

    LOL! I was doing some purring alright. Big day! I've been wondering where you were. Good to hear from you.

  12. PK, What a nice weekend! I hope you have more of it in the near future