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Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Debts to pay - but no privacy

I want to thank everyone you commented on my last post. I feel like there were several new folks who came by that I am looking forward to getting to know better. We are all so different out here in some ways, but we come together as a wonderfully supportive community. Anyway I enjoyed visiting with all of you and if you would like please feel free to email. elisspeaks@yahoo.com

I’m still working; I did lose some last week. Not quite a pound but close. Nick has been great sending me my rules, guidelines, whatever you want to call it, for the week. He includes weight goals as well as things he wants to see me doing around the house. It’s the house hold things that are getting me in trouble. Mostly because they aren’t big things – they’re little things. Things I really don’t mind doing at all. But since they aren’t major they are really easy to forget!! Nick realizes that and even added in that last email that he knew that was the rule that would get my butt in trouble.

I don’t know if Nick got this from Abby’s blog or not but he has suddenly insisted on a mid-week weigh in. This hasn’t been a problem so far but this week I’ve really found myself wanting to snack more. I’m fighting it but… I guess we’ll see. Wednesday is when we usually do that, Mollie babysits on Wednesdays and if I’ve earned a spanking for anything or maybe a good girl for doing great we can take care of that as well as private time for anything else we want to do, but not today. One of the little ones Mollie watches has the flu, so no privacy for us. So I guess it’s adding up. He is still remembering that I got on the computer instead of cleaning last Friday and I did leave the laundry sitting around for a day or two (after he had done it) so I guess all that’s waiting until Mollie is away from the house. So I hope, I really hope, that the mid-week weigh in goes well otherwise… send pillows.


  1. PK, I've heard waiting is a pain, possibly worse that the real thing.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. I'm keeping every crossed for you. I know your mid-week weigh in will be fine.


  3. Good luck! Welcome to the 2 weigh ins a week club! I keep hoping to disbanc it, but so far no luck. lol

  4. Paul,
    Yep, waiting can be a real pain. I think I'm off the hook until my cold gets better.

    I didn't weigh today - my head feels like an extra 50 pounds anyway.

    This is one rule I wouldn't mind him forgetting.

  5. Oh, so you won't need the extra pillows? LOL.