I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Saturday, February 03, 2007

I love the weekends!

Nice, nice Friday night. We were both tired so even though Mollie was off skiing I wasn’t sure anything was going to happen. I had played on the computer for a while then a short nap. When I woke up Nick looked over at me and said “You know there is a wooded spoon in the kitchen with your name on it!”

Wonderful! Back to the bedroom, toy box out, spoon retrieved from the kitchen, I got a massage with the little standing Stanley, my legs, my back, my butt. So nice! It was a good spanking, he used the spoon, the leather paddle and then I was not able to keep everything straight! Bless his heart he does know what I like. He gave me the vibrator and then he used the plug which was just fantastic! Once I recovery my senses I was happy to turn the table on him and completely have my way with him! What fun, this included letting him have some first hand experience with the wooden spoon. He agreed that it was very stingy! Of course I barely used it! But then again I am the spanko in the family! I have to say the sex was just out of this world but there was another part of the evening that was just as good!!

We talked about toys! I had been teasing him about a Valentine’s Day presents. We went on line looking. Now Nick is not an internet shopper but at least now he knows what I have in mind. I am looking for something that will leave a lasting impression, something I can feel the next day. That’s very rare. But it sometimes happens with his belt so I kind of want to try something in the strap family.

I am also open for suggestions from any of you guys. What have you used that you felt most keenly the next day??

I know he still sometimes fights the “I don’t want to hurt you” thoughts. But I think he is coming to realize that I can take harder and longer than he used to believe and that I love it! As I told Carye in an email, I am pretty damn lucky to be 50 years old and the biggest complaint is that my husband doesn’t spank long enough or hard enough!! Not exactly an earth shattering problem!!


  1. Wow ... I'd have to say that the wood bath brush leaves definite feelings the next day. But also the belt! And the cane ... or the crop when used more like a cane. Mostly, I think it depends on how hard Dave spanks! Because I've had some of my tenderest day after's when he only spanked with his hand. And you are a lucky lady!

  2. Wow ... I'd have to say that the wood bath brush leaves definite feelings the next day. But also the belt! And the cane ... or the crop when used more like a cane. Mostly, I think it depends on how hard Dave spanks! Because I've had some of my tenderest day after's when he only spanked with his hand. And you are a lucky lady!

  3. Anonymous10:35 AM

    Wood. I always feel anything wooden the next day. Ouchie.

    Leather is fun but rarely leaves me feeling anything later. Maybe Adam just doesn't spank me hard enough though. Maybe I could get him to give me all he's got with the crop and see if I feel it later... I never do but I don't think he's using as much force as he could.


  4. I don't have a lot of experience with leather. Hey wait, I don't have a lot of experience period. But I too have felt the after effects the second day, just from a hand spanking!

    My idea of a perfect Valentines day is flowers, lingerie, toys, and dinner at home!

    Hope you have a good one!

  5. OK, here's a few that I think Nick could most definitely leave a lasting impression with:

    Viper Tongue - http://www.edenfantasys.com/VIPER-TONGUE/adult-toys-dvds-16768

    Naughty Ruler - http://www.edenfantasys.com/naughty-ruler/adult-toys-dvds-21446

    Kitty Crop (for a purring OR pissed pk) - http://www.edenfantasys.com/kitty-crop/adult-toys-dvds-21439

    Bamboo Cane (a serious toy) - http://www.edenfantasys.com/BAMBOO-CANE/adult-toys-dvds-16765

    OR, if you don't like any of these, I can recommend an excellent tawse... the best you will get for your money... email me!

    Hugs and love,

  6. Anonymous2:36 PM

    I'd have to say the wooden hairbrush left the biggest impression, but then Coach wasn't shy about using it on me, either. I love that warm glow from leather, but I agree with Eva that it doesn't last. Pick something fun!

    {{hugs}} SuZQ

  7. Anonymous4:00 PM

    Can see the sting in that spoon from here!  Suzy subscribes to another school of thought when given the chance to swing a new toy. More of a "batter up" approach, lol.

    As for a new toy, we'd suggest something with a couple of uses. We love our leather paddle... with the stingy leather side, and the softer cushioned side. Gives lots of spanking options, and it's not something you can find easily (like at your next trip to the store).

    ~Todd & Suzy

  8. PK, a firm spanking with the heavy three tailed tawse left Mel sitting sensitive for a couple of days.
    Mel loved leather, after a good tawsing my hand would keep Mel nicely on the boil for a couple of days.
    Her dream was to be spanked often enough to always feel it.
    You are getting there dear girl, and so it seems, is Nick.
    Warm hugs,

  9. Cindy,
    I am sure how hard he spanks has a lot to do with it. I have never been drawn to the cane, don't even want to try something that thin. The bath brush is a possibility!

    I have never heard either of us complaining that our husbands hit too hard! Maybe someday...

    Flowers are nice, but I don't long for them. Lingerie -- we really have enough stuff on the floor already. Toys and an evening alone would be prefect!!

    Thanks lots of good ideas! Nick and I will keep talking!

    I guess most of these things will still depend on how must gusto Nick is willing to put into it!

    Todd and Suzy,
    Suzy might just have the right idea. I will keep that in mind!

    You have to know we all just love Mel! She is so much a part of us and was such a wise woman. Her dream is the dream many of us have! She was so very lucky to have you!


  10. I'm enjoying all these answers. Future reference, ya know?

    Good luck PK!


  11. Anonymous11:38 PM

    I feel one of these for a couple days, at least. Also, the lovely new steel cane that Daddy got from Locked in Steel. That leaves fabulous bruises!

    Hello, by the way... I found you by a bit of blog hopping :)

  12. Non,
    Thanks for stopping by. I admit I have never been drawn to the idea of a cane, but the tawse ... wow! That is exactly what I am hoping for for Valentine's!!


  13. Anonymous3:11 AM

    as a spanked husband, i find the most effective method is being taken over her knees and spanked hard with her bathbrush. she starts out with light taps and increases the spanking gradually harder until i begin to tell ber her to stop. at this point i begin to cry and know never to repeat my misdoing.