I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Thursday, December 19, 2019

Can you answer THOSE question?

I’m sure some of you think blogging is dying. It’s not. True there are not as many of us as there once was, but I tend to feel that the best of the best remained. LOL! That may or may not be true, but the idea makes me feel better.

Blogging activity always slows down during the Holidays and then picks back up after everyone gets over their ultra-busy time and I’m hoping that true for this season too. Those that have read here for long know that I sometimes really get to thinking about the whole ‘spanking lifestyle’ and that’s been happening again. I have a few post planned that I hope to put up after Christmas – which for us will be January 5th  this year, when the boys come from the big city.

These posts will be based on questions that vanillas have about us. I always wanted to be interviewed and be given a serious venue where I could explain the spanking lifestyle – the different aspect of it, from true discipline to the fun and light hearted. 

I ask several friends who are NOT in the lifestyle but are fully aware of what I write to ask send me questions. Anything they wanted to know about why someone would want this. I’ve enjoyed reading these questions and I look forward to answering them. I’ve had the privilege of emailing and sometimes meeting hundreds and hundreds of spankos and my answers will be based on my feelings as well as many things I’ve learned from these fine people.

I realize that most spankos are still somewhat in the closet. I would be too if the desire to tell Cassie’s stories hadn’t been so strong. But if any of you have been asked questions by vanillas that know your secret that you’ve had a hard time answering I wish you’d share those questions with me along with your answer – answers that are much easier to come up with if you had several hours to think rather than being caught on the spot.

You can always leave a comment but you can also email me at elisspeaks@yahoo.com

Again I want to stress, if you feel hesitant to email and thereby share your email address with me, remember this – I’ve been here going on fourteen years. That wouldn’t be true if I wasn’t fiercely protective of the privacy of readers emailing me. 

Don’t forget to come by for the Fantast Friday story tomorrow – it’s one of my favorites and I think you’ll see why.


  1. Hi PK, I will be very interested to read your posts. I have never been asked about the lifestyle...cos noone in our vanilla world knows.


    1. It can lead to some interesting questions for sure.

  2. Hey PK,

    I can't wait! it will be great to read your posts!


    1. Feel free to send questions that you've feared some would ask if they did know.

  3. Sounds interesting. Look forward to your posts.


    1. I'm anxious to think it all out.

  4. I will look forward to reading your posts in the new year :-)

    1. Thanks Terps, I'm looking forward to writing them.