I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Thursday, March 26, 2015

Answers and one last question for you all.

There is still a name that blog and name that blogger contest going on. Go back here for all the details - you may want to read all the comments to get a better feel for this blogger.

Jay from, Relativity – Everything in life is relative, had some interesting questions on her blog and I thought I'd answer them here today.

1.What made you happy when you were younger?

I liked playing and being outside when I was little. We always ‘played pretend’, cowboys and Indians, cops and robbers, army, covered wagons, anything that came into our heads. And when I wasn’t with my friends I love to daydream and make up stories.

2.What makes you happy now?

I guess it seems silly, but the same things make me happy spending time with my friends either in real life or on line and when I can I like to daydream and make up stories – I’m very blessed that now I can actually publish my stories as books.

3.What do you think will make you happy in the future?

Watching my children handle adulthood. Seeing them succeed and hopefully give me grandchildren some day.  Being with Nick makes me happy too. And I have to stay with my other two answers too – retiring and writing full time will make me very happy. I guess I never got over the love of daydreaming.

4.Do any of these answers change if you get married? If you have children?


Of course I am married so it’s hard to imagine life any other way. I always knew I wanted to be married and have kids. So I guess I fulfilled my fantasies of youth and they did live up to my expectations.


I don't feel like I've participate in the March questions as much as I would have liked to. School seem to be all consuming suddenly - but I do have a questions for anyone willing to answer it - here or on your site. 

What makes you cry?

It can involve TTWD or just in your real life. But I'd like to know and I'll tell you what makes me cry soon.

26 comments:


  1. I'm a crier, so almost anything brings tears to my eyes.

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    1. I admire you, my shell's too hard for that.

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  2. These are great questions and I loved your answers PK.

    I'm a crier too so lots of things make me cry. Sappy movies and songs, frustration and harsh words.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. I understand all those reasons. Sappy stuff get me, but I don't let in much real stuff.

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  3. Hi Pk, I used to cry at anything. Now not so much for some reason. I have no idea why but I seem to be less emotional. I think I just get on with the crap now. The one thing that never failed to make me cry though was when I had cancer I would cry everytime at the thought that I wouldn't know my grandchildren! 12 years on and I have five months to go to meet the first one. I feel like I have been waiting for ever!! I hope you are having a better week
    love Jan,xx

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    1. I really understand this one. Even without the worry of a serious illness I'm already longing to see a grandchild. You are a very blessed woman!

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  4. Thank you for answering, PK! I wonder, would Nick be willing to answer the same questions?

    I've been crying a lot lately, but I'm not sure I'm ready to talk about why yet.

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    1. I'll ask Nick - but my guess would be no. When you're ready to talk we'll be here.

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  5. Hmmm... I cry at sappy commercials, movies, tv. I cry when my kids get awards or say something super sweat like in their prayers or in conversation. I cry when I get angry (which) I hate. I cry when I'm sick and I think too much about what I'm missing or the possibilities in the future.. But I have never been able to cry from a spanking and I wish I could get that release I hear so much about!

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    1. Strange isn't it? Some women cry the minute they know they are getting spanked. I've never cried at a spanking and I fear I never will.

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  6. Anonymous10:47 AM

    I seem to cry easier these days. I cry becasue of many things, not from a spanking, but from the emtion of it all. I cry when finishing a really good book or movie. I can cry in anger and happiness. When a soldier meets his family, I cry. So many things cause me to cry.
    Meredith

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    1. I'm similar, I cry over emotional things as long as they don't involve me directly.

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  7. I know us blokes are not supposed to to cry....but when I see or read about acts of great compassion I get all choked up for a few moments. Does this count?

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    1. It does for sure. As I said above I'm more likely to cry over things of that nature more than things that effect me directly.

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  8. I just saw your blog and I really like it. Amazing posts!

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  9. I'm not really a crier, though I can cry my eyes out over a film,

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. I'm not a big film crier, but lots of commercials really get to me.

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  10. Well, I am not a big crier....have yet to cry from a spanking...altho i have cried right after an intense orgasm. Holding each of my grands for the first time....at my mom and dad's funeral...occasionally at a sappy movie. I have often wished i were an 'easier' crier....feels so cleansing.
    hugs abby

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    1. I know if I get those grands someday that will bring tears for sure.

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  11. Anonymous8:24 PM

    Movies, stress, old memories. I am not good with change - inconvenient, really, considering change is the nature of life. My immediate reaction when someone yells at me is to cry. And, occasionally, I've been brought to tears by a spanking!

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    1. I can't remember the last time I was really yelled at - by anyone that mattered. I need to do my post on crying.

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  12. Love your answers PK. I'm a crier also...especially when it involves animals or children. I can also end up crying when I get super angry but I don't cry when I'm hurt...I curse. LOL

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat.

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  13. wonderful to read your answers.
    In answer to your question - I cry when my feelings are hurt...I cry when I am angry...I cry when I read a touch story or watch an emotional movie or commercial...I cry when I am sad...I cry sometimes if I am overwhelmingly happy...I have even cried during sex/foreplay before because of the release from the orgasm much to my embarrassment (not ever during a spanking though)...I cry sometimes just because - I guess you could say I am a tad sensitive... ;-)

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  14. I think the last time I cried was at the end of Cassie's Life when the Roberta Flack song was played. Oh, that was a killer.
    Rosie Dee

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