I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Monday, February 08, 2010

On our own

This was our kid free weekend. Mollie was house sitting and we were on our own. Not only that but it was a long weekend due to the snow. Mollie headed out about 3 Friday afternoon and shortly after I was invited back to the bedroom.

Now I do need to back up a bit. Friday morning is my weigh in day and we have made the very doable total of me losing half a pound a week. The official weigh in is every two weeks. This week I didn’t quite make it. I had crawled back into bed but Nick didn’t waste any time. He had decided, and told me by email, that not making goal was three with the cane (or the closest thing we have). Now when he told me that I was thinking – three? Just three? I don’t think that’s going to make much of an impression. I kept thinking that up until the first stroke – suddenly three seemed like waaaaaay more than necessary! I had three fine striped when I checked, now if that sting will just stay with me throughout the week.

But as we got ready to play on Friday afternoon I realized he had a little more to say about watching what I ate. The first thing he gave me was a blindfold. Sometimes he likes me to guess what he’s using. He began just a little with his hand then went to something I couldn’t quite identify. He was fussing a little about me not writing down what I’d been eating this week but that’s not fair – he told me to write down everything I ate at school. Well I was not at school all those days so I didn’t write anything down. But he was saying I wasn’t going by the spirit of the request. LOL! He is going to have to be more specific!

But I was having a hard time identifying what he was using. He was saying “Come on, come on’ you know what this is! Are you getting rusty?”

I said something to the effect of “Well duh!” (Cause I don’t get spanked anywhere near enough). Perhaps I picked the wrong time to put it that way! Suddenly he went to town – hard! I finally realized he was using the leather hand. Then he went through a variety of other toys. One hateful hard swat with the terrible tawse was pretty easy to identify and I had to ask if he had ever heard of a warm up?? His answer “I have and this is it!” I was warm alright!

We went through many, many toys and I was able to identify everything else. I love it when he would use the bath brush to scratch my back – got a real charge when he ran it over red rear! There sure is a difference between the wooden and the acrylic bath brush. Wood felt pretty good – the acrylic is evil and should be destroyed.

The afternoon went on to even better activities. It sure was nice to have the time and the privacy to play all we wanted. Mollie double crossed us by coming by for a little while on Saturday afternoon. That’s want we get for having a daughter that likes us and likes being home, LOL! At least we’ve trained her to always call before she comes, she may not know the complete reason but she’s always a good girl and gives us warning.

We got in a little more play time Sunday morning. We had gone out to eat with friends the night before and Nick thought a little warning about over eating might be in order before we headed to him mom’s for lunch. I tried to explain the real reason for my weight gain – it’s entirely my MIL fault. It has to be, I only weighed 100 pounds when I met her! Judging from the increase in the intensity of the spanking at that moment Nick didn’t agree. Ahhhh… well it was still a wonderful morning and a wonderful weekend!

Oh and FYI -

For lunch my MIL had meat loaf, fried chicken, mashed potatoes, green beans, corn, carrots, pintos, cooked apples, salad, corn bread, biscuits, yeast rolls, pineapple upside down cake and ice cream. All 18 of us ate our fill (only 3 of the family were missing today) and she sent home leftovers. I told you it’s all her fault!!


  1. PK, sounds like you had a great week end.
    Seems to me that Nick is getting into the swing of TTWD.
    Love and warm hugs,

  2. What a lovely weekend you had and I agree its definitely the fault of your MIL. I wouldn't be able to resist all that yummy food.


  3. What a wonderful weekend! And a great menu too. Yum! Yum!


  4. Paul,
    It was a great weekend I hope the swing continues!!

    It seems like I try to diet all week and then ruin all my work with one of her delicious meals.

    Her menus are always like that. See my problem??

  5. PK - You must be a very happy spanko these days. It sounds like he is really getting into it. Let us hope he keeps it up and that Mollie gives you more alone time. lOL. You must be purring like a cat.


  6. I am so glad you had a fun weekend. :-)