I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Monday, August 27, 2007

Erotic Personality Quiz

My Erotic Personality is The Escapist. Take the Erotic Personality Quiz on SageVivant.com and discover yours!I took Sage Vivant's Erotic Personality Quiz and discovered I'm an Escapist!

What is your Erotic Personality? Find out now.

Reality is The Escapist’s least favorite place. Sex in another era or galaxy with other people would be ideal for this erotic personality—or so they believe. They also like to revise their own history and think about how great a certain sexual encounter or partner would have been if only this or that had happened. An Escapist’s fantasy life is active and rich, but it is characterized by fantasies that they’ve nurtured and cultivated to perfection. This is the mother of all erotic types and almost everyone has a bit of The Escapist in them. What makes this type a person’s dominant erotic personality, however, is how necessary the fantasies are for erotic fulfillment.

I know this is all in fun but this really hit home to me. I remember being about 4 or 5 and wandering off into my mind in an early form of mind blogging. Now honest to goodness I had a great childhood, I wasn’t trying to escape anything. But I often just preferred the reality I made for myself. All this is well and good except that it is hard for reality to live up to the perfection I can create in my mind. It can be a form of a drug. There have been times in the past that I have had to struggle to stay ‘here’. It is much better now. I think blogging give me my ‘fix’ while you folks all help keep me in the here and now.


  1. I think you're right! Mine didn't really fit me I don't think. I was a watcher.....


  2. Anonymous11:04 PM

    PK - I definitely escaped into fantasy when I was a kid. I didn't have a good childhood, and the escapism was the only way to keep me half-way sane. The funny (or maybe sad) thing is that I fantasized about being normal and my expectations for happiness were always pretty low.

    Funny how much the things from childhood stick with us long into our adulthood.

    I'm glad you're addicted to us. We feel the same about you, ya know.


  3. PK, this quiz is female oriented.
    I certainly fantasised a lot as a child, as Suzy says under difficult circumstances it helps.
    I don't really remember much, I'd guess a lot to do with super heroes, Superman, Batman, and Captain Marvel appeared as fodder for my imagination when I was a child.
    I hope that Nick is bringing some of your fantasies to life for you. *G*
    Warm hugs,

  4. The first time I took the quiz, I was a bottom. This time I'm an escapist. If I take it again my results might be correct... I'm a female!

    Speaking of fantasies... I'm imagining Paul. in a Batman cape carrying a luscious damsel deep, deep into the Bat Cave. Yummers.

    ciao bella!

  5. Carye,
    Mine is really close!

    I am much happier to be addicted to all of you too!

    I guess many kids 'day dream' as children. I just never stopped! And CC has got me all hot and bothered thinking of what might be going on in the bat cave!

    Thank's for the thoughts C.C!

  6. Glad you did the quiz too. It was a neat one. :)
    padme amidala

  7. They are right I have a bit of this in me too. And I had two lives when I was younger too. The one I lived with my family, and the one I lived in my head!


  8. Hi PK
    I too was a dreamy child always off in my own little world so I understand the 'struggle to stay here' at times.

    My personality came out as bottom and since starting to blog my 'bottom' fantasies have become real with me fessing up to my hubby my spanking desires. Would have been interesting to take the same test a month ago, I'm sure it would have been different.

    It too took me 20 years to come 'out' to my husband, it's strange how some things can be so hard to discuss.

    All the best
    Dove :)

  9. Padme,
    I liked the quiz too. Sometimes these things really hit the mark.

    I knew from the time I met Danny and Mayye you would understand mind blogging!

    I do know about waiting to come out! And I also know just how wonderful it can be when you do!

    I hope you will come back often.