I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Sunday, February 24, 2013

I hope you'll read this

Long time readers don’t have to read today.  You all ready know all this, but we have new readers all the time, blogger, commenters, lurkers and so a few times a year I feel the urge to push my other blog. 

For those of you who do not know I also write a fiction blog – Cassie’s Space.  It is a source of pure joy for me.  If someone tells me that they like me, or think something I write is worth reading, it makes me happy.  But if someone tells me that they like Cassie, or when they leave a comment over at her site is like someone telling me that they think my kids or (future) grandkids are beautiful and special and I’m so happy I just want to hug the stuffin’ out of them.

 A brief introduction – Cassie and her beloved Tom have been married for over 40 years.  Yes they are senior citizens, but I don’t think anyone would call them old.  Theirs is a pure love story, but this Prince Charming doesn’t hesitate for a moment to turn his love over his knee and turn her lovely bottom scarlet should she put herself in danger or behave in a way unbecoming a lady.

Cassie is a lady – but her ability to enjoy herself has never diminished.  Cassie’s friend Sue is often at her side egging her on. Another old friend Annie, and Cassie’s soon to be daughter-in-law, Allie, try to keep Cassie and Sue out of trouble, but often is seems to be a lost cause.  You might like this story to get to know Cassie and her friends – it has several parts that I’ve linked.

I’ve posted Cassie’s story for over six years now.  I hope you’ll look back at a few stories or just jump into the one that going on currently.  But either way I hope you’ll come by.  If you're a blogger and you're willing to link her, I'd appreciate it. If you decide to leave a comment, Cassie will be the one answering it.  You see, although I know she’s fiction; I’ve never been able to convince her.

I came across this meme that Cassie did years ago and I thought I’d repost it here.  It gives you a feel for Cassie’s personality and if anyone else would like to do the meme yourself, please have at it.

1. Have you ever been searched by the cops?
That has happened a time or two – nothing to serious.

2. Do you close your eyes on roller coasters?
I am not a roller coaster fan. I will leave the riding to other.

3. When’s the last time you've been sledding?
I don’t really remember – it’s been a long time.

4. Would you rather sleep with someone else, or alone?
I hate sleeping alone. I want to sleep with Tom even when I’m mad at him. Alone is horrible!

5. Do you believe in ghosts?
I do.

6. Do you consider yourself creative?
Only when I am coming up with excuses for why Tom should not spank me.

7. Do you think O.J. killed his wife?
I believe that he did.

8. Jennifer Aniston or Angelina Jolie?
Yes? What about them?

9. Do you stay friends with your ex's?
My ex is dead. We would not be friends.

10. Do you know how to play poker?
Do I know how to play poker?? I was one of the best poker players you ever saw. However my gambling career was cut short…

11. Have you ever been awake for 48 hours straight?
Many, many times.

12. What's your favorite commercial?
I didn’t know I was supposed to be picking favorites.

13. What are you allergic to?

14. If you're driving in the middle of the night and no one is around do you run red lights?
Well… I suppose, I mean no! Never!

15. Do you have a secret that no one knows but you?
Of course I do! Doesn’t everyone?

16. Boston Red Sox or New York Yankees?
These are sports teams aren’t they?

17. Have you ever been Ice Skating?
I have and I am pretty good at it.

18. How often do you remember your dreams?
Pretty often, sometimes I get up during the night and write them down.

19. When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried?
I think that would have been when I played a small prank on Tom; actually it wasn’t only laughter that brought tears to my eyes!

20. Can you name 5 songs by The Beatles?
I Want to Hold Your Hand, Love me do, Yellow Submarine, Help, Imagine, Eleanor Rigby, I Saw Her Standing There… shall I go on?

21. What's the one thing on your mind now?
Is Tom going to come in and tell me to get off the computer before I get this finished?

22. Do you know who Ghetto-ass Barbie is?
I have not had the pleasure.

23. Do you always wear your seat belt?
If I were ever caught with out my seat belt I probably wouldn’t have a behind left to sit on!

24. What cell service do you use?

25. Do you like Sushi?
It’s not my favorite but I have it occasionally.

26. Have you ever narrowly avoided a fatal accident?
On more that one occasion, but not necessarily in a car.

27. What do you wear to bed?
It depends. Often I sleep in the nude but if I have gotten ready for bed early and have on my gown I will sometimes leave it on. Tom prefers me sleeping in nothing unless we are away from home.

28. Been caught stealing?
Caught? No.

29. What shoe size do you have?
Why would you want to know?

30. Do you truly hate anyone?
I don’t think so. That’s a strong word.

31. Classic Rock or Rap?
I try not to sound so old but I cannot listen to Rap. Put me down for Classic Rock.

32. If you could sleep with one famous person, who would it be?

33. Favorite Song?
Roberto Flack’s, First Time Ever I Saw Your Face. I think of Tom each  time I hear it, and it brings tears to my eyes every time.

34. Have you ever sung in front of the mirror?
I’m sure I have at one time or another.

35. What food do you find disgusting?
Snails – something about them just makes me uncomfortable.

36. Do you sing in the shower?
I’m not a singer but, again, I have.

37. Did you ever play, "I'll show you mine, if you show me yours"?
Not as a child.

38. Have you ever made fun of your friends behind their back?
No, I have many faults but that is not one of them.

39. Have you ever stood up for someone you hardly knew?
I have.

40. Have you ever been punched in the face?
Yes, several time, but all that is a distance memory.


  1. Anonymous1:06 AM

    I love what are you allergic to lololol

    1. I'd love it much more if I wasn't exposed to it so often!

  2. No. 37...as an adult....do tell. :D

    1. A lady never tell all her secrets.

  3. Love those evasive answers!

    1. Evasive? Well, I have had a bit of practice.

  4. I just want to say that I love to read your other blog. I know a few ladies that would be very much like Cassie. I haven't gone back over years to read, so I enjoyed your meme. God bless you and yours, Belle L.

    1. Belle,
      I sure do enjoy writing both of them and I'm glad you enjoy them. I hope everyone tries the meme.

  5. Anonymous1:48 AM

    I'm a huge Cassie fan. Love, love her and Tom, even if he's way too HOH-y for my taste. Though, then again, that Cassie is a spit-fire. ;)

    Elisa Xo

    1. Elisa,
      I love Tom as Cassie's husband - he would drive me nuts! LOL!

  6. Sometimes I wish I were a woman. Then I could grow up to be Cassie!
    No. 40 needs some addition as to how the other one's face looked.

    1. Bas,
      I'd love to grow up to be Cassie myself!

    2. Bas honey,
      I will tell you in 95% of my altercations the other guy (or gal) looked much worse when it was all over!

  7. Love the answers! 6 and 13 cracked me up Lol


    1. Roz,
      They are completely accurate!

  8. PK,
    as Cassie's brother I don't think anyone should question her that closely.
    Love and warm hugs,

    1. Paul,
      I think you are exactly right about that - she does have her secrets to keep.

  9. I have just read that story on Cassie's Space . I didn't know that it was you, I am enjoying the story very much, Love both your blogs:) I too am allergic to hairbrushes:( Fancy that. Love Janxxx

    1. Jan,
      I think many of us share some common allergies. I'm really glad you like her stories.

  10. Anonymous6:54 AM

    I love both of your blogs. I love the adventures of Cassie, Tom and the whole gang and have read it from the very beginning. Keep up the good work! Nk

    1. Nk,
      From the beginning? Bless your heart! I hope you'll come by both places and visit anytime.

  11. Hey Cassie...Great answers...especially 6 & 13. Could you expand on #6 and give us some creative ideas? ;)


    1. Cat,
      I've written about most of them - they are creative, however they rarely work.

  12. I think #37 says it all. Love it. Cassie and Tom are not senior citizens. If they were then I would have to be and I just consider us to have reached a certain level of maturity.

    1. Sunny,
      Cassie would certainly agree with you and would probably be all over me for saying such a thing.

  13. PK...you know I will always visit Cassie...I love reading Cassie and Tom stories...a love of the fairytale kind...with spanking :-) Besides, I have never been so adventurous in my own life so I have to live vicariously through someone - it might as well be Cassie who is so vibrant and full of fun! PS - may borrow the meme...not much to report here otherwise... Hugs, Terps

    1. Terps,
      I hope you do the meme. I see them as a fairytale too!

  14. Anonymous3:43 PM

    LOL, this was nice, I remembered what a feisty lady Cassie is - I'll have to go back and catch up with her shenanigans.

    1. Lillie,
      I hope you will go back and let her know what you think! She's been busy.

  15. I love Cassie and Tom too. My Colonel and Tom must have been clones. Cassie is a wonder, whenever I need a laugh, Cassie is no further away than my computer. Thank you.

    1. Patty,
      I think of you as one lucky lady - to have a real life love like that. Cassie does love to see you there.

  16. Neat meme! I might give this a try this week on my blog. :)

  17. Love Cassie. I glad that she is still around sharing her fun times with us

    1. Blondie,
      That makes me happy, I plan for her to be around for a long time.

  18. I do love Cassie, Tom and all her friends. Cassie was one of the earlier blogs I read.


    1. Ronnie,
      It's true, you are one of Cassie's oldest friend.

  19. Well this has made my day - I now know who I really am!!! Except I never run red lights (ours all have cameras on them in the UK), and I absolutely love snails in garlic butter! Cassie and I could be twins! Or maybe she's my alter ego!

    You keep writing - I'll keep reading!!!

    Many hugs,

    Ami (Cassie) Starsong

    1. LOL Ami - You must give starman a run for his money. I promise, if you read, I'll write.

  20. Of course I will link to Cassie. xo