I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Another New Beginning

I have good news and bad news, well not really bad but not wonderful, well it could be wonderful but I don’t know. Can you tell I’m not sure how I feel about this?

Nick got a job! He worked at one job for nearly 30 years before the place closed. Then he got another one in the same industry for about a year – and they shut down operations. That’s been just over 2 ½ years ago. He’s been looking ever since. This will be the same kind of job but in a different industry.

Although it was hard to adjust to him being out of work and living on just one salary, we got used to it. It seemed funny to have him around all the time at first but I came to love it. I am really going to miss him!

So it’s another new beginning for us and we will readjust. But I have to tell you that I am most grateful that this was the point in our marriage when he was out of work for an extended period. We have become closer than I ever dreamed possible and I am positive that job or no job we will not let that slip away.

Oh… what is the job? I’m not exactly sure. It has something to do with screwing… or making screws. You know maybe I need to get more clarification on that!


  1. That's great, PK. Congratulations Nick. It is another new beginning and adjustment in your lives. All for the better, I'm sure. :)

  2. PK, great news, I hope that you won't miss him too much.
    I refuse to comment on your last paragraph as I wish to remain friends with you. WEG
    Love and warm hugs,

  3. Yes more clarification is surely needed =-)

  4. PK, Great news, but sad, too. Change - it's always hard and always brings new opportunities, too. I hope this is a good change! Meow

  5. It is great news PK and Congratulations to Nick. I know you will have to makes changes and your'll miss him just make the most of the weekends :)

    Oh yes and more clarification please.


  6. PK, congrats to Nick on the new job. Now, as to what everyone is thinking and too polite to say... well, I've had a fever for three days and my brain filter is not working properly. It almost sounds like you're suggesting that Nick will either be working as a porn star or making toys for the ladies. ;)

    Now I'm not suggesting that is accurate, just that it might be time for another nap.

  7. ohhhhhhh Nick and PK.. congratulations to both of you... certainly in this time it must be wonderfull to find a new job... and yes, I would miss him to after more then 2 years so much time together...

    new exciting times for both of you...

    love, Lessa

  8. Debbie,
    I'm sure it's going to be fine once we get used to it.

    I know I'm going to miss him a lot. I don't think an of your teasing will hurt our friendship! LOL!

    I guess you're right - read on to the end of the comments.

    I am basically against ANY change! But I know it will out well.

    I hope Mollie plans to baby sit a lot on the weekends.

    I thought both your guesses were very interesting - but wrong, you can take that nap not. Okay for clarification. He will be working for a company that makes screws (just regular old metal screws). I'm just hoping that when he gets home from work and I ask for one he won't say 'No thanks I've had enough of that!'

    I like him being here when I get up and when I get home from work - that will be a major change but I know we will make plenty of time for each other.

  9. Congratulations to Nick! That is great...but I understand the difficulty with change. Certainly you may miss him...however, you will find even more special ways to connect all the times you are together. :-) Hugs, Terps