I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Monday, February 27, 2017

Last, but maybe not least

Most everyone has done this lovely meme by now and I've enjoy reading all the answers, here are mine.

Who's older?
Nick, by about five and a half years. He robbed the cradle.

Who was interested first?
We had both see one another a time or two, but we began talking at a friend’s birthday party. I think we both got interested that night. 

Same High School?
No, rival high schools.

More sensitive?
Me, I guess.

Worst temper?
Hard to say. When he’s really mad, he’ll lash out and sound very angry, but it’s over in a flash. I rarely show anger. I keep in inside and let it roll around as I quietly steam.

Then again...

More social?
Me I think, because is so very quiet and reserved. But lately I do all I can to avoid social settings.

Most stubborn?
I’m going to say neither of us. We’re both too laid back – “Whatever you want is fine.” Is our motto.

Wakes up first?
Nick always and forever. We’ve been married for almost thirty-four years and I’ve beaten him out of the bed maybe five times.

Bigger family?
Nick, there were five kids in his family, only two in mine. His great-grandfather had ninety-two grandchildren. We will not be trying to beat that record.

Not often – I don’t think either of us thinks about them.

Who cooks the most?
Nick. I don’t like cooking, I don’t like cleaning up after cooking – I’d rather snack and forget meals.

Cries more?
Me I guess, but I never let anyone see.

Said "I love you" first?
I guess I’m really getting old, I honestly don’t remember.

Better singer?
Couldn’t tell you. I’ve never heard Nick sing a note. Now when I’m alone in the car, I’m phenomenal!

Better driver?
I’m going to say me. I drove my parents around a lot as they got older and I’m very careful not to make sudden moves, breaking or turning. I don’t want to sling my passengers around.

Hogs the remote?
Neither, but I usually have it near me because I’m willing to adjust the volume during extremely loud scenes and commercials.

Better cook?
Although he does more, we’re about even. I can cook if I HAVE to.

Clothes and shoes hoarder?
Me I guess. He has some clothes from decades ago – but at least he can still wear them.


  1. Loved all your answers PK. We have so many things in common. Bear was a cradle snatcher also.
    Hope you are fully recovered now from your illness.

    Hugs Lindy xx

    1. Gotta love those older men.

  2. PK,
    I loved your answers to this meme. I like to learn about others and this is such a neat way to do it!

    1. Go for it. I love reading memes!

  3. I love these memes and so enjoyed reading your answers. Thanks.

    Ninety two grandchildren wow.


    1. I think he went though at least 2 wives.

  4. 92 grandchildren - wow, that's enough to populate some small towns. Bet he didn't remember all their names. lol

    1. I only had the two kids and couldn't always keep the kids straight!

  5. Well, we finally know that you are a good cook when the need arises. But we won't expect to see you on the Food Network. Besides I enjoy your writing too much to care if you even know where the kitchen is.

    I am working on this meme, too. It is a fun one.


    1. It was a fun one. Nope, chances are you'll never fine me in the kitchen.

  6. Thanks for sharing, PK...love learning more about everyone. Good gravy...92 grands! Not sure I could even keep their names straight! LOL Hope you're feeling better.

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

    1. Thanks Cat, I'm feeling just fine now.

  7. loved reading your answers. that is a lot of grandchildren to keep in touch with. I am hoping to answer this meme someday soon... :-) Hugs

  8. Loved reading your meme answers, PK! :) WHOA 92 grand children! Must have been something at those holiday gatherings! Wow!

    You cracked me up about singing in the car! I do that too. LOL! Glad that you are feeling well now. Many hugs,

    <3 Katie