I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Saturday, January 10, 2009

My Saturday

I have had a really nice weekend. Many of you know how it is – hit your mid 40’s early 50’s and the old libido is not always at your beck and call. Now mine hasn’t been gone but it has been sluggish as best. We got to have a little fun Wednesday – Mollie’s babysitting day and I got spanked some, for of all things – being selfish!! Can you believe it?

You see with Mollie being gone I was trying to get Libby-do to make an appearance so I was looking at some spanking videos. I stuck the ear phones in because it that’s what I always do. Later when we had headed back to the bedroom Nick was doing a bit of spanking for some late laundry (only a couple of hours late) when he said “and why were you being so selfish with the sound on the videos?” I told him I was embarrassed. Since I was laying there buck naked, having my butt spanked as a prelude to other intimate activities he seemed to think that was a little ironic but I bet some of you understand.

Lately spanking has not been really high on my list either – like the old libido I am not against spanking but the desire is hiding. And suddenly spankings HURT! Maybe it’s hormonal or something because I have had a terrible time with hot flashes lately too.

But Saturday we had the whole day to ourselves Mollie had spent the night with a friend and she was leaving for her babysitting job from there. She wouldn’t be home until 6! Around lunch we decided to watch a DVD I had ordered from Shadow Lane at CeeCi suggestion. I think it was “A Lover’s Discipline 2”. No award winning performances but definitely a fine way to spend an hour! And Libby-do was most definitely interested.

Part of the story had to do with the women masturbating and then man being insulted that she was playing with the vibrator instead of him. I have always worried that Nick would feel that way if I wanted to use a vibrator – that is during the old days of our marriage. Now he encourages it because he knows it can really get things going. I have had a vibrator that I really like but everyone out here kept pushing the Hitachi and so while on the LA trip I got one. We got it but I really hadn’t used it that much. We tried it Saturday. Later I was discussing it with Eva. Here is part of a conversation I had with my twin –

PK: Oh and I wanted to tell you. I haven't said much about the Hitachi because I wasn't that impressed. Now I'm impressed.

Eva: And why are you impressed? Did you figure out how to turn it on?

PK: No smart ass it figured out how to turn me on!

Eva: Well I could have told you how to use the damn thing if you'd asked......

You see how sweet my twin can be to me. But back to our afternoon, we finished the DVD and Nick blindfolded and cuffed me. Then he gave me a wonderful spanking. Now I am a big fan of spanking toys but Nick just used his hand and it was perfect. With my current low pain threshold it worked out great. Probably his hand and my butt reached their limit at about the same time.

Soon after the Hitachi came out and this time we figured out how to turn it on and how to work the damn thing! Ladies and gentlemen there were fireworks!!

And then there were more fire works! And when I recovered Nick was treated to extra fireworks himself. We may not be 20 anymore but it sure is nice to know we can ring the bell when we really try!


  1. PK, Sounds like you had a great Saturday. LOL, at yours and Eva's conversation


  2. Hey I got to have fun with Mthc as well.

    Big hugs,

  3. PK,

    That sounds like the most wonderful day. I did laundry, went to Lowe's and watched football. How freaking boring for me!!!!

    It is snowing (again) here today so shoveling is on tap. Doesn't that sound erotic? :)

    Have a spectacular Sunday.


    Debbie :)

  4. PK, don't kid yourselves< you and Nick are still young.
    So glad that you both had such a fabulous time, do it again as soon as possible.
    Love and warm hugs,

  5. Yeah! Good times were had by all!!!

    I am learning that NOT pressuring yourself about the libido or spanking desires works best for me, and by default, for Dante to.

    No pressure, no expectation, just a certainty that the desires will come back in time and the fantasies will be fulfilled (at least some of them). It's always nice to have some that will remain wonderful beyond reason inside my head!

    I'm truly happy for you and Nick, my bro and sis-in-law, too! As for you, Debbie, you never know what lurks around the next corner! *big grins and bounces*

    Love and hugs,

  6. Anonymous11:16 AM

    Hi PK:
    I am so glad you had a fun Wednesday & Saturday. I might have to get one of those DVDs. And that Hitachi looks serious. I got a different one from Adam & Eve I might have to do a toy review!
    You are so lucky to have a twin like Eva.
    Take care,
    Andrades Gir.

  7. Darn it, I just ordered toys yesterday and didn't even think of the hitachi. Ah well, there's always next time. Glad to hear you had such fun.

  8. I definitely relate to the embarrassment & the elusive libido! I'm glad yours reappeared though!

  9. Happy you both had a wonderful Saturday.
    Think mine must be ancient looking at the Hitachi, think I need a new one.

  10. Anonymous12:31 PM

    You know how a computer is essential to blogging? And a TV is essential to watching a good show? A washer is essentail to clean clothes? And a Keurig is essential to a good cup of coffee?

    It is beyond me to think that there are still folks who do not own a HMW or don't know how to use the one they have.

    So glad yours is up and running.

  11. Anonymous5:00 PM

    Hi PK:
    It's just me again. I've been thinking about your post all day today. First a quick question from Eva's comment, what is an HMW? (Hitachi Motor Works is all I could come up with).
    But on a more serious note, I truly do relate with the libido being sluggish. Cause as you know mine was gone for years. And as for the Hot Flashes, I've struggled with those too, so maybe that was part of my libido trouble? Who knows. I'm a bit older than you and my Hot Flashes are pretty much gone now, and my libido is in full gear for now. These female bodies are so complex. I guess I am just trying to enjoy the increase in libido while it's still hanging around!
    Take care,
    Andrades Girl

  12. Anonymous6:08 PM

    sounds like a wonderful time

  13. Hands down..the hitachi magic wand is the best..

  14. You mean the Hitachi has an on switch? lol... glad you had a fun Saturday.

    Todd & Suzy

  15. Jean,
    I laugh a lot at some of the conversations that Eva and I have!

    David my brother,
    You go for it, I'm proud of you!

    It sounds like we are going to have to come up with some way to make shoveling snow erotic. Because it sounds like that is what many of my Yankee buddies are going to be doing for a while.

    Thanks Paul,
    We plan to take your advice asap!

    You're right I thing the 'go with the flow' and enjoy it when it comes.

    I am most lucky to have my twin- even when she picks on me! I have to say that the movies were a kick. I would like to see more - not necessarily to own them but they were a hoot to watch. I do hope you enjoy your toy.

    Don't worry I think you will find it worth the extra postage.

    I think it ridicules to be embarrassed with someone I have been with for 27 years. But it still happens - I am glad I am not alone!! As for that elusive libido, do you think the hunt will be on and off forever?

    With electronic you have to go with the newest version!

    I may be slow but we are coming along. But now you almost have me wanting a Keurig! You have great influence over me!!

    HMW - Hitichi magic wand!! And it was yesterday!

    I think more women should complain to their doctors when the libido is missing. I mean men did and Viagra was developed.

    It was great!

    I am beginning to agree with you!

  16. Todd and Suzy,
    You guys are as bad as Eva!

  17. sounds quite satisfying! :-)

  18. Anonymous2:13 PM

    Handcuffs, blindfolds... That's my kind of fun! FunKayLynn

  19. The Hitachi is scary wicked! How could you not have been impressed? Sheesh, it's like an earthquake on a stick!