I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Tuesday, November 21, 2017

A question for Nick

Thank you, to everyone who came by and commented on LOL Day. It was a big day for me with the release of Cassie’s Life too. I’m proud to have participated in every LOL Day since it began twelve years ago.

Unfortunately, I was not feeling my best over the weekend and I’m not feeling much better now. The cold is lingering, at least the
cough is. And I just generally feel yucky. Isn’t this always the way – just as I’ve reached out to Nick again, I don’t feel like doing anything. I have been getting in the number of steps we agreed on. I’ve done okay at eating at least some healthy foods this past week. Usually I’m a “give me meat and starch and I’m a happy camper” type girl. But I’m trying, slowly, to add more fruits and veggies.

I did nothing that deserved a spanking and I didn’t get one. Strangely, I didn’t want one – I guess I really am sick. But I’m not going to let the momentum die. I’m sending Nick an email outlining how I did last week. He sent me two very motivating texts last week, which I truly enjoyed.

I’m also going to ask him a question – I don’t think he knows the answer, but I’m asking anyway. I’d like to know what, if anything, I do that really pisses him off. He’s already trying to help with the healthier lifestyle. And I know things like the laundry getting put away slowly bugs him, but I’m thinking of something else. Is there one thing he would truly like to spank the fire out of me for doing or not doing it. I don’t think he’ll be able to come up with anything, much less what I’m thinking.

The usual me

In stories and in real life women get spanked for lots of reasons – being disrespectful, their temper, their attitude, their language, trying to take control and many more. I don’t think that any of these are problems for us. But there is one thing I do that I hate and I wish I would stop. I don’t know if any of the rest of you do this or if your husbands would spank for it. Wait, I think Ella’s husband has spanked for it. But I’ll ask Nick and see if he knows, and after I give him his shot I’ll come back and tell you guys.


Please come by the Reading Room tomorrow for more questions and answers.

Friday, November 17, 2017

LOL Day and the release of Cassie's Life


Greetings! Normally I wouldn’t have put two such wonderful days together but that’s the way the stars have aligned. Love our Lurkers day and the release day for Cassie’s Life fell on the same day so this is a double celebration for me.




First to my silent readers – Thank you so much for coming by to read. You are truly welcomed whether you ever comment or not, but I would so love for you to come to the conversation. I’ve participated in every LOL Day since we began, twelve years now. I’m always proud to have new people stop by and say hello. I said this on our first or second LOL Day and it’s still true today:

One thing that kept me from commenting at first, was that I though all these people out here knew each other so well I didn’t want to intrude. They were all such good friends and I felt like an outsider. All I can say to that is - please come and play. We are all just a bunch of kids on a cyber playground and on this playground we really like newcomers! Here we can talk about our love for spanking, our desire for our guys to be dominant, to discuss the conflicting ideas and emotions that go with this particular desire. And swirling through all that we also discuss our kids, our jobs, laundry, the weather, our health, and the million of other things that friends talk about every day.

I would be honored to have any of you stick your toe in the water today and say hey!

And now another thing that makes me proud and happy is that Cassie’s Life is live on Amazon! This is the tenth in the Cassie Space series and I hope you all will read and if you do that you’ll get as much enjoyment from reading it as I got from writing it.





Cassie is such a dear friend of mine. I love being able to continue her story for you all.


I hope to hear from you all today!

Tuesday, November 14, 2017

A follow up to my whiny post...

Don't forget to come by the Reading Room Wednesday for some questions and answer for Cassie and Lily.

If you read my whiny post, you might want to read the follow up. First, before we talked we participated in a high stakes card game. For those of you who know how to play my strip card game let me say that in this two person game, I got 31 three times. Yes I won, and I got my reward.


Before discarding!

I had asked Nick to read my last post and he did, so he began the conversation. What is it about the spoken word that is so difficult for me? I can talk like crazy out here! Those who have met me in person will tell you I seem to have very little trouble talking with them, about anything. But talking with the man I love about spanking, discipline or anything of that nature makes we feel as if I have a large rock stuck in my throat.

But we did talk and we’ve got a challenge we going to work on at least through Christmas to see how it goes. Of course now I have a bad cold so I’m not feeling my best, but life doesn’t usually wait around for my best schedule. I’m in one of my low periods at the moment. Our talk helped I’m not complete out of the trough yet. Getting over the cold will help.




Two special events will happen here on the blogs later this week – LOL Day is coming and I always enjoy that AND Cassie’s Life will be available! Maybe my cold will be on the way out by then too.