And I am going to keep doing it! The reason for this is a combination of menopause and being a spanko. You see before I came out to Nick I always slept in a night gown. Usually not a very attractive one but they kept me warmed. We got a queen bed so that we could each have our own space and that was the way it was for 23 years.
But the one of the major changes I made when I came out was to lose the gown. I love sleeping in the nude! Nick and I have kidded that we could get rid of the queen bed and get a single one now. We snuggle when we sleep and don’t take up all that much space.
Now some of you may not have noticed this (Grace) but it’s been a little nippy lately. I still don’t want to wear a night gown and with a Nick and a blanket or two I don’t have to. The only time I roll away from Nick is when one of those nasty hot flashes hits. Then I flipping all the covers back!
So under the blankets with Nick curled at my back I woke up pretty comfortable this morning. Nick was rubbing my butt – one of my very favorite things in the world and then he cupped my breast, but I needed attention else where – no not there – my shoulders were cold! The rest of me was toasty but my neck and shoulders get cold!!
So I moved his hands up to my neck where his warm hands did a beautiful job warming that area nicely. Nick laughed at me and said he guessed he didn’t mind getting the cold shoulder as long as the warm butt came with it.
So my husband will continue to get the cold shoulder and the warm butt and anything he wants in between!