I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Saturday, January 17, 2009

I'm giving Nick the cold shoulder

And I am going to keep doing it! The reason for this is a combination of menopause and being a spanko. You see before I came out to Nick I always slept in a night gown. Usually not a very attractive one but they kept me warmed. We got a queen bed so that we could each have our own space and that was the way it was for 23 years.

But the one of the major changes I made when I came out was to lose the gown. I love sleeping in the nude! Nick and I have kidded that we could get rid of the queen bed and get a single one now. We snuggle when we sleep and don’t take up all that much space.

Now some of you may not have noticed this (Grace) but it’s been a little nippy lately. I still don’t want to wear a night gown and with a Nick and a blanket or two I don’t have to. The only time I roll away from Nick is when one of those nasty hot flashes hits. Then I flipping all the covers back!

So under the blankets with Nick curled at my back I woke up pretty comfortable this morning. Nick was rubbing my butt – one of my very favorite things in the world and then he cupped my breast, but I needed attention else where – no not there – my shoulders were cold! The rest of me was toasty but my neck and shoulders get cold!!

So I moved his hands up to my neck where his warm hands did a beautiful job warming that area nicely. Nick laughed at me and said he guessed he didn’t mind getting the cold shoulder as long as the warm butt came with it.

So my husband will continue to get the cold shoulder and the warm butt and anything he wants in between!


  1. Anonymous11:08 PM

    Hi PK:
    LOL...you had me worried there for a minute. Nothing like a little hot flash to give you a ltttle heat! It's so nice to wake up to a warm man snuggled beside you, and get a nice body rub too. You are one lucky lady. I've said it before and I'll say it again, Nick is a Gem!
    Take care,

  2. What a guy!/ yeah continue giving him hte cold shoulder/ lol I can thinkn of a way to keep warm, try contest on ToddnSuzy's

  3. Sorry Sis but I'm sure Nick Has a place on him that needs to be warm as well in all this cold hehehe

    Big hugs and love

  4. David spent the the day rubbing me in places too..and yes it's cold! I like sleeping in the nude as well..i guess sister's think a like!

  5. Anonymous9:39 AM

    LOL, whenever I come in to visit here I leave with a smile!!! Thanks, this is a post I can relate to right down to the cold shoulder!

  6. That's great, a nice bit of humor to warm the morning. :)

  7. That Nick sure does have a way with words, and a way with his hands, too, eh? You two make me grin from ear to ear, even when I'm feeling down myself, I can always guarantee that I'll be smiling when I leave your place!

    Glad you are finding ways to stay warm with this brutal cold snap... it isn't supposed to be legal for it to be 25 in FLORIDA!!!!

    Big hugs to both of you!

  8. so sweet...ahhhhh :-)
    We used to like sleeping in the nude and perhaps someday again...

  9. Mr. Smith recently commented that one of the things he loves about me is the fact that I like the house colder than he does. On several occasions he has asked me to turn up the heat. *g* Gotta love menopause!

    Is there anything yummier than placing ice cold body parts against a nice, hard, warm, man body?


  10. AG,
    It is a wonderful way to wake up!! I plan to do it often!

    I love their contest idea. But I do hate being spanked just on one side.

    He is welcomed to come in and get warm anytime!!

    We do think alike, sleeping in the nude it only one of the many ways!!

    I am so happy you come by! Please comment anytime. I love to visit.

    Thanks K.

    That does seem way too cold for florida.

    It is hard with little ones around. You time will come again!

    At least menopause can save us some money on the heating bills! And in answer to your question -

    Is there anything yummier than placing ice cold body parts against a nice, hard, warm, man body?

    I think I'll head to bed right now and see!!