I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Monday, May 07, 2007

Meme from Carye

Most of us know Carye from her comments and the wonderful interview over at Tiggr’s place. This is the meme going around and Carye’s answers…

Question number 1: What are three of the stupidest things you've done in your life.
1) Owned a cat or several cats (indoor) with a severe allergy to cats!
2) Did dueling tequila shots with a navy friend during college (he outweighed me by at least 100 lbs!)
3) Didn't exercise for a number of years in a row.

Question number 2: At the current moment, who has the most influence on your life?
first - kids & husband, second - mom, third -- some close friends!

Question number 3: If you were given a time machine that functioned, and you were allowed to only pick five people to dine with, who would you pick?
My Grandpa, My grandmother, Clyde my son, my dad, my mosses,lichens, and liverwarts instructor.

Question number 4: If you had three wishes that were not supernatural, what would they be?
(1) That my children will grow up happy, healthy, independent, strong, and live happily married to one person forever.
(2) That my husband could find a job he loved in an area he loved that would work well for the family and that we could afford.
(3) That we would have the money for me not to work, to own some land for my husband to "play" with, and enough to send 4 kids through as many years of college as they chose.

Question number 5: Someone is visiting your hometown/place where you live at the moment. Name two things you regret your city not having, and two things people should avoid.
I'm with Eva... what city? It is a small wonderful town. I wouldn't change a thing, and there isn't anything I'd ask them to avoid.
Question number 6: Name one event that has changed your life.
Having my first son be born with big problems, have a heart transplant at 4 weeks, and die at 12 weeks..

Question number 7: Is not a question. It's a command. Tag five other people.
I think all of them have already been tagged!



  1. OK I was a bit confused at first. I'm slow in the mornings.

    Loved you meme Carye. It is great to get to know you better. I'm so sorry for the loss of your son.


  2. PK, nice of you to post this, good to see you.
    Carya, thanks for sharing this, life's road is never smooth, but it's a good teacher.
    Warm hugs,

  3. PK, love your new template.
    Warm hugs,

  4. Great answers Carye, thanks for sharing this meme with us!
    And I also love your new template Elis, especially the implement at the top! ;-)

    Em x

  5. Carye,
    I have to say that I agree that doing shots with someone weighing 100 pounds more than you does qualify as stupid. I'm glad that that was back in you youthful college days!!LOL!


  6. PK thanks for posting this, I love learning more about Carye.

    Carye I would be glad to give you my wished if you could have a day with your son. You are so lucky to have your house full of children. But that would be a special wish!


  7. Wow thanks everyone for your kind comments!

    Theresa - Though I'd love to have my son with me now, I feel blessed that I had him the time I did. His short life taught me and many people what was important in life... something some people never are able to learn, let alone teach :-)

    Paul - How true how true! Life is full of lessons, sometimes hard, many times wonderful! The hard times make the wonderful all the more sweet!

    Emeraldeyes - Thanks! It was fun to do!

    PK - Yep.. his wife, my best friend passed out after about the third round! I made it to about round 8. I wished I hadn't for a couple of days afterwards! I must say he also wasn't happy for a few days though! Which made it more fun to tease him over the years!

    Cassie - You are so sweet! I will have time with him eventually. He is my angel baby and I enjoy him ever the same! I am very very blessed to have 4 very healthy, active and completely crazy little ones now! That keeps me on my toes and counting my blessings every single day! I just wish I could share them with you too!

  8. Carye~ Thank you so much for sharing your answers to this meme. I really enjoyed reading them and getting to know more about you. I was also saddened to read of the loss of your first son, how devastating that must have been.

    PK~ Thank you for hosting/posting Carye's responses, that was really sweet of you!

    ciao bella~

  9. Thanks to everyone who came by and Paul I am thrilled to see you!!! Please stay well!