Wednesday, May 08, 2013

It was 'my' weekend

Last weekend was my first ‘first weekend’.  I’ll have to say it was fun doing some planning in my head.  From what I’m getting from Nick he doesn’t mind whether I pamper him or ask for something for myself – he just wants me to initiate something.  I still put a little pressure on myself, in that I did worry about it more than I think Nick wanted me to, but I still enjoyed the thought process.

I stuck pretty close to what I know we both like (they'll be some more experimentation as time goes on)  I asked for a good spanking with the little leather paddle and the dogging bat and ending up with a few hard licks from the belt.  I emailed him in part with,

Now in my head this spanking is for 'just not being a good girl' overeating, bitching about school, plotting the demise of my boss, you know just general stuff. (You are welcomed to bring up anything you'd like to scold about, but you don't have to, I do a great lecture in my head)

Nick has never been much into scolding – and if he tried to be as harsh as I am in my head I probably wouldn’t really like it.  It works pretty well with him spanking and me mentally supplying the why.

After the spanking my plan was next to do whatever I could to get back into his ‘good graces’.  I tried hard, and wouldn’t you know it, before I was done I have to say Nick seemed as pleased as could be with my efforts. My further reward for pleasing my man, and myself, was to get to play with the vibrator as he held me, or ‘have a buzz’ and Nick calls it.  That was something else I never mentioned to Nick.  I never felt like he would ‘approve’ of me using a vibrator. He seems to think it’s just fine.  Amazing what you can find out about your husband if you actually ask.

We had a great weekend and there will be more to come.

Written by PK at 5:30 AM



At 1:15 AM, Blogger Roz said...

This is so great PK, you both got what you wanted. I'm so happy for you and glad you had a great weekend. Lecturing is something Rick is very good at ... not fun!

Have fun planning your next 'date' :)


At 4:58 AM, Blogger Paul said...

sounds like everybody was happy, way to go.
Love and warm hugs,

At 7:10 AM, Blogger bob said...


What great weekend you two had sounds like there should be more in the coming weeks.


At 8:14 AM, Blogger maryanne said...

ohhh i'im so happy for you, PK! congrats. it sounds like such a sweet and easy play time. i'm sure there will be many more...


At 8:33 AM, Blogger chickadee said...

Amazing what you can find out about your husband if you actually ask. Great advice! Perhaps someday I'll take it lol

At 8:38 AM, Blogger Mona Lisa said...

It sounds like a wonderful weekend. I'm happy for you, PK. It sounds like both of you two got what you were hoping for. Great!

At 9:08 AM, Blogger DelFonte said...

Sounds like a good time was had by all. Self-lecturing - that's something I do too.

At 9:59 AM, Blogger Sarah said...

What a great weekend. I bet you're already plotting your next weekend! Now that the first one is out of the way, they'll be easier. Excited for you!

At 11:35 AM, Blogger ronnie said...

Sounds perfect for you both. I must admit I love when P lectures me during a spanking:)


At 12:52 PM, Blogger an English Rose said...

Glad you got off to a good start with your weekends, I love good lecture;0
love Jan.

At 4:36 PM, Blogger Queenie said...

Happy to hear you enjoyed yourself Pk :) Hope there are many more great weekend adventures in your near future.

At 5:45 PM, Blogger Minelle Labraun said...

Really sounds wonderful!
I beat myself up a lot, not exactly a lecture. And my Scotsman's lectures are basically..."Right! Enough!" lol

At 8:06 PM, Blogger PK said...

Nick is a jewel, but he can't lecture. Maybe he thinks I'm too wonderful, LOL!

At 8:07 PM, Blogger PK said...

I think we are still growing more comfortable with each other - and that's the way it should be.

At 8:07 PM, Blogger PK said...

Planning on many more.

At 8:14 PM, Blogger PK said...

It was fun and relaxed and very happy.

At 8:31 PM, Blogger PK said...

I didn't really ask for so many years - wasting time.

At 8:36 PM, Blogger PK said...

Mona Lisa,
I'm just happy that I was able to give him what he wanted.

At 8:36 PM, Blogger PK said...

I've been doing that since I was a teenager. Not about real things, but always fantasy things.

At 8:40 PM, Blogger PK said...

Thanks Sarah,
I hope the next one will be easier. I actually do still wonder, it's not the easiest thing for me - but I can sure do it for him.

At 8:43 PM, Blogger PK said...

Nick wasn't even one to lecture / scold the kids. He will occasionally flare in anger, but honestly it only last a few seconds.

At 8:43 PM, Blogger PK said...

I hope a good weekend leads to a good month.

At 8:47 PM, Blogger PK said...

Now the question is will I share my deepest fantasies with him? I'm not sure.

At 8:48 PM, Blogger PK said...

I really don't know if I want Nick to lecture, I think I do pretty well myself.

At 6:45 AM, Blogger Katie said...

Sounds like you had a wonderful weekend PK! I'm really happy for you two! May you have many more too! :). Hugs!

<3 Katie

At 10:53 AM, Blogger Tiffany said...

Glad you had a wonderful time my friend.

At 10:23 PM, Blogger Terpsichore said...

Sounds like a wonderful week-end! :-) And many more awaiting you... Hugs


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