So many of us out here just don’t know how lucky we are. There are ups and downs in any TTWD relationship. But most of us have the option of talking with our guy and they have all been willing to try this lifestyle.
I recently received an email from a reader that pointed out what I know must be a problem for many blog readers. This reader asked what to do if one is a true spanko – one who has known about the need/desire for most of their life, yet there is no one in their life to spank them?
There are people not in any current relationship and there are people who have ask their significant other to spank, but their partner, for whatever reason, is just not going to do it. What can a person do if the desire is there, the longing for discipline and there is no one to fill it?
I’ve talked to people who just want to be spanked – often disciplined, but who aren’t looking for a love connection. A sort of business deal would suffice them at this time in their life, but again where do you look? I know some towns are going to have BDSM clubs, but really – do you just walk in off the street? Most all options I can think of are fraught with danger.
So on behalf of my readers who had the question – do any of you have any safe ideas of where someone not in a relationship could find someone to fulfil the need for spanking in their life?