I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Tuesday, March 12, 2013

More questions, more answers

Here are some more answer to some of the great questions you've asked.  It sure is helpful when people ask questions - sometimes it's just a little hard to come up with new post after all these years.

Ami Starsong
I sometimes feel that I would "like a little more". I'm not sure exactly what of. Perhaps a bit longer, a bit harder, a bit more variety. Have you ever felt like this? Starman still has this mental block about 'hurting his wife'. Do you have any advice to get over this block? 

Having said all this, we are in a happy state with spanking, but it is all getting a little 'predictable'. I should love to ask for a little more spontaneity or an unplanned spanking (difficult as it would be in our household). Any suggestions would be gratefully accepted PK.

Many hugs,


If Starman would be interested you might ask him to read this post.  In addition you might have a little gift for him – a nice wooden spoon or even a hairbrush and a sexy little card. I brat just a little at time. Nick was fussing the other day about me letting the gas get too low before filling up my car.  I just looked at him and said “Yeah, so what you gonna do about it?”  A lot of guys will respond better to some teasing like this.  A quick email saying “My butt’s cold” or something and maybe a more serious email letting him know that this still matters a lot to you and asking him to spank you sometime when you aren’t expecting it.  I get tired of people telling me to communicate, but it is the best advice, because often the guys really don’t understand unless we tell them.

Nothing to do with spanking.

If you could go back in time - what advice would you give yourself?

It really does have to do with spanking.  I would tell myself not to hide this thing that was such a big part of me from Nick.  It robbed us of closeness we could have had for much of our marriage.  I don’t have big regrets, because if I’d told him earlier we wouldn’t have had that burst of excitement we had a few years ago.  But I don’t recommend other wait so long.
Sara Peterson
As a teacher/mom....what is the funniest thing you have ever heard a child say?

I have heard lots of things, but I remember when Mollie was very little. We were teaching her ‘real’ name.  I’d ask her ‘what’s daddy’s name?’ she’d answer ‘Nick’ and for my name ‘PK’.  Then we ask her what Granddaddy’s name was, she answered ‘Granddaddy’.

I said, “No, what does Grandma call him?”

She thought for a moment then answered, “John, turn down that TV!

George K
 So here goes with my question. 

If Hollywood was making a movie about you, who would you want to play you? 

Thanks and have a blessed day.


I’d love for it to be Sally Fields.  She is a bit older than me and a lot more beautiful, but I think she would be my choice.

Questions...hmmm...as long as Mollie is the subject, how would you react if you found out Mollie was in a DD relationship?

I bet that’s a question every spanko mother asks herself.  And the answer would depend 100% on the man she’s with.  If he were a good man who love my girl completely and has her very best interest at heart and, of course if she were on board, I’d be fine.  If I thought for one second he was a bully or unfair, then she could kiss kids good-by because I’d rip his balls off!

Nice questions and nice answers. I have one that I’ve asked a few people, but I think it's a fun question, so here goes. What is the number one positive thing in your relationship, you think has come from ttwd?

Nick and I are sooo much closer than we used to be.  We were pleasant roommates we were not a ‘couple’.  I still pull away at times, but the improvement is amazing. 


  1. These are great questions and answers PK. I have one if that's okay. If you could do one thing about your relationship with Nick over again what would you do and why?

    1. TL,
      I would try to be more opened with him from the very beginning. I have never been betrayed by anyone - yet i have a terrible time truly letting people in.

  2. Great answers PK...absolutely love your answer re: Mollie and DD. ;)


    1. Cat,
      I'm a calm peaceful person, but don't mess with my children!

  3. PK,
    rip his balls off, scary, oh dear!
    Love and warm hugs,

    1. Paul,
      Yes if someone hurt my baby - yes!

  4. PK, Thanks for the answers. Although I don't know you, Sally Fields somehow seems to fit. I always did like her and she is one very talented actress. BTW, I have two daughters and I can totally relate to your answer re: Mollie and DD! Have a blessed day. George

    1. George,
      Yep if you have daughters, you do understand. Sally Fields is who I'd really like to look like.

  5. good questions and answers... :-) thinking of you, Terps

  6. If you guys were animals what would you be? Also are those animals your favorite animals?

  7. Thanks PK for your answers to my questions. I'll try a few of your suggestions and let you know how I get on.....



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