I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Tuesday, March 13, 2012

I finally told him what I bought

Sunday lived up to my hopes. Nick still had a cold so he stayed home while I went to church. I think he might have done a little back reading while I was gone. He must have been working on his timing too, because he wandered into the bedroom just as I was changing. I was wearing only a blouse and panties when he said, “I think that’s about right.”

He bent me over the bed and began with the strap, while discussing the fact that I hadn’t made my weight goal last week. He was doing a fine job. But Nick is never one to spank too long so when he paused, I assumed he was finished. It wasn’t enough, but I’m trying not to be greedy. I started to stand up only to have him put me back in position.

Hmmm… that was interesting, but I was game. That is until I heard his next question. “So you have any secrets you want to tell me?” Oh crap, he had read the post! I had finally decided he hadn’t and I could bring out my buy when, and if, I felt like it. But that had to be what he was asking about.

Stalling seemed like the best idea. “Secret? I don’t have any secrets.” I told him, and I didn’t. I just hadn’t told him about my purchase. But he continued to use the strap so I didn’t have much choice about telling him. “It’s a mat!” I blurted out. “I know it’s stupid but one of my friends wrote about it in a story and I couldn’t stop thinking about it.” (It was Cathy’s story)

“A mat?” I was embarrassed. I mean I know it’s just weird, but the idea of sitting on that rough mat intrigued me. Nick telling me to sit on the mat just seemed hot somehow, like being told to wear a plug or something. He asked me where it was and I told him. As he went to get it, he said, “don’t move.” I knew it would take him a minute to get it so I took a quick peek in the mirror. LOL, not quick enough! He was back in a flash as I tried to get back to where I’d been. “And why did you move?” he ask, going back to work with the strap. It was turning into a really great spanking. He was using two of my favorite the strap and the sword, trust me, that sword is great.

And then it was on to more sexy, hot stuff for before Nick said, “So you thing sitting on this would be interesting. Give it a try.” You know I tried it before, when I was alone, and told you it was ouchy. Well after a pretty hard spanking it is more like OUCHY! I did kinda like it. You know the biggest problem with spanking is that, as much as you sometimes want it to stop at the moment, the feeling of the spanking never last longs enough. Well let me tell you sitting on that rough mat – even for a short time, seemed to ‘set’ the feeling! I could feel the spanking for hours, not horrible or anything, but the sting lingered.

So there is my deep, dark, embarrassing twist to our kink. Nick didn’t seem too shocked, but I’m sure he doesn’t quite know how or when to use it. Me either really, but I have a few ideas I’ll share with him when he’s feeling better. Five to ten minutes would be a great max time; Nick said he thought maybe an hour! I think we’ll have to do some negotiating. I’ll let you know.


  1. That's very creative of you. I would never have thought of a mat. I have read posts about having to sit on one, and it seems to be an unpleasant extension of a spanking.

    I'm glad you finally let us in on your secret:)


  2. I never would have guessed a mat! glad you shared with us! Good for Nick too!

  3. PK, sitting on a doormat, might be interesting!
    That is definitely a product of your naughty side, love her imagination.
    Love and warm hugs,

  4. So now we now your little secret:) I'd never have guessed a mat. Rather you than me though. Being made to sit on a hard chair after a spanking is enough.


  5. A mat huh. Never would have guessed. Not sure I will ever get to try. After a spanking we are always dancing our dance. Might have to change our tactics.

  6. Points for originality :) I never would have guessed a mat.

  7. Thanks for sharing! I had been so curious as to what this mysterious purchase had been. I wouldn't have guessed a mat, very creative. I hope you enjoy! :)

  8. A Mat?! very creative and ouchy.
    Thank you for finally sharing i would never have guessed.
    One question though - he spanks you witha sword? Is that literrally a sword? I ask becuase my Sir often threatens to spank me with one of his....in fact he did do it playfully once and oh boy oh boy did it sting forever and a day!
    Love kiwi xxx

  9. Anonymous8:35 PM

    I think you're crazy.


  10. Hermione,
    I don't know if it will come out often, but I couldn't get it off my mind.

    Glad everyone doesn't think I'm too strange.

    You wouldn't believe some of the thoughts Badass has.

    A glowing bottom is the goal - whatever it takes.

    We're usually dancing ourselves. I don't know when or how this might come into play. Like I said, just an idea.

    Don't know where some of my ideas come from.

    Creative or crazy - time will tell.

    I'll post a picture of our 'sword' soon. It's a toy, made of hard foam/rubber like stuff. I really like it.

    LOL! I thought you might be by. I guess you're tell me I made a mistake.

  11. Scary thing but the mat sounds interesting. My spanking doesn't linger much at all even though the bruises do. I bruise way too easy always have. Does the mat really work. Maybe I could sit on the mat while he gets the toys ready for the rest of the dance. Lol

  12. What a weirdo....LOL....just joking!

    I've actually thought about a mat. Glad you tested it out for me! How about trying heating pad...I'm interested in how that would feel!


  13. PK: In my Lisa series, I had her sitting on a piece of sandpaper. The mat was a good idea. Very clever.


  14. Blondie,
    Your idea sounds pretty good. I like that it prolonged the feeling of the spanking. Very interesting indeed!

    I love you! Someone who understands! Now if we could just get the guys to understand. You give the heating pad a try and we’ll report to each other.

    LOL! I remember well. It might have helped inspired me.

  15. I told H about this and he got it. "To sit on after a spanking?!?!?" Yes. Sometimes I think he is the whiny girl. (Pardon the gross generalization.)

    Not so much that I want to try it or don't want to try it. We were just talking about why we would sometimes buy OURSELVES our own instruments of pain. And like you, I do too.