I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Tuesday, February 19, 2008

I love it when you...

Sometimes we are quick to complain (at least to each other) when our former vanilla husbands don’t do everything the way we have fantasized about all our lives. I want to take today to tell Nick some things he does that I love.



I love it when you –

touch my butt. Whether you are spanking as hard as you can or rubbing my behind when I press against you at night or that gentle pat or secret touch in public.





I love it when you –

you bring home toys. It can be a fine leather paddle you ordered, or a flyswatter or a 5 gallon paint stirrer, it wouldn’t matter. Any of these would affect me the way flowers, candy or ever jewels affect other women.




I love it when you –

talk to me about spanking and our blogging friends. You are the only one I can talk to face to face about TTWD and these friends we have made here. It makes me feel close to you – our sweet, private secret.




I love it when you –

take complete charge in the bedroom. Nothing makes me hotter than feeling I am yours and you will decide what you are going with me… to me… for me. I have loved everything we have tried and I look forward to trying more.

19 comments:

  1. Who turned up the heat? Turn it down please. It's way too warm in here. What a sweet post, twin. I like the part about toys doing for us what flowers etc do for other women. How very true!!

    Hugs~
    Eva

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  2. Beautiful post, PK! Your man's a lucky guy!

    Huggs,
    Reesa

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  3. Coincidently, I LOVE it when....

    You write posts just like this one!

    HUGS!
    grace

    (who is still your friend, even if you are still a pissed kitty!)

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  4. PK,

    I just sent this link to Randy with the subject, "What she said..." Thank you for saying it so well!

    Hugs,
    Bonnie

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  5. Wow...To quote Paris Hilton.."That's Hot" and btw i feel the same way!

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  6. Dear Mthc, If this is what you want this is what you shall recieve from me.

    Love,
    David

    Thank you Pk!

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  7. PK, I think that you got a rousing chorus of, " and so say all of us, for she's a jolly good spanko, and so say all of us". With apologies to whoever wrote the original lyrics.
    See even your evil twin loved it.
    BTW, Mel liked new toys, but she never turned down a nice new trinket. Smiles.
    Love and warm hugs,
    Paul.

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  8. Hi! That was so very sweet...I may have to encourage Jim to read it with a "ditto" from me...though I admit...I am a romantic at heart and would be happy to flowers too...do you think they make bouquets combining flowers and fun kitchen utensils and leather??? :-)

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  9. That was really nice, PK.

    Debbie :)

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  10. Beautiful!!!! I love this idea!

    Big hugs to you and Nick,
    Tiggs

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  11. I like all those things too!

    Huggs
    Theresa

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  12. I love this post. I did what Bonnie did. Joe read it and took note.

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  13. Beautiful PK. My feelings exactly. Something we should remember to tell our loves often!

    hugs!
    Carye

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  14. That was so nice! You have a way of articulating your feelings to your husband!

    -Jess

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  15. Twin,
    I hope he knows just what an inexpensive wooden spoon would get him.

    Reesa,
    Thank Reesa, but I am the lucky one.

    Thanks Grace,
    I am thinking kinder though about you now but I will feel better after you have a taste of the belt.

    That is a big compliment Bonnie, Thank-you!

    Glad you liked it Mthc, and David I am glad you were listening.

    Thanks Paul,
    And thank you for establishing once and for all which one is the evil twin!

    Terpsichore,
    " bouquets combining flowers and fun kitchen utensils and leather" now I could get into that!!

    Debbie, Tig, Theresa,
    Glad you liked it girls, it was Nick inspired.

    Lori,
    That is very flattering!

    Carye,
    I know you will tell PS as soon as he can stay home a while.

    Jess,
    I am not always too good face to face but I like writing him.

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  16. Lovely list. Really is a beautiful and upbeat post.

    :)
    Todd & Suzy

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  17. That is lovely PK, we do, too often, forget all those wonderful things our partners do. I would be lost without mine no matter what he does or does not do.

    Hugs
    Mina

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  18. maybe a bouquet of wood and leather isn't a bad idea. Thanks PK. We do have a road trip coming up, I will use that time to pick. Eva likes our road trips. two new states.

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  19. Todd and Suzy,
    I feel upbeat these days.

    Mina,
    Our men are everything to us and I love it that way.

    Adam,
    Always love hearing from you! I would love a bouquet like that too. I bet your road trip will be great!

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