I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Thursday, September 28, 2006

More reasons to exercise

Well maybe things weren’t as bad as I thought. I did make goal this week. I actually lost 2 ½ pounds. That a lot better than I was expecting. I tried my best to talk myself out of going to the gym this evening. After school I call a friend and we talked for a while, then my son called and we had a long conversation. I do miss that boy! By then it had started raining and I hadn’t even touched the computer since I got home. So I sat down to check out a few things. I decided I would skip the gym and break down and clean the kitchen. Nick got home about that time. Have I mentioned that he is the best husband in the world? He said that if I wanted to go on to the gym he would clean the kitchen. He also has supper ready when I got home.

Now let me tell you a bit about the gym. It really is a nice place for a little town like this. It has an indoor walking track on the second floor so that you can see who is walking from the floor below. This is where I see ‘Paul’ walking most days when I go. But the last two times I have gone someone else has caught my attention. Now I an being completely truthful when I say that I wouldn’t have another guy if you offered him to me on satin sheets wrapped in a blue ribbon, but that doesn’t mean I’m blind! I know this guy from real life and he always speaks. I have known him for years but since coming out to Nick I keep looking at other people and wonder all the time.

This guy has just got to be a spanker. If he isn’t it is truly such a waste. He just has that look and especially the tone of voice. I don’t even know if he and his SO are married or just living together. I wouldn’t spend time wondering about them except I do spend my time mind blogging while at the gym every time I look up I seem to spot him or he is stopping to talk. I find it very disconcerting! But the gym might be a good place to find topic for the blog. So when exercising becomes too boring, I’ll just look around!


  1. What great news! Since you lost weight, does that mean you can't get spanked? I can help with gym blogging. I have terrible fantasies about getting spanked at the gym. But that old fashioned Elaine Powers equipment made for better spanking positions!

    Keep up the good work!

  2. Good for you! Congratulations on the loss! They say it takes twice as long to get it off as it was to put in on. Don't know if that's the honest truth, but it sure FEELS that way! Exercising your mind is healthy, too. Makes for better conversation and fantasies. Keep me posted on your routine. So far, mine is doing well - not too many bad girl spankings and I have lost some weight. There ya are. D :}

  3. Great news Elis, I told you, you can do it. When I went to weight watchers a very long time ago, the slogan was " a second on the lips, a lifetime on the hips", not bad.*G*
    Now you will have think up another reason to be spanked, Maybe Nick will give you a GG for exceeding the target.
    Warm hugs,

  4. Theresa,
    It's true the gym is good for ideas!

    I sure hope it doesn't take that long- that would be 40 years!!!

    Thanks. Maybe we will be able to come up with something!

  5. Elis, sweetie,

    Good for you... GOOD FOR YOU!!!! Try to be patient and just relax... however you are doing it, if it works and you aren't making yourself ill, is doing it "right." Hey, I could stand to lose a bit... how about some sort of online challenge? More than the actual poundage, what worries me is my bad coke habit (no, not the illegal drug, the Coca-Cola Classic). Well, the generic version that tastes like s--t but still, I drink too much of the stuff... I'm sure I could find some way to offer additonal inspiration... as long as you keep telling us about your gym guy. Hmmm... what shall we call him? Master Nike? Master Fitness? Master Muscle... yeah, I like that one!!

    Big hugs... hope your teary mood is lifted completely today!

  6. Eye candy always makes the gym more interesting ! And 2 and a half pounds is AWESOME for one week !!! You go, girl !!!!

    Anne Elizabeth

  7. Anonymous12:37 AM

    2 ½ pounds... wow, that's great! Congrats! What a sweet thing Nick did for you. And, looking and wondering, yep! We blogged about just that thing this week. You do wonder!

    ~Todd & Suzy

  8. LOL - GymMaster!! FitSpanker! OMG, you certainly come up with some corkers, Elis! Congrats on the weight loss - as Paul said, "an ounce on the lips, is an inch on the hips" - *grins*