I’m on my own this weekend. Nick is off golfing until Sunday. I don’t know about anyone else but I like my alone time. I don’t want him gone long, but a weekend a few times a year suits me fine. Now my experience isn’t like Baker’s. You can read about that here. My weekend is one of glorious solitude. Going to bed when I like, getting up when I like, eating what I want when I want it. I get to write for as long as I like and when I’m tired of writing I have
the TV to myself … all do to the fact that my beloved kids live on their own and my sweet Nick loves golf.
I was in a very foul mood Wednesday. Nothing really wrong – just frustrated and not able to get anything done. I was better Thursday, but not in a great mood yet. When I got up I had an email from Nick saying we might need to have a session before he left, to help me keep on track with the weight thing and as a little stress relief. To be honest, I wasn’t really in the mood.
However, I don’t see saying no as an option. When Nick gave me my walking orders, I headed to the bedroom. He wanted everything off and me on the bed. In order to be accommodating I’d laid out an implement as he sometimes asks me to do. I put out one I got from a dear friend this summer. He decided to choose for himself.
He did not go easy! In fact he spanked pretty hard as he talked of the importance of continuing my regular gym visits. We have some big eating events coming up over the next month. His directive was for me to not gain during that time. And honestly that is more than reasonable if I make the slightest effort. He then pulled out some of our worst implements as a painful incentive/threat to ‘encourage’ me to make this goal.
I wasn't in the best mood when we began and I was almost surprised that my mood was greatly improved after the spanking. That doesn't always happen these days. I think the hard spanking helped. And I think it will stay in my mind.
I wasn't in the best mood when we began and I was almost surprised that my mood was greatly improved after the spanking. That doesn't always happen these days. I think the hard spanking helped. And I think it will stay in my mind.
If you need me, I’ll be at the gym.
PK,
ReplyDeleteSounds like the hard spanking worked! Glad you were in a better mood afterwards! Stress relief! Ahhh! Hope you have a beautiful solitary weekend! Hugs! Windy
It worked and I was surprised. Weekend's been nice so far.
DeleteHi PK, Hope you have a lovely peaceful weekend. and a nice spanking when he comes home
ReplyDeletelove Jan, xx
I'm pretty sure the weekend will be peaceful.
DeleteHi PK,
ReplyDeleteThat does sound like some reminder! Glad there is some spanky action happening at your place :)
Hope you have a wonderful, relaxing and enjoyable weekend and a lovely reunion when Nick returns.
Hugs
Roz
It was a reminder for sure. I don't need one of those everyday, but once in a while it can help.
DeleteHave a great quiet weekend, and a lovely spanky reunion!
ReplyDeleteThat sounds like a plan.
DeleteGood for Nick giving you a spanking to keep you on track while he was away.
ReplyDeleteSounds like your going to have a lovely weekend.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
I can tell he doesn't want me to mess up my progress so far.
DeletePK, I think the spankings we don’t want are often the ones we most need. Glad Nick is paying attention!
ReplyDeleteHave a good weekend.
Rosie xx
You may be right about the ones we don't want. Nick did a good job.
DeletePK,
ReplyDeleteThis post has me smiling. The gym and a spanking........ time alone for you which you crave! Sweet!
Meredith
It is nice once and a while. Hope Nick has fun too.
DeleteYay, Nick! ... happy to hear he's anticipating your needs and delivering the goods.
ReplyDeleteYes, I get it .... solitary days every once in awhile was something I used to look forward to. Now I find myself a bit lost when Frank isn't around.
Enjoy your time, PK ... perhaps Nick will have 'Honey I'm home' plans as well ... nj
I do appreciate his anticipating my needs, but that might be all I need for a while!
DeleteNick is definitely in the HOH mood lately. Please tell him to keep it up from Ella. I want my sweet friend healthy and happy.
ReplyDeleteClever little cheeseboard. Someone who loves you must have made it just for you.
Hugs From Ella
It would have been a good implement for him to use I thought!
DeleteI love YOUR choice! It's probably best that he picked a different one though. He did a great job, huh? I can't believe you posted this and replied so fast. Enjoy your weekend.
ReplyDeleteRosie Dee
I was just trying to be helpful by picking one out. I have plenty of time on the computer this weekend!
DeleteIt’s nice to read about the action in your house these days, good for you and Nick!
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your time, it’s a treat to have the house to yourself for a little while, don’t forget to heed that warning!
I'm trying to remember. It was good of him to give such a good reminder.
DeleteAh...he didn't want to use the little cheese board??? :-) I am glad your man gave you want you needed, even if perhaps it wasn't what you thought you wanted at the time. Enjoy your weekend to yourself. I just had a whole week to myself - for the first time - as my hubby and kids were away. I had a lovely time on my own and was happy to see them return - the best of both worlds. :-) Hugs
ReplyDeleteA week might be nice - but it might be too long for me. I remember when Mollie used to go to camping. It was harder to be away from the kids than Nick, because I at least knew that Nick could take care of himself.
Deleteevery once and a while I got that butterfly feeling in my stomach - just missing the kids. I knew my son and hubby were together and they would look out for each other and hubby texted me a couple of times just to let me know they were okay, but my daughter was away for the first time with no contact and that was hard. Still I managed to keep busy - teaching every morning and relaxing in the afternoons. And had big hugs for everyone when they returned.
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