I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Wednesday, March 23, 2016

What do we really want?

I guess different women want different things from their husband. Some want diamonds and jewels, some want candy or flowers. We know what we all want – but there are so many times that’s just not possible. I keep trying to convince Nick that it’s the connection I want more than anything. And for me the little things count enormously.



I love it when he takes my hand in public. I love it when a vanilla friend makes a comment that a spanko could take the wrong way and he’ll grin at me. I love it when we walk through stores and he points out possible pervertibles – even better if he buys one of them.

I love all those words and phrases that Ella’s pointed out lately, although they are not Nick’s strong suit. But I guess my favorite things is a quick text when I’m not expecting one. Something simple is just fine – “Are you behaving?” or “You know what happens to naughty wives.” I think it’s just the fact that he stopped during his day and thought of me. Like many things he’ll think of it for a time and then it fades away for a while.

But it must have come to his mind the other day and right around three o’clock we had the following exchange by email:

Nick: Is a ‘good girl’ able to follow instructions without complaining.”

PK: I’m sure they are. Do you know any?

Nick:  Remains to be determined.

And we had such a fun time when I got home. He wanted to sit and talk a while – but he wanted me without clothes. I think this is a fantasy for men to have their wives sitting in the living room nude. Company coming to the door is such a rarity it didn’t worry me any. So I complied and we talked a while – there was some spanking fun and even some sweet loving right there in the living room! Ahhh… the joys of an empty nest.

Afterwards we got dressed, just like respectable people and maybe five minutes later there was a knock on the door. It was the man who took some trees down for us coming by for payment. Had he been a minute or two earlier and he would have definitely gotten more than he bargained for.

I don’t need diamonds or jewels, and I sure don’t need any candy. But a little text, a little attention, now that’s what I want.

28 comments:

  1. Awww...what a sweet post, PK. I love reading about the day to day moments. Thank you for sharing. Oh and if that guy had shown up a bit earlier...just don't answer the door. ;)

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. We were so crazy the door was opened - only the storm door was closed and of course it's glass. It looks straight down our hall so we couldn't even have run!

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  2. Very sweet post PK. Love those moments that catch you by surprise. Haha would have love to see the look on the guys face if he heard anything. Hope you and Nick have many moments like that whilst you're on holidays.
    Hugs Lindy

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    1. Wouldn't that have been something. We see him sometimes too, we're not family but Nick's brother and SIL are raising their grandson, this guy is the other grandfather.

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  3. Aw, this is a very nice post PK, glad you had agood little interlude
    love Jan,xx

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    1. It was a lot of fun.

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  4. This is really sweet. I think we want the same things. :-) Hugs. Glad you had a moment to yourselves to enjoy each other. Hugs

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    1. Well we sure miss out kids - but things like this can sure be fun.

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  5. Lovely post, I always feel super submissive when my Sir desires me to be naked in the house

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    1. It doesn't happen too often here, but it's nice to know my husband still wants to see me that way.

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  6. A nice read to start my day...it is the little things that seen to touch our hearts the most...
    hugs abby

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    1. True the little things mean so much.

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  7. Well, PK, color me green with envy. What a lovely day for you. Couldn't happen to a nicer spanko, I say!
    I do love suggestive emails at work. Makes me smile and look forward to 5:00 pm.

    Fondly,
    Ella

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    1. We do text some but I'm always terrified I'll send something to the wrong person! But its still fun!

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  8. Made me happy reading your post PK. Glad you two had a little time to have fun and enjoy each other.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Doesn't happen like this often - but it was fun.

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  9. PK,
    Those are the very moments that make my day. Jack and I hold hands all the time.
    Meredith

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    1. Nick tends to walk faster than I do when we go out. When he does stop and hold my hand, I love it.

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  10. I love those suggestive texts too. Little things mean a lot.
    Glad you had fun.
    Rosie xx

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    1. It takes such little effort, and makes the other feel so good.

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  11. So happy for you! Right now, this would be my dream!

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. Maybe when you get the time to catch your breath.

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  12. Sweet, lovely interlude! I think it's the small things as well. A look, brushing of fingers, holding hands or a hand gently guiding you somewhere!
    I always feel self conscious when completely naked.....I love what you shared!

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    1. All those things you said are so special. I guess is don't mind being naked with Nick. I don't look like I want to, but he still makes me feel beautiful.

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  13. I LOVED reading about this, PK!!! :) What an excellent inside adventure you had! It is so very special when the ones that love us do something to show that they have been thinking about us. The littlest thing can be the most meaningful soemtimes. Especially if it is in a way that pings the spanko side of us.

    Loved reading this! I'm truly happy for you! Rob has never had me walk about outside our bedroom without clothing. Well... we don't really have an empty nest just yet so... Cracked me up that the one time that you are having this kind of fun, the doorbell rings! Oops! LOVED this! Happy Easter to you and Nick too! Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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  14. PK, I am behind on my blog reading but wanted to let you know that I, too, cherish those little things like a text. They bring a smile to my face and joy to my heart.

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