Here are a few more question I got from Maggie Jordan. I really enjoyed answering these. If there are any more questions, especially from those who are fairly new, I’d sure love to hear from you.
Hi PK! I just started reading your blog a short while ago so I do have some questions that many people probably know the answers to.
How did you start doing TTWD - was it your request?
I’ve know I was a spanko since I was three or four. I instinctively knew it should be a deep dark secret so I told no one, not even my husband. But finally, after a brief, scary (but thankfully short-lived) medical problem I decided I wasn’t going to waste anymore time. Twenty-three years into our marriage I told Nick about my desires. He was stunned to say the least, but he jumped right in and our sex life and our closeness grew quickly. He was always in it for fun or sex, but he’s never grasped the concept of a real DD relationship. I wish he had, but I’m satisfied with what we have.
Did you start writing before or after TTWD began?
It depends on what you mean by writing. Cassie came to me when I was about eleven and began telling me her stories (she was grown then). I used them as day dream fodder for the next thirty-eight years. I was forty-nine when I actually typed up and posted my first Cassie story.
First I found and began devouring blogs, the we had began playing with TTWD and a few months later I was blogging away and writing stories.
What do you miss the most now that your children are a little older?
I really thought a lot about this question. I don’t think I’d want to go back to them being little again. But there are some wonderful memories. I remember when they would nurse and suddenly they would stop and smile at me. Talk about melting my heart!
But I guess the best thing about when they were little was that for a short time I was their whole world. They would see me and just light up and run into my arms – there was no problem I couldn’t solve with a good hug. I do miss that.