I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Sunday, January 12, 2014

I know, I know - Be careful what you...

This is it. The time has come. My safety net is leaving. My suggestion in my last email about getting to bed earlier was well received. He then added keeping up with my exercise time in comparison to my computer game time and I reluctantly agreed. But I asked if we could wait until Mollie headed back to school before implementing it. She and I stay up late and talk and visit and I didn’t want to miss that. Nick, sweetie that he is, understood and said that was fine.

Of course I thought that was for everything. But the other night he sent this,

I'm assuming you have your game/exercise chart up and running.

I answered,

I thought we were waiting on all that.

He didn’t answer. Then Friday morning’s weigh in – well, lets just say it was pretty.

I emailed him: I really, really didn't want to write down my weight this morning. I really wanted to fudge. But I didn't. I think it's time we throw Mollie out of the house. Yeah, it may not be all her fault, but her being here doesn't help any.

I was trying to point out that it was completely her fault – I mean bringing groceries in my house and having three meals a day and cooking so well and all, of course it’s her fault.

This was Nick’s answer:

Probably a good idea, besides she doesn't want to hear what's about to happen.


Hmmm… I guess I’ll be back.




25 comments:

  1. Oh My PK ... things are changing! :) Good luck!

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Roz,
      I hope, I hope.

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  2. Things are definitely changing in your household!
    Hugs DF

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    1. DF,
      I just hope it really happens.

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  3. PK,
    look on the positive side, at least it saves on the central heating. LOL!
    Love and warm hugs,
    Paul.

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    1. PK,
      That would be a bonus.

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  4. Nick is determined....Hurrah for him...and as for you.....well....better you than me...altho i have reached the top of my 'wriggle' room in my weighing in.....and exercising has been non existent for so long, i just can't get back to it. hugs abby

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    1. Abby,
      I just can't seem to make myself exercise - I wonder if Nick can.

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  5. Good for Nick and ultimately good for you.

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  6. Interesting time. Things are changing.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. I hope so, time will tell.

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  7. Hi PK, oops a daisy, those wishes.....
    love Jan.xx

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    1. Jan,
      We can't stop wishing. We'll see.

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  8. We want to hear about what is going to happen. Sounds like he is serious. Good for him.

    Fasten your seat belt, it may be quite a ride.

    FD

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    1. Sounds like, keep your fingers crossed. How was your visit?

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  9. Be careful with what you wish for.

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  10. So, a new era dawns. Be very careful what you wish for. But in all honesty, you have dreamed about this for so long. I think it is soooo romantic!

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. It is… if he'll just follow through.

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  11. part of me wants to say uh-oh...the other part is just so happy for the both of you :-) Hugs

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    1. All I'm saying is cross your fingers.

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  12. Oh man I understand it all. Trepidation....that and excitement. I bet that is what you feel.

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    1. Could be, I don't really know what I'm feeling.

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  13. Loveit pk, its so great he is stepping up like this

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