I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
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Tuesday, January 28, 2014

About Blondie’s Paddle

I’ve gone by Blondie Place and looked at the paddles many time. Just as the cane is traditional in England, the wooden paddle it traditional in the south. My parents didn’t have one – they rarely spanked, and only with their hand when it was necessary. But the baby sitter had one, never saw her use it, but every one of us knew it was on top of the refrigerator. And, of course, every teacher had one. They were use frequently, but never on me. I was a good girl. Paddles were one of the things I fantasied about and this particular one at Blondie’s always caught my attention.



And then I won one! Yeah me! It arrived the other day and it was just as pretty as I thought it would be. So smooth, nice dark stain, great size, I just looked at it a while before I showed it to Nick. He too admire it and thought we didn’t have a lot of time I got a few swats with it and it left me smiling.

The next time he had it in his hand was when I hadn’t recorded my weight. The paddle was used for much longer, but still over the jeans and I have to tell you that was some sting. I could feel it for a while afterwards, and I like that.

Then came Sunday – there were several things Nick wanted to address, one that seemed to be particularly on his mind was that I either blogged or emailed him that there hadn’t been any spanking is several weeks. When he was quite definite that it had only been two weeks – not ‘several’.  Well, yes and no… but he was holding Blondie’s paddle so I thought it was in my best interest to agree. Now we’re down to the bare.

Now to describe the paddle on the bare - #!@*$#!@@%#!, if you’ll pardon my French. Yep, it packs a wallop for sure. It’s a dilemma, I want spankings to last longer, but it HURTS! And this paddle…

After giving it much thought I know exactly where the paddle would best fit into our lives. I think we should frame it in a beautiful glass showcase. Truly it’s a work of art and its beauty needs to be displayed. Nick, however, disagrees and says it’s just fine the way it is. We’ll have more discussion with it about it in the future. But I’m still very happy I won it. Everyone needs to have one in their toy box (or framed).

30 comments:

  1. Hi PK, oh bless you. It is beautiful and I too like the idea but omg I hate that wooden paddle of ours. It really hurts like nothing else. I agree framing is the best thing for it. The thing is would you have it on display for all to see??
    love Jan.xx

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    1. Jan I think it could hang on the wall of the bedroom without attracting too much attention. Might keep me in like just looking at it.

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  2. PK,

    It looks lovely. Glad you have it and not me:)

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Ronnie,
      How anyone could take a cane and not a paddle is beyond me.

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  3. It is a problem...love to have the after effects last....hate what it takes to get there. It does look beautiful....but Master has more than enough wooden toys.
    hugs abby

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    1. Amen sister! Wish you could sometimes get the second without the first.

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  4. I'm running for the hills! You are all SO MUCH BRAVER than me!

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. Ami,
      Sometimes people are brave only because they have no choice.

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  5. PK,
    lovely paddle, but an English senior girls cane gets the message across much better. LOL!
    Love and warm hugs,
    Paul.

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    1. Oh, Paul, so would a baseball bat and a bull whip - but I don't want them either!

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  6. PK I absolutely hear you on this! I love the paddle I won from Blondie as well. But I only want it used in certain ways! Your French captures the moment on the bare perfectly. I think over panties and jeans is the way to go! (Maybe a folded towel too!)

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    1. Minelle,
      Over jeans for sure!

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  7. It's wood dear, I expect that it provided quite a sting. We don't have one in our arsenal and I think I'll keep it that way. Made a mistake with the lexan, won't do that again.

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    1. Lexan is one mistake I haven't made, thank goodness. So you have no wood in your arsenal? I feel that this over site should be corrected.

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  8. I am laughing, not only at your post but at the comments. I think that I need to send some paddles out to more people so that they too can "love" the feel or appreciate the beauty. I think that there is a special paddle being made for Sunny Girl right now.
    Thank you for your post. I am so glad that you won the contest too. The new blog hop is coming soon and we will be donating a red hot paddle like the one you received.
    Thanks again.

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    1. Blondie,
      I'm not saying I would want only wood, but truly every spanko should have a good wooden paddle in the toy chest, and this is a good one to have.

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  9. Ohh it scares me. The only wooden paddly thing we have is a hairbrush and I avoid that if at all possible.
    Thank goodness I'm safe from Blondies paddles over this side of the pond.

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    1. Janey,
      Just wondering, do you avoid it by hiding it or by behaving?LOL!

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  10. LOL PK...For spankings...wood is no good, leather is better and feathers are best!

    Ty make beautiful paddes and I agree...the best place for such a work of art is framed (behind glass) and hung on the wall.

    Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Cat,
      I guess I'll take a middle road and take leather most of the time. But I really like the paddle, framed or unframed.

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  11. I have to say this post made me smile. :-)

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    1. Terps,
      Get one and see if you're still smiling while he's using it.

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  12. I've checked out Blondie's store, but I don't have the nerve yet.

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    1. Leah,
      Get one! You may want to hide it until you get up your nerve, but you should have it around.

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  13. Yes, I have a matching red one and I totally concur with your experience. Love it!

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    1. I don't want a red one - he might think about matching the color.

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  14. LoL PK, yep, totally agree. It is a beautiful work of art and therefore belongs in a frame! :)

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Wouldn't that be perfect!

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  15. Before I came here in blog land, I knew only one way to use such a fine paddle to: to servere cheese and fruit, like a desert tray.
    I've never even heard of the use paddle to something else.

    You are right Pk, this is a very fine piece of art. To be shown to anyone who can just see it. With cheese and fruit as I said, or other snacks. It is the only area that this nice paddle will be used here in Viking country.
    How did the idea to use the paddle for spanking came up at all? Does anyone know?
    As I wrote earlier, we do not learn this in our history books .. lol ..

    Hugs,
    Mona Lisa

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    1. Sorry your history course is lacking, LOL! I suppose it came from taking kids to the 'wood shed' when they misbehaved. Wood, boards… what ever, it was used mostly one my parents generation. And they grew up to be the greatest generation ever!

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