I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Sunday, August 06, 2006


CeeCi and Grace have tagged me so...here it goes.

Once you have been tagged, you have to write a post with 8 facts/things/habits about yourself and say who tagged you. In the end, you will need to choose the 6 people you tag and list their names. No tag backs.

1.I have a very large extended family brother, sisters, aunts, uncle, cousins, cousin’s kids, etc. and we all really like each other! I feel the same way about Nick’s family.

2.Besides the US, I have been to 4 other countries on 3 continents.

3.I have always been a member of the same church. I was baptized, confirmed, married, baptized my kids and buried both my parents at the same little church.

4.I still cut the crust off the bread when I make a sandwich.

5.Nick is the only man I have ever had sex with. In the 25 years we have know each other I have never asked him when he lost his virginity, with whom or how many women he had been with. I never cared. I’m the one he married!

6.We have 2 dogs, 2 cats, and one ferret. I don’t know how I got talked into the ferret.

7.I am a licensed Veterinary Technician. But I haven't worked in that field in over 10 years.

8.If I am awake the TV is on. The sound may be off and I might be listening to music, but the TV is on.

Many of the people I know have been tagged so I'll only do two.
I tag Cassie and Sky.


  1. i was blog surfing & found your site.

    i think it's wonderful that you don't feel insecure about who your husband has been with. storm has been with many, many women, but i've never let that knowledge affect me...when he tells me i'm his favorite - i simply believe him!!

    great site & i'll be back!!

  2. Elis:: You did it! Wow, you got tagged twice, I wonder if that means you have to do another eight. Okay, I'll let this one be Grace's and I'll let you off the hook ;D

    We'd have a problem being in the same house...my TV is never on. I find it very intrusive and only watch rarely when MoJo has brought over a DVD from his vast collection.

    I enjoyed reading your list. Somehow, I'm not surprised you have a big happy family.

    **Big Hugs**

  3. Elis, I loved your list, couldn't live in the same house, the TV is only put on for a very rare DVD or if I have very young visitors.
    I envy your large and happy family, I'm an orphan and have no blood relatives that I know of.
    Big hugs,

  4. Elis,
    I like the idea that you have always been in the same place. I have moved so often. But it seems like you have traveled a bit too.

    Don't tell anyone but I usually have the TV on when Tom is not home.


  5. Bossman is the only man I've ever made love too also!!!

    I also have the tv on all the time, but that's only because I have children and if the tv isn't on, they think the world is coming to an end!

    As for the church thing, I moved alot when I was a child, so I didn't have the same church, but Bossman and I attend the same church we were married in,(17 years ago)my children have always gone to this church, so maybe they will be like you when they grown up.

    Thanks for playing!


  6. Wind,
    Yes! Life has enough worries without wondering about past partners.

    You would always be welcomed in our family. Let me know if you are coming to the states and I'll round them all up for you.

    My parents wanted us to see the world. I saw a lot and I still want to live right here.

    I went away to college and live away for about a year. But I came home and have never regretted it.

  7. This meme looks hard.