I am still thinking about Cassie’s advice and it’s a good
feeling. I knew as I was typing it up that I was going to ask Nick to read it.
When he got home Monday afternoon. I told him, “Please read my post today and
read the comments too.”
He sat right down and opened his computer. He read it then
looked up and grinned. “Cassie’s a pretty smart lady.”
I couldn’t agree with him more. I was in my chair, computer
on my lap with one cat draped across my legs, the other across my chest, when
Nick said. “We do need to have a meeting in the bedroom. Be sure to remind me
the next time you get up.
Just for the record, it’s been a LONG time since I’ve been
spanked. But soon enough I dumped the cats and told him I was getting up. Back
in the bedroom he motioned for me to lay over the bed and I was very obedient,
except to say, “Now don’t make it hard for me to enjoy you.”
He pulled out Blondie’s paddle – one of my favorites (in
appearance), but it’s still wood. Nick does not usually lecture and that’s fine
with me. I was pretty sure I knew what this was all about. But he lectured this
time.
“You had a good week last week. You got in all your steps,
you’ve been coming to bed on time and you only gained .4 pounds. But those .4
put you to the line you aren’t supposed to cross.” He’s happily spanking away
all this time. He went on, “Now being the sweet, kind, loving husband that I
am, I would have given you a pass since it was Thanksgiving week. But no, you
said you wanted me to be a hard ass and hold you to our agreement completely.
So, that’s what I’m doing.”
Good grief, how can he spank so fast and talk so slow? He
said to keep up the good work but that next week there would be no reason to be
anywhere near that horrible number. I got a big hug as he finished.
It was a good evening. I’m keeping Cassie’s mantra in my
head. Enjoy your husband.
*Remember to head to the Reading Room today for more questions. There will also be a brand new Fantasy Friday this Friday!
Aw bless him. He is trying.......Hope you have a good week. Keep up the good work and maybe next week it will be a good girl one.
ReplyDeletelove Jan, xx
He is trying. I'm working on what I'm eating.
DeleteGood on Nick! Had to giggle when he mentioned being a hard ass. Could be a double meaning there. Is he being a hard ass when he is hard on your ass? You will have to tell us just how hard.
ReplyDeleteAnd speaking of hard, this is the hardest time of the year to be good about eating. Even if your goal is just to stay at the same weight, that is admirable.
Hugs From Ella
I'd be happy to get down one or two pounds. I should be able to do that.
DeleteLoved Nick's response!
ReplyDelete--Baker
He did good.
DeleteTotally nodding along to the "hard ass" remark. My trick - lay off the carbs. Eat the meat and the veg and just lay off the carbs. It has helped me control my weight tremendously!
ReplyDeleteThat would work, I have no doubt. But for me it's like telling a three pack a day smoker to lay off cigarettes. I know it's for the best, but I'm just not sure I can do it.
Deletelol. i hear you. well, choose which carbs you want and forego the others. eg, i eat potato chips and french fries, and stay away from rice and noodles. in the past i used to eat them ALL. ALL ALL ALL> yummmm. goodluck. oh, and if you still want them all, maybe halve the portions? just trying to help, but feel free to ignore. heh. i totally understand the carb thing.
DeleteI need to listen more than you know. I'm diabetic. I LOVE rice, but according to my blood sugar I really should always stay away. It seems I can eat mashed potato if I don't go overboard. I do love my chips, so I rarely buy them. It just seems to be a constant struggle between what I want and what I know is best for me. I'm pretty good at ignoring what I don't want to hear, but I appreciate friends nudging me to do better anyway.
DeleteThanks for using my paddle, hope it wasn't too hard. Wood can really hurt especially if it's been awhile. Hope the weight comes off and not on.
ReplyDeleteI am still thinking on Cassie's advice to "enjoy my husband". I use to think that I wanted Tom but like Cassie said, I probably wouldn't enjoy him. But sometimes, I would like the consistency. Love and adore my husband though.
I have been fantasying about Tom on and off for 50 years. But Cassie's exactly right, I couldn't stand it in real life.
DeleteI think your paddles are so beautiful. I love them - except the moment it lands on my ass!
Good on Nick - but wood, ouch!
ReplyDeleteRosie xx
Yeah, wood is not always easy.
DeleteAWW that is so sweet that Nick loved Cassie's advice. That paddle does look a bit evil, so next week you better be extra careful on the weight loss. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteHugs Lindy xx
You know me - I think everyone should listen to Cassie! I'm really trying!
DeleteAwww PK...this made me smile. So happy for both of you.
ReplyDeleteHugs and blessings...Cat
Thanks Cat, things are going well.
DeleteOh PK, well done done Nick, loved his response, though not the wood.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Ronnie
xx
Come on Ronnie, it's better than the cane!
DeleteCassie is a wise woman and I'm glad you listened to her.
ReplyDeleteYep, everyone should.
DeleteHi PK, :)Oh this makes me so happy to read! Cassie is a wise woman, and you my Friend, are a very smart lady to have listened to her words, and taken them to heart! "Enjoy your husband!" Beautiful!
ReplyDeleteYou've got a special fella there, PK! He heard you too, and you were treated to a little wood, some loving words and well... love! So happy for you both! Many hugs,
<3 Katie xoxo
He is a very good man! I think I'll keep listening to Cassie.
DeleteI am so glad he is trying to help you...he is hearing you... much love and hugs
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